I'm talking about 10-15 pounds more. Would you feel the same way about them as you did when they were thinner?
2007-02-13 17:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was the one who gained the 10-15 pounds.
2007-02-13 17:39:25 · update #1
Well when i got together with my boyfriend i was 120 now im 135, so i did put on 15 pounds. Him being so supportive and telling me how gorgeous I am even with the extra weight has been amazing. I already feel bad enough about it, I wouldnt need him pointing it out. He also wants to help me, so he goes on walks with me..and we go out to the gym a couple times a week. Plus sometimes he'll fix healthy dinners or snacks. So if you love your significant other, your only concern should be what they want and how you can help them achieve it.
Maybe you could start fixing healthy meals, or sign yourselfs up for a membership with bally (they do couple memberships) or at the Y. Could be fun
2007-02-13 17:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by MeghanGene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel the same way about them as I did when they were thin. However, I would still mention something to them. Chances are they are well aware of the problem. Don't make it sound like you don't love them b/c of their weight gain, just tell them you don't want to see them have health problems associated with weight gain.
In addition, chances are if your partner has gained weight, so have you. When couples become comfortable with one another, they often forget about their weight sometimes and before they know it they have gained. Happened to my boyfriend and myself, we have both put on weight since we started dating 3 years ago.
2007-02-14 01:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love has nothing to with weight, as long as their personality is the same and they dont become lazy, i could care less. oh, they also need to redo their wardrobe to match the weight. looking sloppy is a no-no
2007-02-14 01:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by Chrystopher P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't say nething don't make them mad it sudn't matter to u bout ur other's looks but maybe if it rele bothers u u cud both go work out together or sumthin u no maybe help him get into shape if ur rele worried bout it
2007-02-14 01:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by ME! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you were fat or skinny before. Either way it won't matter.
2007-02-14 02:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt care..and if i did..it will only be because i am worried for thier health..
looks shouldnt matter in a relationship..unless your only in it for the looks.
2007-02-14 01:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say anything...Its happy fat...
2007-02-14 02:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋