He honest to me everything happened between him and the girl, but I feel so hurt when I listen to it. But I couldn't let him hide from me by not telling me. He said they are just lonely because of his gf and her bf have lesser time together and always misunderstanding. He is coming back to me, but should I forgive him that only kiss?
2007-02-13 17:25:29 · 11 answers · asked by y6hueeey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, whats next??? He is trying to blame you for what he did. If he wants more time and attention, he can come to you, not wait for you to come to him...
2007-02-13 19:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to forgive him because he kissed another girl, that is based on the trust you have and if you feel like you can be happy with him, without having an awful feeling in the pit of your stomach whenever you are around him, or worse, when you are not around him. Granted, everyone makes mistakes and would like to be forgiven. However...it seems like the finger is being pointed at you, and that you are being blamed for him doing something that is wrong. That is manipulative, and definitely not right, if he is making you feel guilty because he messed up. You have to decide if the relationship stands a chance, if you can trust him, or if you feel that this guy is messing with your head so that he can have his cake and eat it too. I wish you the best!
2007-02-14 01:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i should tell you to just leave him alone if he gets tempted that easily,but i recognize the point that he is honest, but its never really a good reason to tell you that he did it because you were not paying attention to him,its never right to use that reason to cheat somebody that they really love
i say youre bothered, dont let him come back that easily,have some time to think things through, and come back to him when you still feel the same, and when youre no longer bothered by the kiss, your trust has been ruined, dont trust him again without even making him think things through again..i suggest a cool off
2007-02-14 01:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough call, to be sure. it was only kissing right? while definately a violation of trust, it is not the worst case. it is withing the realm of forgiveness but here comes the hard part.....
was this a one time thing? can you expect your time to gether to increase in the forseeable future? i'm guesing that won't change soon.... so the next question is, do you trust him not to reach out to anouther woman again?
every relationship is different. i'm guessing yours is salvagable, but this was certainly a warning sign that something must change. you could probably work to lower the sources of his insecurities, and he certainly needs to change how he responds to them... it is up to the both of you to decide if the needed changes are worth the good that is there.
2007-02-14 01:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by foo__dd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forgive what you will. what you can. Love is difficult at times.
if you and your boyfriend are estranged...meaning....you left him alone to wonder if there is a relationship...those things happen.
if youre in a daily committed relationship such as a marriage, you have to forgive, start fresh and have renewed faith. bf/gf thing is difficult to offer the perfect advise not knowing the circumstances.
peace
2007-02-14 01:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think people make mistakes. It's really up to you if you can take him back. If you feel that you can trust him and forgive and forget...then by all means...give him another chance. If you can't ..then don't. Good luck!
2007-02-14 01:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is lesser even a word?
anyways..
if he kissed an other girl..how can you be sure he wont do it again.
You have to becareful..he might do it again... and are you just going to take him back everytime he does this?
I think you should look for someone who is more loyal than what he is.
2007-02-14 01:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no Girl you kick his ***. If he is lonely now what is going to make him feel more wanted now. How can you say for sure that he did not sleep with her????
Experience taught me that if they do it once they will do it over and over again.
Good Luck
2007-02-14 01:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by neo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesnt depend upon how much time u give to ur partner...................if u want to forgive him then its very good..............
But to be very frank this is not the excuse............if he has kissed which is not a big deal.........tell him that as he ash admitted he is wrong then admit properly......no need to make excuses.........
if tomr he pays less attention to u and u go out with some one .......will he forgive u??????????? he will get his answer...............
better u forgive him this time!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-14 01:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by summeravi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know it was more than a kiss, or at least would have been. lol
2007-02-14 01:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Chrystopher P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋