Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

2007-02-13 19:34:53 · 3 answers · asked by pedro dagandagan 3 in Singles & Dating

hi, I was having a crush on a guy from work and he turned out to be married with 2 kids...God what was I thinking, thank God I didn't go far with him...everybody is married in here or what??

2007-02-13 19:34:14 · 10 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by surds 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:33:41 · 5 answers · asked by bong_jyde 1 in Singles & Dating

We were together for 9 months (long distance), and have been on and off for another 2 years. He knows I love him and I know he loves me, but he tells me all the time that i need to go find someone "good" for me. Im pretty sure he means "taller" than me... Hes extremely insecure about our height difference. So much that he wont even talk about it. I am supposed to go see him in 2.5 weeks, but, hes acting like hes not sure if he wants me to come or not. I can tell hes afraid. Is there anything I can do to make him feel less insecure ? or make me look shorter ? LOL. I know that sounds stupid... but I need help !! I want to spend the rest of my life with him..

2007-02-13 19:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by Shannon B 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i am light skinned and i hardly ever find a white guy flirt with me . PPl tell me i am pretty so what is up ?

2007-02-13 19:32:08 · 18 answers · asked by britt w 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been going through a really rough time and he has really stepped up to the plate. What can I do to show him that I appreciate him?

2007-02-13 19:29:57 · 16 answers · asked by youngtendaz36104 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-13 19:29:12 · 4 answers · asked by dreamgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend's son is 5 and is very interested in the ladies. he loves looking at his mum's clothing catalogues esp the lingerie/swimwear, he likes playing with his sister's barbie dolls (always removing their clothes), in the shops with his mum the other day when she was getting him a comic he had a tantrum because she wouldn't get him a lads mag. the other day when I was over there with my gf, he was all over her, sitting on her lap, trying to touch her breasts (she was showing a lot of cleavage, big mistake). My friend is worried. Should they see a psychiatrist or is this just a phase. Anyone remember from their own childhood whether this is normal. I don't think I was like this until about 10 at the earliest

2007-02-13 19:29:03 · 19 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Family

what difference between love and friendship? what is love and what is friendship?

2007-02-13 19:28:05 · 6 answers · asked by raza 1 in Friends

They have banned me from watching TV during weekdays (also comp.)

They lie on the lounge and call it "relaxation time"

What should i do to get back my TV rights! :O

2007-02-13 19:27:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

As I plan 2 get married, I am scared of the part when the kids start arriving, because I have seen a lot of marriages turn sour at the arrival of the kids and according to my research, most men start to cheat the moment the kids start arriving. What do u think?

2007-02-13 19:26:36 · 46 answers · asked by Cleopatra 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Or is it just a movie stereotype?I am a woman in my mid 20,s ,
is it wrong for me to always think about sex?I made a choice a long time ago to wait ,not necessarily until i am married,but until I finish getting my career together.

2007-02-13 19:25:33 · 21 answers · asked by irene i 3 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy I like- some friends thought he liked me too. We're not that close though... he lives in my dorm. He's called me untouchable, classy, and said we should party together sometime. We had lunch.
So I made this guy a really creative val. that said "i like you" on the inside. He caught me taping it to his door, and read it while my friend and I were there.
He opened it, stared, and then smiled and said thank you. He then made a joke about how conversation hearts were only good when glued to a card (thats how it was with mine), and talked about glue. He was also pretty drunk, but he gave me and my friend hugs and told me that he would "treasure it always".
Not really the straightforward "I like you too" or "I dont like you like that" I was hoping for, but my guy friend (who was helping me deliver) said that it could be because I had a lot of Valentines that we were delivering, and he's not sure I meant it like that.
Any thoughts? He was drunk, but even so... boys...

2007-02-13 19:24:53 · 5 answers · asked by Lee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:22:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive just been rejected by my new girlfriend sexually.when she removed my underware she started laughing at my penis erection,saying quote{my thumb is bigger than that tiny thing}.i wouldn't be sharing this except that every woman i have ever been with reacts the same way about it,so now im wondering if i should get an operation???

2007-02-13 19:20:48 · 2 answers · asked by hopelesslysexless 1 in Singles & Dating

for example, say you were dancing with a girl in a club who was hot, and u noticed scars on her that looked like they were from self harm, would you be turned off, or scared even?! what would you do?!?! would you think she was now ugly?

2007-02-13 19:18:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just wanted to see what people thought... I don't really have anyone to vent frustrations at or anyone to give me advise... I I thought I'd see a strangers point of view on this letter I just sent to my former fiance' a few minutes ago, I left him a month ago.

2007-02-13 19:18:54 · 4 answers · asked by ABK_SCRUB 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you deal with the reality that you can't have the only one you want? He's the only one I want and need in my life, and I love him more than anything. Problem is, he is in love with someone else, I'm guessing they will get married (although they aren't officially engaged yet).

He's all I think about, and it's so hard for me to watch him move on and love someone else. All I want is him. And now I know it never can be again, so how do I deal with knowing it will never happen?

How do you watch the one you love, love somebody else? How do I make it stop hurting? I miss him so much, that it hurts, I can't even explain how I feel.

My heart is broken, it won't heal. Time hasn't helped. I can't stop crying. He's all I've ever wanted, but now he'll never know...

2007-02-13 19:17:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:15:51 · 19 answers · asked by surds 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:14:17 · 10 answers · asked by crazy T. 1 in Singles & Dating

would it be wrong of me to send my ex an email an tell him how i feel to see if there is any chnce for us before i move on??
i still love him
we have been apart for nearly a year. is it too late???
and should i tell him all my feelings or just come out and ask simply if hed give us another chance???
we have had contact over the year and he has been driving past my house but he said it was coz he was worried bout me....
we were together for 4.5 years he is 30 and i am 23.

do i email him and tell him i miss you or tell him all o my feelings for him???

2007-02-13 19:13:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It's a strapless A-line, with a side split, but they all are poofy with trains. I definitely do not want a train, and would like to remove some layers.

Is this possible? Alterations cost a fortune?

I've looked at destination wedding gowns, but they seem to simple to me. It's only going to be me and my fiance at the wedding, then a small informal reception outdoors when we return a few months later. I'd like to wear it to that too.

2007-02-13 19:12:51 · 2 answers · asked by Advice Please 3 in Weddings

well, this is my situation. a guy likes me since we met on 2004.but i was with other guy then. so he kept waiitng until now that i am single, i've opened my heart for him. :) but the problem is that he told me he likes me but he also like other girl. but at the same time he wants me to be his gf. obviously, he loves 2 girls at the same time. what will u do in this situation? i dont really know if i should give him a chance or just forget about him. i know it hurts so much to share a boyfriend with other girl. or is he just wants to test if i really love him or not that i would be with him even through time and tide???? what should i say to him to express my feeling? i want to be with him until the end of time. please help.

p/s: he has so many girls' phone number in her phone book, which he always contact them, call them and text them. i feel jealous about this. how do i know if he really serious with me?

2007-02-13 19:08:49 · 18 answers · asked by ctkm 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 22 year old college student and I have been dating this really hot German guy. He is really nice, educated, and we have a ton in common, but he is 39.


Question:
Do you think he is too old for me, or do you think age is just a number ?


Other Details:
-I am 22 (American, half Swedish and half Japanese) and he is a 39 year old (German, but he has lived in the US for 2 years)
-He is really nice, funny, smart, great looking, and educated (He also has a super sexy accent)
-Even though he is 39 he really looks like he is in his 20s
-We have been dating for about 2 months


Thank You for your help :)

2007-02-13 19:07:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:07:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll try to make this as short and simple as possible, but the history of this relationship is just a total mess...

Basically, my mom and I have NEVER gotten along, not since I was born (literally). My mom has always resented me and always been very jealous of me. Even my grandma (my mother's mom) had said so. I've been verbally, mentally, emotionally (and sometimes physically) abused by my mother since I was a kid. If it weren't for my maternal grandma and my Pops, I'd probably have killed myself so many years ago, but these two amazing people helped me see who I REALLY am and to remain strong and overcome the hardships I'd been through.

Now is the hard part: I need to break with my mom. I've tried to break contact with her before, but I always go back because she makes my life even MORE miserable by telling insane lies about me to the rest of the family in an attempt to isolate me.

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2007-02-13 19:06:50 · 16 answers · asked by Megan V 4 in Family

There is this gal who always turns down my requets of being her boyfriend but soon after does or says something to give me hope like 'dont rush me', 'if you were my boyfriend...' or 'give me time'. We often even do things together like shopping and asks my opinion on what to wear or hair stlye to put on. when we are alone she holds my hand like lovers do and gives me squeezing hugs . we are yet to kiss . She tells me her secrets and i know she trusts me.
but she flirts with strangers even in my presence? she simply does not care! shes very pretty, so naturally people are always after her. and i cant ask, shes not my girlffriend- Remember?
is she really interested or should i quiet.

2007-02-13 19:05:29 · 6 answers · asked by Dr.Goodluv 1 in Singles & Dating

in a funny, but genuine way.....??

2007-02-13 19:05:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here is how it goes... am m/29 and single and also looking... but haven't found anyone special to settle down with. am worried that if i hold out any more will not find any suitable girl to marry ..(people from India might connect with this problem). friends and relatives have put this fear in my head that the choice of partners to choose from will gradually dwindle as age progresses. I think i may require some more time to make it i.e career-wise and mentally...or may be that may never even happen (who knows !!!)..but i fear that these pressures might just get to me one of these days..

Now for the twist in the tale...am also painfully shy even if my 'dream girl' were to look me in the eye...wouldn't probably be able to make ANY move...at all. have never been out on a date or asked any girl out... though had my chances ..just didn't take them.

LOOKING FOR SERIOUS ADVICE ONLY....save me the wisecracks.

2007-02-13 19:03:13 · 2 answers · asked by Cheshirecat 1 in Singles & Dating