2007-02-13 19:14:17 · 10 answers · asked by crazy T. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
spend time with someone who does want to spend time with you. go out with some of your girl friends.
2007-02-13 19:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by Gruntled Employee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Above all, do not let the person know you want them to spend time with you if you have let them know once, only once is allowed. That way if they get lonesome or decide you are the better or best company, they will want to be with you. Do not chase them or you will only be a nuisance and make yourself unwanted and drive them away. Also, they will know you are always available so why bother getting close to you when there are other possibilities available? In the meantime seek othe company.
2007-02-13 19:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by syrious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to find someone else to want to spend time with you. apparently this person is lame and is missing out. You should be with someone better anyway so just get over them and youll be all good But first you have to stop thinking about it and ur one step closer. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-13 19:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by britt w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing you can do is spend time with other people. Don't sit around waiting on one person or you will miss out on a lot in life.
2007-02-13 19:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to spend time w/you. They spend time with you because they REALLY want to or they're just putting up a front. Find other people who like hanging out w/you and enjoy your company. It'll be that person(s) loss for not wanting to spend time w/you.
2007-02-13 19:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by Filero24 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been through the same thing and the only answer is forget that person and find someone that wants to spend time with you and then soon you will forget!!!
2007-02-13 19:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry D H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl Ive been to your situation now, I was so in love with the guy that my life goes around with him until time came that he was starting to make a move away from me. I still tried to make things work, chasing , calling until I realized that i am already making a fool out of me. I started going out with my friends which I neglected because of him and I found out that I missed almost half of my life spending time worrying and thinking about him. I stop thinking of him and make myself busy with anything, meet lots of friends, starting to socialized with other peers. Then i just woke up in the morning happy and with another man in my life which is now with me until now. Life is to short to be sad and worry things which are not worth it. You have to be clever in this world. Im not saying find another guy or go into a relationship, just start moving on , meeting friends. relationship will just come through, you will not know.
Now I am happy and the guy whom I spent all my crasy time is trying to get back to me by sending messages thru friends but it's too late. And I feel that It's about Pay time.
2007-02-13 19:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard but I suggest you find a new friend as quickly as possible, go out & enjoy life & move on.
Don't mope around feeling sorry for yourself you will find someone better.
Good luck
2007-02-13 19:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont blame yourself. If you know that you are good enough to be friends with people then do it. Dont let one bad report hold you back. You know what you want and what youre worth, dont let one person convince you otherwise.
2007-02-13 19:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who wants to be with you, good luck
2007-02-13 19:17:40 · answer #10 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋