Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

im in live with my lover...from the last 6 years...4 years ago we had sex v enjoyed alot.then we had it regularly.2 years back he came with a proposal to my home my parents denied.in our society it is very shame ful if u do court marriage.so we didnt thnk about it,.we met and enjoyed sex knwing that our parents will not agree to our wish.last year i got very dissappointed and i called him and said that if my parenys do not agree i shall never meet u again.i loved him but i said that he said that his parents want to engage him with his cousion and he got engaged he said that all this was by force from his parents.now he is geeting marry with here after a month.and he says to me that when i will finish my studies we'll get marry ..then i will also b indipendent im studying.n he is doing job.fron all this what do u say what should i do.wait for him or what.he says that he will not touch her and not do sex.shd i believe him,will he do what he has promised ??help me.we love 1another2muchh

2007-02-13 19:54:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She broke up with me one month ago saying she dont love me enough!!She did not contact me for the past months liao! But i love her cant forget her, just sent her 108 Violets to her, thinking of proposing to her tonight!! What do you think???

2007-02-13 19:53:46 · 12 answers · asked by Ryan Ong 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:53:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-13 19:53:42 · 15 answers · asked by Mekdy 1 in Weddings

What happens if you have two couples who are possessive in their relationships? Since they are possessive—they both call each other a lot too much especially at let’s say 2:30 in the morning or at random times in the morning both are too jealous/insure and have obsession for each other, and both set restrictions or limitations on having guy/girl friends. I believe my friend and his girlfriend are possessive equally. So I was just wondering—what I mentioned above is what they both exhibit.

2007-02-13 19:52:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wanted to know

2007-02-13 19:51:42 · 19 answers · asked by dobo c 1 in Singles & Dating

it is a small question my daughter asked to me but i really have no answer
i thinked about this and i find it is true
women wear now very open and sexy clotthes in malls,streets,beaches,...etc but men no
women wear very sexy dresses in night parties but men wear loyal suits and ties
women wear thongs on beach and now topless
all actresses and female singers depend on showing wide areas of thier bodies but males singers no they depend more on thier voices
nearly all actresses have nude scienes and nude shots but most actors no
you can find internet is full of nude women and girls but men are far far less
why men looks always more gravity? why women doesnt respect thier bodies as old
i really excuse her but i relly dont know how to answer her

2007-02-13 19:51:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:51:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can I trade her in for two twenty year olds??

2007-02-13 19:47:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:47:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any good wayz guys that you do so u can help me

2007-02-13 19:46:04 · 3 answers · asked by persianoooo 1 in Singles & Dating

American women have fundamental problems 1. The inherent anti-male bias and pre-occupation with fairness that has been drilled into their head throughout their upbringing which is the root of constant confrontations and their driving need to make a point and get the last word in. 2. Their self-centeredness, ridiculously high expectations, sense of entitlement, the high-maintenance, superficial, and stuck up attitude, snootiness and sense of superiority. This "princess syndrome" means that she will always think that she is better than you and that she deserves and is entitled to whatever she wants from you. 3. Their general mental instability and psychological disorders caused by being brought up in this "oprah" society. 4. most important, their need to use sex as a weapon to get what they want. In conclusion,Any man who has spent a few months out of the U.S. will not even dream of marrying an American woman again. I prefer Asian, southern pacific and eastern european women.

2007-02-13 19:46:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I Have This Crush On This Guy In One Of My Classes......I'm Gonna Ask Him Out......But, I'm So Scared Of Rejection And Etc......What Is A Good Way To Ask A Guy Out Without Seeming Desperate, Dumb, Cheap, Lame, Etc??

2007-02-13 19:45:19 · 8 answers · asked by ~*~Bu113f1y K1ss3s~*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

..My fiancees ex(whom we are both still friends with) pretty much assumes she is in the wedding which,..the way i have it planned out..SHES NOT. I have 3 bridesmaids and they are my closest of friends. She just basically 'puts' herself in the wedding when we talk about it. Like...Oh, i dont care who im matched up with to walk with the groomsmen down the aisle...Well shes not and i have never really been one for letting people down and im not sure how to break it to her. or should i basically let her figure it out. (me and her have had about 3 arguements before,..about stupid shi.t and...i really dont find her as much of a friend as she thinks of me).,....i dont know what to do!!!

2007-02-13 19:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I broke up with my gf of 4years four month ago. in that time she met up with sumone new. i dont know if this guy was a factor when we broke up. now the guy has dump her and she is starting to contact me again. what should i do? i still love her.

2007-02-13 19:44:25 · 15 answers · asked by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 in Singles & Dating

Hey all you people. There'a nothing wrong for me to wish you all a Happy Valentine's Day. So there. I said it. Happy Valentine's Day to all of people around the world. I hope you have a great, memorable time. Also a beautiful time. Because you will, ok? Whether you have someone or not. It can be your friend in heart, your brother, sister, mother, father, aunt, uncle, cousin, grandma, grandpa, god mother and father, god sis or bro, or your pet. Who ever you adore. If you're lonesome today, get out for a change and have fun. I encourage you. Don't depress yourself that will lead to despair. Drive your life to happiness, as much as you can. Color a smile today. Put yourself into motion. Again, I wish you guys the best with all my heart. Peace!

2007-02-13 19:42:02 · 7 answers · asked by Drivliam 6 in Friends

I'm the only sophomore in biology class and the rest are freshmen. This girl I don't know very well in this class suddenly started to talk to me after the first semester when we were in a study group.


While i was at tennis try-out she suddenly hugs me and i don't really know her.


She also fixes my jacket hud and says that it just annoy's her.


She ask my to join viet club and take a picture with the club even though this would be my first meeting there.

she ask me to be her partner for international week(i would have to dance infront of the whole school with her) but i rejected her, then i say srry. I ask her if she was getting another partner she says that "i dont really wanna be partnered with another guy but whatever"


Her friends ask me if i was looking for a girlfriend and also introduces me to her friend.


DOES SHE LIKE ME OR WE JUST FRIENDS

2007-02-13 19:42:00 · 17 answers · asked by Hoang D 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm saving myself for marriage. how will i know she will be into sex? should i bring up sex before getting married? if i do anything to please her and help her, will she be willing to try anything in bed? I guess i'm just worried on how are sex life will be? It's my standards that i want to wait, but i just can't help but to wonder.

2007-02-13 19:41:06 · 9 answers · asked by yaabro 4 in Marriage & Divorce

happy Valentines day to all!!!!!

2007-02-13 19:41:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one of my friends is always depressed this time of the year for having lost her dad ...its been abt 5 years and she is still depressed. she says she was mad at him and said she hated him on the day he died. now she wished that she could have said she loved him when she had a chance. she was a young teen and rebellious. so plz help me out to help her out by telling her the right things... i cant see her depressed like this...

2007-02-13 19:40:31 · 7 answers · asked by Mitchell T 1 in Family

The other day I went to the gym at night as usual. I was doing my routine and the girl in the front desk announced over the speakers that it was closing time even though there was 10 minutes left according to their own clocks on the walls. It was a Saturday night so I assume she had a date or something to do because she seemed upset and was announcing over the speakers over and over again that the gym was closed and that we should be considerate. What she did next stunned me. She went into the men's locker room and started yelling that the gym was closed and for the guys to get out. The yelling part didn't bother me even though it was annoying but what bothered me was the fact that she had gone into the men's locker room and noone said anything. If she had been a guy she would probably be in jail right now. Needless to say I had to report her to the manager the following day but I'm pretty sure she'll get a slap on the wrist. Do you think women get away with alot these days?

2007-02-13 19:40:17 · 5 answers · asked by jorarmando 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy in Nov he'd call but i'd always be too busy to c him,we saw each other out a couple of times an would talk. In Jan we got together and ended up having sex. He lives a hour a way and he works from 1:45p.m. to 10:00p.m. so it doesnt leave much time for us to see each other but every now an then i come over after he gets off work or we meet up at a club on the weekend an end up spending the nite together. We talk on the phone like once a week an text maybe twice a week. when i see him he says he wants me to be his girl or i'm his baby but it's almost a week b4 i hear from him again. I'm not sure if it's because he works long hrs or does he have a gf or maybe because i don't call that much cause he always ask why he haven't heard from me or seen me in so long. I really like this guy but i'm not sure he likes me or what he says is true. i asked him was i just a piece of AS$ to him, he told he really does care about me an he enjoys the time we spend but i'm still not sure.

2007-02-13 19:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by s21Renee 1 in Singles & Dating

So I took people's advice about giving my ex a taste of his own medicine. I pretended to be incredibly happy with life and like I'm having a great time (even though on the inside im dying).. and my ex seems like he's really depressed and feels lonely and seeing me happy has made him even more depressed. I think he's getting what he deserves, I dont wanna sound harsh, but what he did to me was unfair and cruel. The only thing now is, I miss him a lot, and even though I'm acting happy on the outside, I'm really hurting on the inside, and I dont know what to do. I know I deserve better than him but I cant help it, I just feel so hopeless. Is faking my feelings and acting happy really the right way to go about it? Do I have a better chance of him coming back to me if I act happy or if I act sad?

2007-02-13 19:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by Julie H 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 15 years old and I had a boyfriend that is 23, we broke up and now we're talking about getting back together...Is he too old for me? We dont have sex and all we do is makeout, hes never tried to pressure me into anything but all my friends keep saying hes too old.

2007-02-13 19:37:19 · 23 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:35:53 · 8 answers · asked by Sasha 2 in Singles & Dating

then you might believe too.

2007-02-13 19:35:50 · 2 answers · asked by yourunavailable 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 19:35:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what shal;l i do

2007-02-13 19:35:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-13 19:35:00 · 16 answers · asked by sunnee07 2 in Weddings

I started my highschool two years later than other people after transferring from a school where I was bullied. I had this inferior feeling for too long from other people. There was this group of girls that I thought was really cool- smart, funny, fun, popular(I didn't know that at the time though!) and cool. I tried talking to a few of them occassionally. They added me to their myspace, and after talking to them for a while, I heard them bitching about me as I walked out of assembily, and talking about what a loser I am.

Everyone loves them! I haven't talked to them since, and have closed my myspace so I wouldn't make a fool of myself again.

The problem is, they keep sending friends over to talk to me. I know they think I'm stupid, but I don't think theres anything I can or should do.

They happen to be in two of my classes, and they won't stop staring at me. I feel too embarrassed to talk or ask questions in class because I know they'll ***** about me later.

2007-02-13 19:34:53 · 4 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships