So I took people's advice about giving my ex a taste of his own medicine. I pretended to be incredibly happy with life and like I'm having a great time (even though on the inside im dying).. and my ex seems like he's really depressed and feels lonely and seeing me happy has made him even more depressed. I think he's getting what he deserves, I dont wanna sound harsh, but what he did to me was unfair and cruel. The only thing now is, I miss him a lot, and even though I'm acting happy on the outside, I'm really hurting on the inside, and I dont know what to do. I know I deserve better than him but I cant help it, I just feel so hopeless. Is faking my feelings and acting happy really the right way to go about it? Do I have a better chance of him coming back to me if I act happy or if I act sad?
2007-02-13 19:38:04 · 9 answers · asked by Julie H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't have to "act" at all. Just be yourself all of the time. Many girls think they have to do all the right things, and then later they regret it because now it is expected.
2007-02-13 19:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by charlies mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's completely organic for you to be questioning about his ex. She replaced into an particularly important area of his lifestyles for a lengthy time period and that should be daunting. i imagine i might want to also be fearful about her turning up again. although, from an intruder's perspective i might want to assert that it would not look as once you've a lot to pressure about. the actual incontrovertible reality that this guy managed a 13 365 days lengthy relationship shows he's comfortable in a dedicated relationship and the actual incontrovertible reality that you adult adult males are waiting besides signifies that by technique of then you'll recognize for particular that you at the on the spot are not a rebound woman. also, by technique of then you'll have an excellent more desirable sensible theory of no matter if the ex if in all danger to modern any form of situation.
2016-11-03 10:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give everybody a chance. You both still love each other. Maybe he will treat you better next time, if not, just leave.
2007-02-13 19:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself if you really want to go back to that, if he's worth it? Was he concerned about your feelings when he was doing what he did to you? If he valued your relationship, he wouldn't have put it at risk in the first place.
2007-02-13 19:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by ∂ίятУ ℓάυиḋгÿ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at the objective. u want him back so give him space so that he can come and be with u in a nice manner.
2007-02-13 19:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did something SOO unfair and cruel to you once then what makes you think he wont do it again. find someone new.
2007-02-13 19:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by JZX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop caring about other people and worry about yourself. people will only hurt you. plus if you take him back he will walk all over you.
2007-02-13 19:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by phobosaffear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart read your question over, it is wearing on him, why change now.
2007-02-13 19:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be nice
2007-02-13 19:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋