Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

I have never been in Love... (I dont like Star Trek or computers...) so I dont think I am a geek...had a few girlfriends... but so far have not experienced anything close to an Elton John love song... so

whats it like ? and...

Anyone else in the same boat ?

2007-02-13 21:29:00 · 17 answers · asked by redwood1775 2 in Singles & Dating

he has given me valentines present && flowers.
and talked to mates bout me..
i rllly like troy.
butt he has never ever told me he loves me!?
does that mean he doesnt?
x

2007-02-13 21:26:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Shes ridiculous. She is old and annoying. She lives with my dad, brother and i and i cannot stand her. She thinks she runs this place, but the only reason why she is here is because she went broke and my dad wants to help her out. All i want is for her to get the hell out of here and i am trying to show my dad that she is doing nothing but create problems, but he doesnt see this. All she does is nag about how my dad runs his life and makes things up to tell her daughter (my aunt.) My aunt then tells my gram to write down what she needs and wants. My dad does the best he can, but he i dont feel like putting up with her b.s. and neither does my brother. I constantly find myself and brother fighting with her. All i want is my dad to get rid of her already...any ideas on how to plot this out?!

2007-02-13 21:25:59 · 11 answers · asked by ughhh 3 in Family

I asked him out for an event and he said he has tuition class to teach. the bus came so I went off. the next day he asked me how that event went. he apologised and says he had to teach tuition. i chickened out and kept changin topic but he kept saying about 4 times "I would have come if I didn't have tuition class you know" all the while staring into my eyes.

Actually I asked him out only cos I thought he had a crush on me. There were a lot of signs but now I only hope they aren't my wistful imagaintion

Do you think he's not interested in me? Which do you think is right?

1) "he's just feeling bad. maybe he's the soft type that feels bad when he rejects people or smth. or maybe he's trying to tell you he's not at all that bad as you would think of him to be when he sorta didnt turn up for the date. if he's really interested in you he'd have asked you out for another date. or suggest smth along that line."\

OR

2) he's interested he is just shy trying to get you to ask him

2007-02-13 21:25:57 · 8 answers · asked by lobo j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:25:35 · 14 answers · asked by Urban Hermit 4 in Singles & Dating

Girls, or guys, it doesn't matter (only married or engaged) how did he?she pop the question to you? or if u done it, how did you do it?

2007-02-13 21:25:22 · 3 answers · asked by stevieglenwright 3 in Singles & Dating

Two years ago I fell in love with this girl that lives overseas even though I was only with her for about 4 weeks, maybe less. I think I still love her but I'm not sure now because its been about two years since I've seen her and I feel really bad because I never call her or anything, I never even really chat with her online.
I still love her but I don't know if I'm "in love" with her. Anyway the last time I contacted her I gave her the impression that I still love her, but I don't know, and I think she still loves me because she told me she loves me.

Should I call her and tell her I don't love her anymore just so I get breaking her heart over with? or should I consider holding on to what we have left for as long as possible, in which case should I call her tonight because its valentines day?

2007-02-13 21:24:43 · 4 answers · asked by Tha Most Shady 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

started dating a guy over the last week. wanna do something tonight without being too cheesy and coupley!!!!

what would you do?

2007-02-13 21:23:59 · 7 answers · asked by Carrot 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:23:38 · 8 answers · asked by Advice Please 3 in Weddings

2007-02-13 21:23:08 · 4 answers · asked by ajo 1 in Friends

We hv bn a professional acquaintence for 7-8 yrs.He gradually tried 2 cm close 2me. &gradually he starting touching me. He is married &has a child. But he says he loves me.I tried staying away frm him sevrl tms but he is a nice friend &cares for me. I like his company a lot but don't approve the idea of physical intimacy. Otherwise he is very nice to me and respects me a lot. But I am afraid that he is just pretending to b like that. We have had break ups 4-5 times in these yrs on this issue only & every time he says he won't touch me if i don't like that.But evrytime it starts again from holding my hand(while driving, watching movie etc.) &kissing on hand. Physicaly he really attracts me 2but i just always keep pushing him away as i know all this is wrong. He recently crosed all limits and kissed me on my br***ts. Though tht moment gave me pleasure as it was a nice feeling(I am 30& still single &, was untouched b4 tht)After that i had a feeling of guilt &stoped talkng2 him.Wht do I d

2007-02-13 21:23:04 · 11 answers · asked by kirti 1 in Singles & Dating

i met a guy and found out later he did have a girlfriend he lives wit and yes i did cont.to see him since we have been seeing each other i played a dirty joke on him and broke into his voicemail changed his passcode so he could not get his messages & took his voice off the greeting &put my voice on there and i had joked wit him again told him that if he kept playing i was going to be sitting in his livingroom& and to spice it up i printed his directions from mapquest and gave him the directions we at least talk every 2-3days since that happned i have not heard one thing from him i mean i would never show up at the mans house thats just to over the top it was just a joke but i guess after that phone incident he does not know what to expect from me

2007-02-13 21:21:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should i be down that i never recieved a valentines day card?

or celebrating my singleton life?

your answers please..

2007-02-13 21:21:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:20:34 · 9 answers · asked by raghubirsharan sraghu 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:20:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

this is really disturbing me because i do not believe in ANY thing like that. I have an older brother and hes in a better word to put it "loser"... he has never had a girlfriend and he falls in love with every girl he meets. he's overly goofy and has major moodswings. anyways, we used to be really close with our cousins, but as we grew up things started to change and ppl now consider my cousin pretty. My brother cant stop talking about her and although he doesnt admit that he likes her, he'll say stuff like "whats wrong with liking your cousin?" and he'll like make fun of her boyfriend or whatever. What can i do about this? He's not good looking, he refuses to workout, he thinks hes tough but everyday he justs sits on his computer and plays 1$ poker. Im really good with the ladies but if i show him my ways, he'll say something like "you cant just trick a girl into having sex with you... or i dont just want sex or... i have to meet someone that matches my personality." help plz!

2007-02-13 21:19:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here in europe we like it natural. As an average european man I hate breast implants and plastic surgery.
Are there any woman who made experiences with european an european man. The good ones and the bad ones

2007-02-13 21:16:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:16:24 · 8 answers · asked by jamiedesuka 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Valentines day is up in the air. its all flowers and love up in the air. But my cat wont even cuddle up to me. For starters she chose to sleep downstairs instead of on my bed with me last night. And today she cant even be bothered with me. I am so sad. I doubt she will even have dinner with me tonight.

2007-02-13 21:16:04 · 9 answers · asked by tchickiedee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:12:05 · 11 answers · asked by bhagyashree_mba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we are in jordan (middle east) and in our country families forbids this and because of this i didnot confess my love to the girl please tell me what to do?

2007-02-13 21:11:54 · 16 answers · asked by raid k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:11:51 · 15 answers · asked by shy 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:09:42 · 26 answers · asked by somebody 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Remember your birthday? Buy you presents - how often? Tell you things ... ideas ...

2007-02-13 21:09:41 · 13 answers · asked by Michael B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

THE QUESTION IN FULL:
Ladies:
What's the ultimate/greatest/loveliest/
beautiful/wonderful/unique things (for a man)
to write romantically about a woman?

2007-02-13 21:09:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For 6 months my girlfriend of 3 years has been having a text-message relationship with another man. She tells me she's only met him twice ever, so it seems it's purely text-based. Now she has told me she has feelings for him. She knows I've been worrying & angonising over this for a long time but she continued always saying it was just friends. I never dealt with it properly even though I knew something was amiss.

We talked and she saw how devastated I am. To her credit, she is racked with guilt, but is confused about whether she wants me and wants to try to make a go of things. She changes her mind daily (although it's only been 2 days since it all hit the fan).

Would some time apart help? It seems she needs to deal with her guilt before she can decide about our relationship.The problems will still be there after a few weeks, but would it be best for her to deal with this guilt on her own or does she need me around for that? I' devastated but I still love her

2007-02-13 21:08:49 · 10 answers · asked by zoot 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:08:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:06:55 · 7 answers · asked by lettinggo7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is very beautiful. She could get any guy that she wanted. I know that she likes guys, and so do I, but she asks me all the time if I want to make out with her. The first time she asked, I just laughed and walked away, thinking it was a joke. A week later, she asked me again, it doesn't bother me, I honestly find it flattering, and I kind of want to do it too. Since I realized that I wanted to do it as well, I have been having dreams about the two of us, more than making out, and I catch myself looking at her as more than a friend.
Does all of this mean that I'm gay, or bi or somthing?

P.S. I am not some immiture teenager asking this question. I am a grown woman, just wondering what is going through my mind.

2007-02-13 21:06:33 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Brandy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 21:05:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating