we are in jordan (middle east) and in our country families forbids this and because of this i didnot confess my love to the girl please tell me what to do?
2007-02-13 21:11:54 · 16 answers · asked by raid k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I live in Jordan too. I am christian and I have a relation ship with a muslim. Yes it is very hard but we do not care what people say and we love each other very much We do not go out very often. I know what he feels he knows me very well and we know what we want from life. If yoiu relly love her fight for you relationship and for her. And tell her the true together you can take the best decision.
2007-02-13 21:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you are in a very difficult position. Love does not conquer all, unfortunately. Not when religion is involved. Converting is not a solution either. Perhaps you can confide in your parents and ask for their counseling. I am not familiar with the Muslim religion but I do know it is very strict in their way of thinking. Just don't take any rash actions which might lead to a lot of unhappiness. Good luck.
2007-02-14 05:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Fellina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you what to do but I will ask a couple of questions.
How important is your family to you?
How important is the girl?
Have you discussed anything with her?
Tell her. She's Christian so she likely won't say a word to anyone else. See what she thinks.
If she sees a relationship with you as a possibility then you can discuss it and how it will affect the families before hand.
2007-02-14 05:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by David W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you family loves you they must understand, if they don't understand, they will have to get use to the idea that you are your own person whit your own desires and your own life.
We should love each other not matter what.
i married somebody out of my culture too, very far from my culture
i had to move to the other side of the world, it has been hard to deal with many differences, but it is worthed.
2007-02-14 05:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by nomno13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What to do, my,my. Well pal, your going to suffer cause you can't do what is needed. Gotta stand up to Islam. Tell them your leaving town, don't say where, or why. Get a Mexican Citizenship, and then a green card to get to the U.S. Meet the girl here, start life over, become a Mormon.
2007-02-14 05:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by hoodwink 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, unless ya have 2 heads 4 arms and turn orange a noon, do what most of the rest of humans do, follow your heart, your heart, not your zipper,do ya even have a zipper?,oh well,just do it, tah hell with every thing else, just tell her, and drop the word CONFESS!and FORBID
2007-02-14 05:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Billie R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should leave the girl alone, do you not
get killed if you dishonor you family for taking
a woman that is not Muslim or of your race..???
If you do love this girl as you say then you will
have to leave you country in order to be happy.
Good Luck......,
2007-02-14 05:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love her, you shouldnt care about what her religion is or what your family or community think... Love has no boundries.. Don't care about what religion says... Christian or Muslim doesnt matter... love has no religion... an dont convert your religion either.. if she loves you too she would take you as you are...
2007-02-14 05:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by :( 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
marry her. forget your family - true love overides everything. you only live once. you dont want to spend the rest of your life in misery do you?
2007-02-14 05:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write sweet love letters to her.
2007-02-14 05:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋