I asked him out for an event and he said he has tuition class to teach. the bus came so I went off. the next day he asked me how that event went. he apologised and says he had to teach tuition. i chickened out and kept changin topic but he kept saying about 4 times "I would have come if I didn't have tuition class you know" all the while staring into my eyes.
Actually I asked him out only cos I thought he had a crush on me. There were a lot of signs but now I only hope they aren't my wistful imagaintion
Do you think he's not interested in me? Which do you think is right?
1) "he's just feeling bad. maybe he's the soft type that feels bad when he rejects people or smth. or maybe he's trying to tell you he's not at all that bad as you would think of him to be when he sorta didnt turn up for the date. if he's really interested in you he'd have asked you out for another date. or suggest smth along that line."\
OR
2) he's interested he is just shy trying to get you to ask him
2007-02-13 21:25:57 · 8 answers · asked by lobo j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you see, I think he would definitely have asked me out if he was interested in me. The fact htat I opened the door for him and he didn't step in shoul dmake it clear he is not interested right?
yet he seems so into me. that intense stare when he apologised still takes my breath away
2007-02-13 21:33:02 · update #1
he is the shy type. but he is so good looking and looks like a jock it seems impossible he is shy or that shy. so I think he is not interested really
2007-02-13 21:35:29 · update #2
he like's you. you should ask him out. He really wanted to know how it was , and you just made him think you are not into him. Apoligize and tell him you understand.
Robin
2007-02-13 21:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by robin r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds interesting. As far as convincing you I hate to say this but I don't think anyone could do that. When I met my ex husband I went to counseling to have her convince me to not be with him. I was so in lust after him. Thought it was love but I couldn't pull myself away. The first thing she told me was to read this book -- The Woman Who Loves Too Much" I didn't read then because I hated reading. 15 years later after years of horrible fighting and a divorce I started reading. I read it and many of Joyce Meyers books. Guess what? After reading the book, I should have read it before any relationship. I still re read it every so often. To make a long story short, don't have the mindset of do I or don't I. Just take each moment in time as it is and make loads of friends to help through the lonely times. If you can't be happy alone you won't ever be happy with any single person at all. Happiness comes from inside yourself and the way you see life. No single person can make you happy. Hope it helps and if you don't get what I'm saying you can always email me back. Pray about it, just a short quick "God, what do I do?", then ask for the ability to hear his voice and thank him for the answer even tho you don't have it yet. Sometimes no answer is the answer. Each relationship in life is a growing process we can learn from if we choose too. I see it as cleaning houses, after cleaning each new house I realize what I like and what I don't like about whatever it is in the home. So someday when I do find the right house I won't have to pay money out for furniture or things I know will bug the heck out of me later. Good Luck
2007-02-14 05:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by nannasducky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 2 cause he told you already that he had to do something. He's asking you cause he cares. It would of been cute if he ak you and you said, " it would of been better if you came'" lol.
Anyways, sometimes I'm busy too so I can't my girl and I don't go out much. You know school and work gets in the way. Just hang in there or tell him straight out so you wouldn't waste your time.
2007-02-14 05:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
risk it again and ask him out... suggest to him to give you a day when he does not have any plans. from his reaction you should get a hint if he is really interested in you or not. if he does not give you a day to go out together or keeps saying he is busy, then quit insisting and find someone else.
2007-02-14 05:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be number one...or maybe he really does have tuition...and wait untill he asks you next time...or maybe give it a try sum other time and make sure u know ahead of his plans such as if he has tution..dont ask him that day...etc
2007-02-14 05:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Legant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you only need to give him a little time and stop over analyzing things.
2007-02-14 05:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by lilith2104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was interested he would have asked you to go some place else when he really had free time...since he hasn't done so i would say forget it now........
2007-02-14 05:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by futurecreationsusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't give up...never...
2007-02-14 05:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by miaghysun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋