Two years ago I fell in love with this girl that lives overseas even though I was only with her for about 4 weeks, maybe less. I think I still love her but I'm not sure now because its been about two years since I've seen her and I feel really bad because I never call her or anything, I never even really chat with her online.
I still love her but I don't know if I'm "in love" with her. Anyway the last time I contacted her I gave her the impression that I still love her, but I don't know, and I think she still loves me because she told me she loves me.
Should I call her and tell her I don't love her anymore just so I get breaking her heart over with? or should I consider holding on to what we have left for as long as possible, in which case should I call her tonight because its valentines day?
2007-02-13 21:24:43 · 4 answers · asked by Tha Most Shady 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop. Youre not in love with her but actually youre in love with the idea of being in love with her and have false hopes of her loving you. Too much has happened since you met her. If this was actually true love you two would have gone the extra mile to make sure this would have worked out or at least stayed in contact with each other. Put your feelings in reality and dont contact her as youre going to get your feelings hurt in the let down that she probably doesnt feel the same as you think she does. Just let things be as she probably has already moved beyond you and youre only a nice memory now. The only tragedy here is that you let a possible love relationship slip thru your hands, but it happens. You must get over your own feelings and move on too. Chalk this up to experience and learn from this. Good luck
2007-02-13 21:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Download "Across the Sea" by Weezer. Send it to her. Then call.
2007-02-14 05:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it's over and move on to someone local.
2007-02-14 05:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r confused to hell dont tell her that u don love her anymore on v-day
2007-02-14 05:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋