I started my highschool two years later than other people after transferring from a school where I was bullied. I had this inferior feeling for too long from other people. There was this group of girls that I thought was really cool- smart, funny, fun, popular(I didn't know that at the time though!) and cool. I tried talking to a few of them occassionally. They added me to their myspace, and after talking to them for a while, I heard them bitching about me as I walked out of assembily, and talking about what a loser I am.
Everyone loves them! I haven't talked to them since, and have closed my myspace so I wouldn't make a fool of myself again.
The problem is, they keep sending friends over to talk to me. I know they think I'm stupid, but I don't think theres anything I can or should do.
They happen to be in two of my classes, and they won't stop staring at me. I feel too embarrassed to talk or ask questions in class because I know they'll ***** about me later.
2007-02-13 19:34:53 · 4 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm in my last year of highschool and I'm sick of all that rubbish. My questions aren't stupid or anything, I just think differently to most people. I have just as much right as they do to be there! What should I do?
2007-02-13 19:37:24 · update #1
I have friends...just not with them. They are seriously amazing though- top ten in their year at school, and all that...but I can see right through them now after realising how shallow and mean they are. I don't think they talk about me all the time. Just when ever I'm within earshot or when there isn't anything else to discuss(which can't be that often with all the parties...). I'm not very popular within my year- I don't know many people, and people find it easy to pick on me because my friends aren't always around and nothing I say has an affect on anyone. Its not like I'm a freak or something!
2007-02-13 20:03:44 · update #2
Continue life as you would if you had never met these girls. They seem very vicious. Make new friends, find folks that really care about you. And when they are around talk about how much a dull life they have b/c they spend most of their time talking about you. You feel flattered. Smile everywhere you go and talk to everyone, ask everyone you come in contact with how they are doing and you'll make new friends in no time.
2007-02-13 19:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them or put them on the spot and ask them why they treat you the way they do. Don't stop asking questions in class because of them though. That is just cheating yourself out of an education. Don't worry, you will meet more mature people when you go to college.
2007-02-14 03:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by patchouligirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie when they stop staring that is when u should be worried dont let them get to u they are not that important i understand u dont want problems but dont hold your breath and allow them to get fresh air u just do what u have to do to get the hell out of that school and do u like u never did u before u will be and introduce to new things and they will be right where u left them
LOVE U FORGET THEM
2007-02-14 06:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by DEFINE WHAT LUV IS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first and foemost set urself right. don't pity on urself. if u just come out of this, u would be a great winner.
not all are same and we all have good points. so flaunt them to ur advantage.
2007-02-14 03:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kumar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋