i'm saving myself for marriage. how will i know she will be into sex? should i bring up sex before getting married? if i do anything to please her and help her, will she be willing to try anything in bed? I guess i'm just worried on how are sex life will be? It's my standards that i want to wait, but i just can't help but to wonder.
2007-02-13 19:41:06 · 9 answers · asked by yaabro 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sex really plays an important part in a marriage. you could sit down with her anytime talk about it openly before marriage, with that you would know her standards. ladies learn how to do it in time...i think if she will enjoy the first time she'll always find a way to be creative. don't worry...
2007-02-13 20:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by shekinahjireh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that you want to save yourself for marriage, however, it is never guaranteed that your woman of choice will be adventureous in the bedroom when you get married. Most women don't have a high sexual libedo to begin with, so you should be worried because most guys don't get enough sex ever!!!!
I am truley one of the few amazing women who have a Very High Sexual Libedo, and I can't get enough of my guy...ever. I spend the weekends with him and I find myself getting laid at least 5 times a day every day of the weekend and one night mid-week during a routine sleep-over that we schedule. I would discuss my expectations about sex and the bedroom before walking down the aisle and taking those vows. Good Luck in your pursuit.
2007-02-13 19:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rest in peace, prepare for the future and have a secret bank account and just put a little away every month. Once you give in once to anything, you have given up ground that u will never get back. Get sex as often as you can and do not be understanding about her headaches or being tired or these occasions will multiply. Being a nice guy will get you nowhere.
2007-02-13 19:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've made the choice to wait that's great however you should be able to talk about sex before marriage.
I wouldn't buy a car without test driving it and I wouldn't marry without discussing sex at length with her. I would discuss her preferences and mine. Use it as a chance to learn more about each other.
2007-02-13 19:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by David W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See thats why I never understood the whole, saving my self for marriage thing. Sex plays a huge part in a marriage believe it or not! You might want to test the waters before you plung in!!
2007-02-13 19:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally a person who is saving for the marriage shud not think 0f subjugating the partner to do every thing at ur command.
2007-02-13 21:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh you are so naive. even if you get married and the sex is wonderful at the start it dont mean it will stay that way. relationships change during time sometimes good sometimes bad. people work through it or have an affair or divorce.
2007-02-13 19:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's great you're waiting. but if you have settled with your idea, don't wonder. make your choice and stay happy with it! you can't have both: save and wonder. you gonna kill yourself and her for these ambivalences!
2007-02-13 21:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me take your virginity that way you'll be experienced
2007-02-13 19:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOHHH YYeeaa!!!! ive heard that before, dont believe her she will change once she is married, they always do!
2007-02-13 19:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by lesuiremike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋