I Have This Crush On This Guy In One Of My Classes......I'm Gonna Ask Him Out......But, I'm So Scared Of Rejection And Etc......What Is A Good Way To Ask A Guy Out Without Seeming Desperate, Dumb, Cheap, Lame, Etc??
2007-02-13 19:45:19 · 8 answers · asked by ~*~Bu113f1y K1ss3s~*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PLEASE.....GUYS ONLY.......THANX......
2007-02-13 19:47:35 · update #1
Licious, Guys Can Be Shy Duh.....I'm Tired Of Women Not Learning To Spell....
2007-02-13 19:50:45 · update #2
hon , i hope you are on friendly talking terms with this guy --
i mean that you dont just walk up to him and out of the blue ask him out ?
make a fairly regular contact with him , on breaks , talk more often , ask him some " help " in some school work - and you soon will be able to judge for your self his body language response to you - take care - do not overly flirt , be happy around him , smiles , smiles and smiles - most guys find that very
encouraging towards knowing a girl -make him feel comfortable when you are around Hon - YOU may not have to ask Him out -
HE MIGHT DO THIS BEFORE YOU DO
Good luck girl , I hope you find what your'e looking for
He must notice you - You just have to play your cards right !
2007-02-13 19:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a line between hitting on someone and being friendly: ride that line. Like dropping a pencil and bending over in front of a guy may make him wonder "was she trying to turn me on, or really picking up a pencil" but theres no way hes going to make the girl feel awkward. But if she said to him "watch this" and then did it.....see subtly is everything. Theres so many things you could say or do. For example just being a friend and keep asking him what hes up to at certain times like on the weekend. After a while he will start associating you with that lesuire time just because you have been asking. He can also see you are fun because you are interested in the fun hes having. And you are showing an interest in what hes up to - that appeals to ego and is thus a turn on. You can ask and interact in a lame way or you can just be friendly and inquisitive in a cool way,
Don't worry about rejection. We all get rejected, its not a big deal. I mean you just turn your back and think "who the hell is he anyway".
2007-02-14 04:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls that ask out a guy...I respect them. Anyway, most guys are kind of flipped out when a girl does that. I think the best way too start is by holdin a conversation with him...dont just go straight and ask. Talk about favorite places and then you should tell him that it would be cool if you could together to that place.
2007-02-14 03:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Dathletez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I would suggest that you seek some clarifications about something you studied mutually in class. Be bold - meet him after classes and ask him some kinda help in one topic. In due course, try to wander the subject and gradually ask him some personal stuff, especially about Valentines day etc.. and things will come by itself. If he is interested, he will show it to you or else he will quickly answer your question and will try some excuse to leave you,.
2007-02-14 04:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by amal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to a party you will be at or to a club your plan on hitting one night. Then you can talk it up outside of class and you will be able to tell if he likes you. No pressure or fear of rejection.
2007-02-14 04:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Corey (Go Dubs!) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out his interests. E.g. he loves rock music. Casually ask him if he'd like to go to a rock band performance with you since you 'happen' to have 2 tickets. ;) ;)
2007-02-14 04:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest?
2007-02-14 03:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dag0n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...im not a guy..so.....well....all i say is...um.... yea
2007-02-14 04:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by vrules 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋