im in live with my lover...from the last 6 years...4 years ago we had sex v enjoyed alot.then we had it regularly.2 years back he came with a proposal to my home my parents denied.in our society it is very shame ful if u do court marriage.so we didnt thnk about it,.we met and enjoyed sex knwing that our parents will not agree to our wish.last year i got very dissappointed and i called him and said that if my parenys do not agree i shall never meet u again.i loved him but i said that he said that his parents want to engage him with his cousion and he got engaged he said that all this was by force from his parents.now he is geeting marry with here after a month.and he says to me that when i will finish my studies we'll get marry ..then i will also b indipendent im studying.n he is doing job.fron all this what do u say what should i do.wait for him or what.he says that he will not touch her and not do sex.shd i believe him,will he do what he has promised ??help me.we love 1another2muchh
2007-02-13 19:54:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont do it. if he gets married, forget about him.
2007-02-13 19:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by vrules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost the greatest love of my because her parents to did not agree with the culture difference. She ran away with me for awhile but her parents threatened to commit suicide if she did not go home. I told her I did not want her parents deaths on my hand so go home. We continued to secretly see each other for another year but she slipped up and they found out. They married her off to a friend of the family. I loved this girl so much my heart ached with every beat when she got married. I did not marry her because I knew she was not strong enough to hurt her parents. Sometimes love is just not enough to over come issues.
I would not want him to disgrace his family. The innocent person is the wife. I would just walk away if he can't follow his own heart without the marriage to the other woman. Once married you don't know what would really happen.
2007-02-13 20:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by Looking Forward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in the USA and are over 18 you can get married and you family may hate it oh well. you are married. If he getting married to someone else he will touch her and lie to you. He has a choice and so do you. If one of you are under 18 then there is but one choice. sorry its over
2007-02-13 20:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait for him,no one leaves and deserves you waiting him,it was your fault from the begining to trust him that much ,anyway move on and enjoy your life in a better way!
2007-02-13 20:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for him. His cousin? I hope he would not touch her but I know in some cases they do....But honey, I wouldn't wait on him, you will find someone better. Good luck!
2007-02-13 19:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by angelsdeath420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋