well, this is my situation. a guy likes me since we met on 2004.but i was with other guy then. so he kept waiitng until now that i am single, i've opened my heart for him. :) but the problem is that he told me he likes me but he also like other girl. but at the same time he wants me to be his gf. obviously, he loves 2 girls at the same time. what will u do in this situation? i dont really know if i should give him a chance or just forget about him. i know it hurts so much to share a boyfriend with other girl. or is he just wants to test if i really love him or not that i would be with him even through time and tide???? what should i say to him to express my feeling? i want to be with him until the end of time. please help.
p/s: he has so many girls' phone number in her phone book, which he always contact them, call them and text them. i feel jealous about this. how do i know if he really serious with me?
2007-02-13 19:08:49 · 18 answers · asked by ctkm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he told me that he's not ready to have a real relationship bcoz of the other ladies.. becoz he thinks that if he has a gf n then he got so many ladies chasing after him, that would make his gf feel uneasy or the simple word--jealous. so what should i do??
2007-02-16 19:22:54 · update #1
Sounds to me like your heart is already telling you what to do. If you are jealous and can not trust him you know you can not be with him. As for sharing a boyfriend sweetie you are to good for that. You should NEVER have to share your man with anyone. If he wants you it has to be ONLY you or nothing at all.
Follow your heart and I think you already know what it is telling you!
2007-02-13 19:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your not even with this guy and your already doubting him, that should tell you something right there! He doesn't know what he wants, or he is just playing all of you. I wouldn't trust this guy, I would run away from the situation and find a someone else. You have no idea what it's like to fall in love with someone and then find out the entire time you were with him he had another girlfriend. I think he sounds like the type of guy that would date two girls at once. I would run away from him, It will be better for you in the outrun. Good luck
2007-02-13 19:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by Megz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how you find out if he's serious? Walk away! That is the only way yoou will know! And if he chases after you,......set some guidelines of what you are, and aren't willing to deal with! Make sure that there is no question to what you are willing to give, and what you are expecting from him too! If you don't start off with either of you having no questions as to the way you feel about each other and what each of you expects from each other if you want the relationship to last!
Good luck to you and I hope he chooses the RIGHT girl!
2007-02-13 19:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by kellyfromcali. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just friendly. Show some vulnerability but don't be a door mat. I believe that there is only one love, but many infatuations. Give it a shot. Be open, honest, and caring. You haven't lost this chance at love yet.
2007-02-13 19:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by 444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did make him wait afterall. Anyways, if you truly like this guy, you'll have to fight for him. Show him that you have something to offer that other girls don't have. Show him you have higher value. Become the center of attention whenever you go. You are the star and he is lucky to have you. Thats the mentality you should have ....
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2007-02-13 19:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Herbal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that when you next see him, tell him that if he is continuing to see others then he ain't going to see you.
If he wants you he will stop seeing the others & finally if he decides that you are the one then take his phone book & tell him not to contact the other girls.
The rules in all relationship is total honesty with each other.
If not, dump him & you will find someone suitable.
2007-02-13 19:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE UP FRONT WITH HIM. LET HIM KNOW THAT THE PAST WAS THE PAST AND YOU WANT TO GIVE IT A CHANCE WITH HIM BUT WITHOUT ANY OTHER RELATIONSHIP ON THE SIDE. HE CAN'T HAVE BOTH AT THE SAME TIME. AND IF HE HESITATES TO GIVE YOU AN ANSWER HE IS NOT FOR YOU.
2007-02-13 19:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by florecitarivera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave th e dude in his world of promiscuity! He is not in love with you, he just want to sc**w you! Unless you are ready to play that game and get dumped, don't even think of him. Find your match.
All the best!
2007-02-13 19:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant like two people eaqualy at the same time. We say forget about him. there are thousands of fish in the sea. try to find yours.
2007-02-21 08:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by Manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel and i understand. but you want to be happy right? well i can share you this go on have fun as long as you enjoy each other company dont mind his others. just enjoy and have fun go with the flow..
2007-02-21 14:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by nica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋