for example, say you were dancing with a girl in a club who was hot, and u noticed scars on her that looked like they were from self harm, would you be turned off, or scared even?! what would you do?!?! would you think she was now ugly?
2007-02-13 19:18:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I liked this girl it would not turn me off I would be a little concerned but I would not pressure her to talk about them until she wanted to, and I would try and help to understand why she had done this to her self, and help in every way so she did not have to harm her self again.
Everybody has problems, and deals with them differently, it would be wrong to judge somebody else for what I did not understand.
2007-02-13 20:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scars aren't a turn off. That's rather shallow I think. Now, if I notice the scars AFTER we've gotten to know each other, then I'd be concerned.
2007-02-14 03:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by Filero24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a past too, and it isn't pretty. Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses. I also have scars. I like to consider them a "false intentions" filter. If someone doesn't want to dig deaper because of them, then its their loss. Stay positive. Opportunities are around every corner.
2007-02-14 03:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by 444 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if she had scars from self harm you should be concern about her, not thinking that she is now ugly ... ... ...
2007-02-14 03:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by melark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a woman I agree scars are a big turn off esp. on the face
2007-02-14 03:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't want much to do with her with self harm scars, she's probably a fruit loop, and I have no time for that sh1t
2007-02-14 03:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not ugly as such, depends on the freshness of the wound I guess, no one likes oozing....
2007-02-14 04:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by garfet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not make her look less physically attractive to me but I tend to like my beauty to include emotional health. No more crazies for me.
2007-02-14 03:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Looking Forward 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. I wouldn't even mention them unless she wanted to talk about them sometime. If anything they add character.
2007-02-14 03:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by DDT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scars add character !!
2007-02-14 03:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋