Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

2007-02-12 01:37:21 · 10 answers · asked by dave 1 in Singles & Dating

We can't sleep...he's eating everything in sight and I can't eat...we can't concentrate...all we do is think about eachother. We're talking about marriage but feel we should wait to know eachother better...but I feel so sick and he feels so tired. When we are together it couldn't be better and we live 140 miles from eachother. What can we do to make this "getting to know" eachother time easier?

2007-02-12 01:36:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey guys, remember me? Thanks for the advice by the way.
Basically, we've just broken up for the second time now (my girlfriend and i) and she said that "we should just be friends".
However, none of this makes sense because on Saturday she told me she forgave me (i told another girl i like her) and actually said, "To think that we were going to break up earlier this week, what was i thinking?

We made out so much that day as well-really intimate and passionate kissing.

Then suddenly today she says she wants to break up with me. She told me she still like me but she just can't trust me but the real truth is that she gets all her advice on boys from her older sister who HATES me.
So, we've broken up twice now, both times because of her sister.

So, what do I do, how do I get her back?

What do I do for Valentine's Day?

PLEASE HELP ME!!! I love this girl so much and i need her in my life!

2007-02-12 01:35:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 01:34:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-12 01:33:50 · 19 answers · asked by yogini 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why can't I meet an intelligent woman with an equally seductive body here? Some one who will hold stimulating conversations with me, share her life history with me, say sweet words to me, discuss ideas with me, solve the problems of this world with me, eventually fall in love with me and have a torrid affair with me someday. She just has to be out there somewhere. But oh where?

(Uh oh...here comes the barrage of sarcastic answers now. Be gentle people, OK?)

2007-02-12 01:33:14 · 8 answers · asked by Chandru M 6 in Singles & Dating

MY EXboyfriend jus pop up by my house this weekend and brought up the whole idea dat i was doing hiem wrong because i had decided to move on but he has a girfriend even though he has not admitted to it but i go to school with the chick but he told me she only gave him oral.... i'm lose should i throw away what i have and go back to what i left behind in the pass are stick to wats good...

2007-02-12 01:31:05 · 12 answers · asked by Mz. Kitkat 2 in Singles & Dating

I married my husband 4 years ago. He had 2 children from a previous marriage (ages 5 & 3) who he had custody of. I had been advised by friends and family NOT to marry this man. They felt he was looking for a "mother" for his children. I have 1 son who is in his teens (now in college) and my friends and family felt it would be a big responsibility to start over again raising another family. I loved him so much and our sex life was magical. I decided to take on the responsibility and marry him. I felt our love would conquer all. Now, 4 years later, my husband has lost interest in our marriage. He hasn't touched me in over a year. He has no desire for sex. Our marriage has become a living arrangement. I do the majority of the chores around the house including the laundry (which is mostly his and his kids). I even provide all the family's insurance through my job. I feel so alone. He hardly spends any time with me anymore. Am I being used?

2007-02-12 01:30:01 · 33 answers · asked by RestlessNTexas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My, so called friend, got mad at me because I said that I didn't want her to jump me about being sad about the loss of my dog. I feel that I could've saved her life by jumping to conclusions before she passed out. She ate some anti-freeze and her kidneys failed. When I realized she couldn't go to the bathroom, I should've taken her to the vet, instead, I thought it was just something she ate and that it would pass. My friends yelled at me for blaming myself (yelled over the internet.... with all of the !!!!!!!!! things at the end of a sentence) and I think I have a right to be mad at her. Do I?

2007-02-12 01:29:32 · 9 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Friends

there is this boy i fancy and he 15 and im 14 i find it hard 2 talk 2 him but were good friends because our parents know each other and once he came round my house but he didn't to me and i didn't talk to him, i mean my friend asked him if he fancies me but he says he doesnt know and then he said he doesn't see me in that way but he will think about and hes only known since then that i fancy him, and he says were good friends but he won't say yes or no, and to me i get the impression that he trying to see he likes me as friend but we might have chance later on, do you think i should move on or do you think he fancies me or not, or do you think we have a chance.

2007-02-12 01:29:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In a semi-professional context, if a girl is playing with her hair and flicking it, lots of eye contact, and puts her hand on your upper arm as you are walking??

2007-02-12 01:28:57 · 10 answers · asked by Oz Billy 3 in Singles & Dating

Went to a party and gave this guy my phone number. We had an interesting conversation and I gave him my phone number. He says he wants to hang out with me. And he is all touchy touchy. I hate that! How can I turn him down without sounding mean? We do have our differences. He wants to call today.

2007-02-12 01:28:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can honestly say if you r in an abusive relationship please get out before its too late, i know i've been there. i lost my children, i almost lost my life 2 times from this abuse, . i went to domestic volience classes to see if it was me, but i soon found out it was'nt me at all. if u need one to talk to e-mail me i have all my info. still heres my e-mail address: claysaramommy@yahoo.com i'll be glad to talk with you anytime of the day or night

2007-02-12 01:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by claysaramommy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm throwing a baby shower, in April, for my best friend's daughter. Any suggestions for food or games? Thanks so much.

2007-02-12 01:26:48 · 6 answers · asked by ? 5 in Friends

i need to know a game to show students about genital warts and how it is easy to get them please help!


nothing perverted

2007-02-12 01:26:47 · 5 answers · asked by stolen kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm college sr & grad. in May. I'm a white, 22 yo man. I grew up an army kid (until 10 when my dad walked out on us) & was always around tons of diff. people & cultures.But was NEVER SEEN AS A BAD "DIFFERENT." I want to date interracially(mainly African Americans), but my parents don't agree with it. They are racist, thinking that white m & white f should only date each other,etc (Everyone with their own race). I TOTALLY DISAGREE because I am not attracted by color nor do I stop liking someone/being attracted to someone because she just happens to be of another skin tone. I am heavily attracted to black and latin girls,white girls really don't do much for me. My mom says she don't care really. My stepdad is total opposite. He comments on people negatively who do & we have had arguments about it in the past. The thing is, I still live with them until May, but I wanna start now. What should I do? Go with my heart or wait a couple more months? I'm torn bc I am crushing on a few girls no

2007-02-12 01:25:18 · 7 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 01:24:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As I took the trash out last night, I noticed that there were various greeting cards that she had thrown out. Some from past holidays. Some from siblings. Also in that pile were a few from me (a couple from her birthday, valentines and some simply to say "I love you." My problem with this is she's held on to cards from previous lovers/boyfriends for years (to my knowledge, she still has them). Why throw out my tokens of affection? When I asked her about it, she said she needed "to get rid of some clutter." That's when I damn near exploded, but I kept my cool. What happened to the small things in a marriage? Moving forward, I sense that the cards are meaningless. With Valentines day around the corner, she'll see some flowers, but I don't see another card in her near future.

2007-02-12 01:23:02 · 17 answers · asked by JB2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend might get expelled from college cos of his low GPA, & my father is forcing me to marry someone he thinks is right for me (too complicated),we were on the phone an hour ago n'he said that if he did get expelled he wants me to forget him coz he thinks there won't be a future for us if he doesn't have a BA,he wants to sell everything & leave the country..
I want to help make the dean give him a second chance to raise his gpa but he asked me not to get involved in it. Im really worried about him, he's been through soo much in the last couple of years & I really need to do something about it.I love him soo much & I just cant see him go through this alone.he has a 1.05 from 4& anything below 1.50 is not allowed in this college.
I can't lose him & I can't just sit there & see him go through this alone. I need to help, I need to convince the dean to give him one last chance. If they expelle him(God Forbid),He won't handle it, I know him very well.
Please help me find a solution

2007-02-12 01:22:22 · 7 answers · asked by Candy Apple 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-12 01:21:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-12 01:20:04 · 14 answers · asked by anthony j 1 in Singles & Dating

theres a lot of obstacles come through our life,many trials and many people against us.. His my childhood sweetheart we grew up together we had a happy moments when we were young.. He had to leave me that time cause theres a better life ahead of him in the world that he chose... And he came back again to my life and had a beautiful kids... But all the happy moments ended in just a snap.. He made a choise and i left for nothing just to say goodbye... I want things to work out just fine but its hard to be inlove alone.. I never loved a guy his the only man came into my life.. I will never stop loving him forever.. Sometimes people think its a stupidity to give love but the person you love is not giving it back... NO, its not wrong to love forever cause in my opinion and own believe never expect once you give.. Sounds like im a martyr yeah some people will think of it but i will never stop loving to the man i loved... God has a purpose thats why he breaks our hearts... They said if you hu

2007-02-12 01:19:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this guy for months. He got devorced. Finally settled up in his own apartment. His 7-years old daughter stays with him. I've never met her. He asked me to come to his place the other night. The child was sleeping in her room. I stayed for the night. In the morning when I was leaving, he asked his daughter to stay in her room, so I wouldn't see her she wouldn't see me. I felt bad about that. He said (I thought for a joke) that her daughter doesn't want him to be with any woman other than her mom. I understand what child might feel when she sees me in the morning in her daddy's bed. But I don't wanna feel guilty each time I come to his place. What is your advice in this situation? Who's been there?

2007-02-12 01:19:37 · 11 answers · asked by Boginya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-12 01:19:05 · 7 answers · asked by yogini 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 12 years and married 8 years have 2 beautiful children and 3 step children (mine) He left because of the stress in our home due to the children's father seeming to run our home. He is not sure if he can come back. Things have changed in our home how can I make him see that if he is living with his mom and dad?...And he feels he don't have control of his own home since my first children are 17, and 16 the boys..he feels they rule the home....Please help...

2007-02-12 01:18:27 · 7 answers · asked by hurtalloveragainks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 25 and still a virgin, never had a long relationship and one nighters just not my thing. Just started dating a guy and not prepared to go all the way just yet. This past weekend we were fooling around a bit and I wanted to please him, but felt totally dumb. Woke up feeling really miserable and a total idiot. Any simple instructions for dummies????

2007-02-12 01:17:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we just got to toghether a few days ago and i don't know where a should bring her for valentine's day. any suggestions?

2007-02-12 01:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by stairway to heaven 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 01:17:19 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I noticed a guy has changed his whole attitude and voice to me, even when I was little aggressive, he just listening and smiling to me.

Keep asking am I all right? in the morning and evening

Telling me his plan for whole week.

Text me to let me know when he is on his way home.

(he is my flatmate)

2007-02-12 01:15:35 · 9 answers · asked by Zahir 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello. I would like to put our engagement annocement in the newspaper. The only thing is that i do not know either of my parents and because of this it makes it difficult to do a proper annocement. Also my fiance doesn't want to include his parents' names either because of my situation. What is the best way to state this in the paper without making it known that i do not know or speak with my parents? I would still like it to be nice as possible and still formal. Please, please help me with this. I dont know what to do. Thank you for your time and cooperation.

Thanks again

2007-02-12 01:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by marriedsoon 2 in Weddings