MY EXboyfriend jus pop up by my house this weekend and brought up the whole idea dat i was doing hiem wrong because i had decided to move on but he has a girfriend even though he has not admitted to it but i go to school with the chick but he told me she only gave him oral.... i'm lose should i throw away what i have and go back to what i left behind in the pass are stick to wats good...
2007-02-12 01:31:05 · 12 answers · asked by Mz. Kitkat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say Girl, you should stick with what's good. Because Ole' dude had NO right to pop up over your house, when you told him not to and well.....when he got there he got something unexpected! So in my eyes and my opinion alone, your not doing him wrong! Ya'll aren't married so baby girl, you got the right to do whatever you wanna DO!
2007-02-12 01:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me stick to whats good. He is lieing to u b/c he wants u back. But going back to the past and leaving what u have now will only get u hurt in the long run. So leave him alone and stay with the guy ur with now.
2007-02-12 09:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*******************BEST ANSWER BABYGIRL*********************
Remember when I said that he was playing with you?
If he was sincere and respectful, he WOULDN'T have tried to use the ploy of memories to regain your attention.
I think it showed alot of character and heart for you to move on, as you have, because most would have just stayed in that situation out of convenience and routine.
You've closed the chapter and for him to admit what another woman has done for him sexually - SHOWS and PROVES that he has no respect for her, either.
What do you think he's said about you - while he says YOU did him wrong?
From a man's view - what he's trying to do is play with your emotions and have you confused. Why? So he can use both of you at the same time - have cake and eat it, too.
All the while, having NO CONSCIENCE of respecting what you have now (relationship).
You have something good now...don't sacrifice for someone who has to grow up and show some maturity and respecting you and YOUR DECISIONS.
One love, Babygirl..............
2007-02-12 09:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really loved him and if you still have feelings for him than i think that you should go back, but in order for you to go back i think that you and this girl should call him on 3-way and not let him know that you are on the phone this way you can find out if he was lyin' or if she was lyin'. I know that this is kinda childish, but it might be the only way to find out if him and her are really in a relationship.
2007-02-12 09:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HES COMIN TO YOUR HOUSE BRINGIN UP STUFF LIKE DAT N HE HAS A GF DEN U SHOULD LET HIM GO CUZ Y WOULD HE BE DOIN DAT 2 U IF HE HAS A GF...... ITS JUS KINDA WRONG I GUESS...
2007-02-12 09:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by abcdefg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u had a good meal but ended up vomiting,would u eat the vomit becuz it was good to eat before u vomited.Dont even give him a second chance,plize
2007-02-12 09:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you even thought about going back. Hes seems like a jerk. Please dis and dismiss his A$$ for you and me. Thanxs
2007-02-12 09:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go back to him. keep moving on without him
2007-02-12 09:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no please dont!!i did that and it totaled my life that i had....dont go back just keep walking and dont go back or youll loose a few steps...if ya catch my drift....stay with what you have dont let that guy wiggle his way back into your heart...hell only hurt it again....
2007-02-12 09:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by then she killed my brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the situation to your father and get some advice from him.Hoho~~
2007-02-12 09:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by gloriousway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋