Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

we are married for 22 yrs. this year but we are no longer living together my husband get angry with me when i went to his office and fight with her gf there at the office..... that"s the start of our mis undertanding, fighting, and bad mouthing with each other everyday. after yrs. passed my husband told me that he will file an annulment. can i file also?

2007-02-12 02:37:32 · 3 answers · asked by allu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think love is when you get that tingly feeling in your stomach, you can't stop thinking about the person, fantacising about him/her, not being able to sleep because your thoughts are too deep, thinking about what you're going to say, wear, feel about him/her the next day. That's what I think love is, and please answer me; am I in love?

2007-02-12 02:37:21 · 5 answers · asked by So_Seductive 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the best thing about your boyfriend? just wondering

2007-02-12 02:37:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 18 yr old grand daughter left home 2- days ago/shes a senior in hi.school/staying at afreinds,the past months her grades had dropped>quit two jobs/nasty attitude/the whole family isdevisted/we do't know whate to do-please help Grandmom

2007-02-12 02:36:59 · 4 answers · asked by Sandra P 1 in Family

Boo freakin who!!!! I did not want her to die for this reason alone...I do not want any politicians to die either...I will then have to listen to more lies about how they too will be missed and were loved....News people are asking the same old questions hour in an hour out? We are worried about a girl who can not idenitfy which man is the father of any of her children. When her sone was born - samething....I was working in the hospital...they would allow no paternity tests. A male was finally "decided" on as "they guy" he did it!!! and he was blessed as the father of the little hoodlum. Our hearts are supposed to bleed for this breeder? Mine will not...

We no longer have to listen to that whiny , drug taking hussy on her stupid TV show that runs re-runs....etc...Thank You God for given us a way out....why couldn't we see her get beheaded on national TV rather than just die??????

2007-02-12 02:36:58 · 9 answers · asked by realistnotracist 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so you need to know the background before you can answer this. SO four and a half years ago is when we met.It's kind of been a rocky relationship off and on well two years into the relationship we took a break and on the break I slept with a man that used to be my boyfriend best friend(one time). They were no longer friend and I know that doesn't really make it any better.I never told my man and he had no idea that this happened Anyway My man and I got back together and i got PREGNANT. We had been working on things off and on since we got back together and things were going good until the other man saw him on the street and told him that he slept with me. I didn't want to lie so I admitted it.(This was back in October)Well we have been working on things but i just found out last week that he, for the last month, had been with some other girl. He slept with her atleast twice and got oral another time. We broke up because of this,we were both set on it being doen forever.

2007-02-12 02:36:03 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, when I was young, he was a drug addict. He was verbally abusive with everyone in the house. And he slaps my mom around. I didn't have the strength to go against him back then, but usually we clashed when I reached 20. My mom thinks it's embarassing that we fight. Anyway, he's in some other place nursing complications of a stroke. Is it time to forgive and forget?

2007-02-12 02:35:46 · 10 answers · asked by nausea guy 2 in Family

My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs & lived together 1.5 yrs. I moved across the country w/him for his job which is now sending us back to where we are from(unexpectedly). We have been talking about marriage for a long time now, he just has seemed to be in no rush for it. I told him recently that I really want a commitment- he said that he didn't think there was any reason to rush it. I decided that I was going to move home a little early so that we(HE) could have a little time and space to figure out what we wanted before we move back to our hometown and move in w/each other again. That basically got his butt in action and he decided that he did NOT want me to move back before him and that we could get engaged/married. So, his mother and i went ring shopping the other day and I found a ring that I love& him&I went and looked at it last night. The thing is, now I am feeling like I gave him an ultimatum and forced him into this. What would you do?

2007-02-12 02:35:31 · 7 answers · asked by hc 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to deal with a 12 yearold girl, talks back like you wouldn't believe, cheeky, doesn't listen at all, does her own thing, have had it out with her and she says she likes me and I dont bother her, she is driving a wedge between her mother and me to the point of I am about to walk out, can you help anyone, we have tried talking, then grounding (that is just another word in her extensive vocabulary.
any help would be great.

2007-02-12 02:34:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs & lived together 1.5 yrs. I moved across the country w/him for his job which is now sending us back to where we are from(unexpectedly). We have been talking about marriage for a long time now, he just has seemed to be in no rush for it. I told him recently that I really want a commitment- he said that he didn't think there was any reason to rush it. I decided that I was going to move home a little early so that we(HE) could have a little time and space to figure out what we wanted before we move back to our hometown and move in w/each other again. That basically got his butt in action and he decided that he did NOT want me to move back before him and that we could get engaged/married. So, his mother and i went ring shopping the other day and I found a ring that I love& him&I went and looked at it last night. The thing is, now I am feeling like I gave him an ultimatum and forced him into this.

2007-02-12 02:33:43 · 25 answers · asked by hc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-12 02:33:38 · 14 answers · asked by janet s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

decorations and any ideas will help

2007-02-12 02:32:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay.. so my friend said that he likes me, and he's been really nice to me since sophomore year. Although I still haven't told him if i feel the same or not as him, he said that he's willing to wait.. and he has been really sweet all this time. However, recently, a friend of his has been telling me that he says things to her that makes her uncomfortable.. like wanting to make out with her and stuff. He claims that he's just fooling around when she told him to stop, but I don't know. You see, he used to like her before, but he decided to go for me instead. I don't know whats going on... Can someone tell me what's going on in his head?

2007-02-12 02:31:57 · 9 answers · asked by CS 2 in Friends

2007-02-12 02:31:45 · 26 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

I so like to laugh. I LOVE the feeling of laughing until my stomach hurts and rolling on the floor laughing... til' I can't even say a word... and there are tears from my eyes... Gosh! just can't help it!

Don't you think this is AWESOME?

My man said I shouldn't laugh that much. Well, in fact.. He can't even make me laugh that way.. *sigh*

But my friends do instead, and yeah.... I like to hang out more with my friends. Is this my fault?

2007-02-12 02:31:06 · 7 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 in Singles & Dating

I am pretty independent person, i hate depending on somebody in anyway .

sometimes I cant understand such words like

" I CANNOT live without you, or you are my everything or its not worth living without you"

It does not sound romantic to me.It sounds a little bit absurd or too much exaggerating in a wrong way.

several times I have liked or maybe loved somebody but I have never felt that way.

am I COLD hearted?

I RESPECT GIRLS but are they worth dying for?

we all are taught to be independent , but what the hell independece has a role when it comes to love?

2007-02-12 02:30:45 · 7 answers · asked by earthlove 2 in Singles & Dating

trying to make some new friends on the computer.and all the web sites i go too.are not what i am looking for.

2007-02-12 02:29:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I hav a bf who moved to a different country 6 months ago…he says dat, he loves me too much n calls me up daily n we talk for bt 1 hr…he behaves as if he is a lott serious for me..he says dat he wants to settle down wid me..he talks a lot bt commitment n other stuff…I heard 4m a lot people dat long distance relationships hav no future…but I heard dis also dat sm of d lucky ones do go a long way…I jus thought dat our relationship might also b d lucky one..

Now today I jus entered into his email(as I knw his password)..n wat I saw was few mails in his bulk folder from AmericanSingles.com which is as all of u knw is a dating site…he is having membership in it i.e. he is having his profile in it…d mails are 2 day old...wat does dat mean??...is he cheating on me??..i think he is playing wid ma feelings…I always loved him sooo much..more den anything else in dis world n I always felt like he too loves me a lott…

2007-02-12 02:28:48 · 13 answers · asked by me... 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it all worth the hassle>

2007-02-12 02:27:48 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

EVERYONE LOVES HIM....my parents, my friends, my relatives....He is wonderful, caring, trustworthy, hot, great job, gorgeous house, genuine, would be a great father.....I have always been in drama filled relationships and FINALLY decided to get out of it after 7 years and this has been my 1st non drama relationship

I took a 6 month break and then met him. We clicked. We both wanted to get married to each other someday, have kids together, and live in our "now" house FOREVER.

One day my feelings clicked off. Honestly, I woke up one morning after we were dating for 3 months and had come to the conlusion that I didnt love him anymore. Since then I went on some anti-anxiety meds and my feelings have been up and down. When we are out of town I dont think about anything and have a good time with him, BUT when we are at home I get all anxious and feel like I dont love him anymore...I dont know why but the smallest things he does annoy me and the next day everything could be fine. I just dont feel as romantic as I used to with him. I still enjoy having sex with him and spending time with him but feel as though something is missing or I dont love him anymore? I dont trust myself with this relationship. Please help, I hate hearing that I am not in love with him anymore...For some reason people re-assuring my love for him makes me feel better?!?!?

2007-02-12 02:27:25 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lately, like the past 5-6 months my husband has been spending an awfull lot of time on his computer (we have his/her computers). A couple of times i have had opportunities to get onto his computer and look at his history and it's always been erased. I walked in on him once and saw a picture of a naked women on the screen and when he realized i was in the room- he quickly logged off. when i asked him, he said it was a practical joke email.

How can i be for sure what he's doing? Is there any way i can look on the history/cookies to see where he's going for sure? What are some of the websites he could be going on to meet women like this?

2007-02-12 02:27:10 · 13 answers · asked by SPANKY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend broke up a couple months ago and ive had a couple more inbetween...but it wasnt nothing great or serious..im tired of being single..I want someone to take me to the movies,to stay on the phone with every night ,and just someone to love...do you think ill find someone eventually? or be stuck single forever?

2007-02-12 02:27:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 19 weeks preg. i love my boyfrend to bits. he has been trying to come of cannibas and vallium which he is addicted too. he was arrested last fri for driving under the influence. i have the support of all his family and mine so we are trying our best to heelp him and he is trying to help himself. he is staying with his mum for a while to get himself straight. his mum rang me last week to say he had been out, aftter, i had come to see him. he went to a houseparty of his friends who happen to be female. She lived near his mum. then they all went out and got plastered drunk. I heard about this the next day. He told me that these girls are not even real friends that he was out with his male friends. i feel helpless. i feel like givin up on thids relationship. Is he even acting like he should be? i feel he should be supportive considering i am preg. Is it unfair of me to ask him not to be going to house partys and contacting female mates and hanging with them, Will he change?

2007-02-12 02:26:09 · 11 answers · asked by kelly h 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-12 02:26:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why can't my husband see that talking to these other women and not respecting my feelings about certain things is going to cause him to lose me? I have told him that I don't want him talking to this woman and now he forwards all her funny joke emails to me as if he is throwing it in my face that he is talking to her still. Why is he still talking to her? I can't continue to tell him it upsets me because he just gets mad .. does he just not care about me enough to tell this other woman that they can't talk? Does he not realize he will lose me if he doesn't care about my feelings? Or he just doesn't care at all?

2007-02-12 02:24:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i know if he''ll come back for more?
what can i do to keep him coming back to me?

2007-02-12 02:24:32 · 20 answers · asked by LOLA 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so people have good sex and all- gr8 but is nt all the hoopla surrounding the 'sex' word, just a waste.. whats all the hoo haa and shoo sha bout?

2007-02-12 02:24:31 · 10 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

His birth mother has lied over the years and says she can't remember, he has been given the name DERECK JACOBS. Spelling may be different. The father may not know, but he has twins would be approx 40 give or take five years. He might know the family name-MIDDLETON (kim is the mother, kim's mum-the twins nan is called doreen-kim has two sisters). From London, Lewisham the twins are 22 in the summer. any info please help...thank you.

2007-02-12 02:24:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-12 02:24:11 · 12 answers · asked by Nicky L 1 in Singles & Dating

It's like she keeps on borrowing my stuffs and never intend to buy any of the stuffs she needs for herself, which is irritating me to the hell! Whatever she need she just borrows mine as if all my stuffs are public property. What should I do?

I am a tired of telling her off because she has a sharp tongue to give me back answers no matter how nice i tried to be and sometimes a bit strict. I can't move out because this is the cheapest accomodation for me with every thing I need and a strategic place to my campus.

HELP!

2007-02-12 02:23:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends