i can honestly say if you r in an abusive relationship please get out before its too late, i know i've been there. i lost my children, i almost lost my life 2 times from this abuse, . i went to domestic volience classes to see if it was me, but i soon found out it was'nt me at all. if u need one to talk to e-mail me i have all my info. still heres my e-mail address: claysaramommy@yahoo.com i'll be glad to talk with you anytime of the day or night
2007-02-12 01:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by claysaramommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been physically abused once, left him and moved on, back in '03 got married and he mentally abused me, divorced him and it has changed my life considerably. My new boyfriend knows about my past, and is nothing but sweet and never tells me that i'm stupid, or can't do something. He always encourages me and never lays his hands on me in anger. It is possible to "break the cycle" good luck to any and all of you who have had to deal with the life of an abused wife/girlfriend.
2007-02-12 01:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by hockey_chick44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with a man for five years and he is an alcoholic. When I was 6 weeks pregnant he beat me, although at the time I did not know it. I managed to get out of the house and I called the cops. He was arrested, got probation, and fines. He has not done it like that since then which our son is a happy healthy 16 month old. When he was getting arrested he fell down a flight of stairs and had fractured his skull in 3 places. he has slowed down on his drinking but he still gets biligerent when he gets drunk. There is so much to the story but I do not know what else to say right now. I just thought Iwould share.
2007-02-12 01:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by bnr6661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a controlling boyfriend and i lost all my friends because he wouldnt let me go out unless it was for work or to see my parents. i was 19 and it wasw my first live in relationship. i got hit and abused on a daily basis for almost 2 years. i finally got strong enough and one day when he was at work i arranged to have everything moved out of the house. he flipped out when he got home to see everything was gone(it was all my stuff anyways) for the longest time i didnt date and now i am happily engaged to really great guy. if you want to talk email me whiskeyflirt@yahoo.ca
2007-02-12 01:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known some couples who like that dynamic. The guy had no self control and wouldnt end it and the girl was neurotic drama queen who looked for trouble. Always end the relationship fast and be honest.
2007-02-12 01:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident doubtless its a criminal offense although the main reason that quite some them escape with it for see you later is that the guy that they beat on loses self-worth and finally ends up frightened of their own shadow as a consequence of this and the police in states and maximum countrys are powerless to do something approximately it till the abused presses costs. I desire the regulation might substitute so as that the police and the courts would have the capability to concentration on it. btw, sh, i'm deeply for the losse of your mum and chum i visit declare a pray for you playstation . additionally that's well-known that many lady beat their husbands - b/f's , girlfriends and so on. for EX:- might you tell anyone in the journey that your spouse became beating on you. answer to that would desire to be no reason what number could be to embarresed to inform and does no longer elect to be percieved as a wimp for letting his spouse beat on him
2016-12-17 08:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happened once, haven't seen the guy since.
2007-02-12 01:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got scars on my shoulder...but hey i was young and stupid...we all make mistakes....i forgave him and we went our ways...
2007-02-12 01:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by then she killed my brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋