I am 25 and still a virgin, never had a long relationship and one nighters just not my thing. Just started dating a guy and not prepared to go all the way just yet. This past weekend we were fooling around a bit and I wanted to please him, but felt totally dumb. Woke up feeling really miserable and a total idiot. Any simple instructions for dummies????
2007-02-12 01:17:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did tell him that I'm a virgin!
2007-02-12 01:21:21 · update #1
I did tell him that I'm a virgin! Need more details than just ...give him a hand job...the how is important! Technique!
2007-02-12 01:22:58 · update #2
oral sex would probably blow his mind-pun intended. just purse your mouth like your sucking on a round lolly pop. dont use teeth but the up and down motion with your mouth nice and wet will please him. the underside up near the head is very sensitive, make sure your lips and toungue swirl around that. you can use your hand to serve as a bumper, in case he tries to push it to far into your throat. if he misbehaves, squeeze it a little, he will probably like it. and if you dont want to, dont swallow. just spit it out as you continue to lovingly caress it with your mouth... good luck and enjoy.
2007-02-12 01:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by cici 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
relax don't do anything ur not ready for. Let him know what is up. Rent some porn to catch up. Be ready for it and don't be afraid. If he is a good guy he will be gentle and make u as comfortable as possible. Once u are comfortable u can ask him questions and u guys can giggle about it like little school children. Experimentation is fun and usually u learn a lot about the opposite sex and about your partner. Later you should be secure enough to ask the other one what he or she likes and give honest answers or at least be able to tell from their response what they do and don;'t' like. Use birth control and condoms and a little lube may do some good the flavord kind is fun for first timers. I hope i didn't go overboard...anyway remember to have a good time and don't be dissapointed if it doesn't go perfect the first time, It rarely does that is part of the fun of waiting. Have a blast...
2007-02-12 09:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think just a bj would be in order because your not ready to go all the way yet . And you needn't worry about technique much because it's all good and really there is no bad way of doing it as long as you don't use the teeth. Just start off slowly and you'll quickly be able to gage his response as you move along , just relax and you will not have a problem .
2007-02-12 09:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know most of the guys think that the best way a woman can please them is by having sex. u on the other hand since u r a virgin u can always go out with him take him to places he has never been before, dinner movies, parties, kissing, or u can even make love to him without penetration. u can try oral sex it is easy, well as a woman u can imagine stuff ur man could do to make happy. so think about these things and do them for him i guess he would be happy.
2007-02-12 09:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be comfortable around him...kiss him and let him touch u....guys love touching girls. touch him back. but i honestly think the best way u can please him without sex is to let him feel ur body. or unless u want 2 go down on him, guys like that too. whatever u do dont do it if u really dont want 2, leave him wanting more...
u need a technique....start with subtle kissing, then move into more risky behavior...
2007-02-12 09:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD BE PROUD OF THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE NOT JUMPED INTO ANYTHING KNOWING THAT IT WOULD GO NOWHERE. YOU ARE SAVING YOURSELF FOR THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE AND WHEN YOU FIND EACH OTHER IT WILL ONLY MAKE THE MOMENT MUCH MORE MEANINGFUL AND SPECIAL FOR THE BOTH OF YOU. A GOOD COMPANION WILL UNDERSTAND YOU AND WILL RESPECT YOUR DECISION. IT IS YOUR BODY AND ONLY YOU CAN CHOOSE HOW TO TREAT IT. VERY IMPRESSIVE IF YOU ASK ME. THERE IS A LUCKY GUY WAITING OUT THERE FOR YOU, GOOD LUCK IN YOUR SEARCH AND NEVER FEEL DUMB FOR HOLDING OUT FOR THE REAL DEAL....
2007-02-12 09:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm seeing guys on here telling you to email them. I personally wouldn't do that. Send me an email. I'm kind of sort of in your boat (but not totally...can explain more later) and at risk of sounding egotistical, have no complaints from my guy. Can explain more detail in an email. Sorry, but I'm just not all about posting certain details on here. (That, and in an email you don't have to worry about politically correct wording/spelling to get some things across.)
Email me through Answers, and I can give you my personal email.
-Teri
2007-02-12 09:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Cheyenne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are not ready for everything, but you want to make him "happy" I'm sure he'd be glad to talk you through exactly what would be best. because all guys are different in what they like.
2007-02-12 09:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by J-Rod on the Radio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume your mate knows that you are new (virgin) so if he is sensible he should understand your inexperience! If you are not ready tell him so, if he likes you as a person he will stick around - if not he wasn't worth your most priced possession, your innocence that is!!!
2007-02-12 09:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by CC Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get a copy of The Joy Of Sex.
2007-02-12 09:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋