there is this boy i fancy and he 15 and im 14 i find it hard 2 talk 2 him but were good friends because our parents know each other and once he came round my house but he didn't to me and i didn't talk to him, i mean my friend asked him if he fancies me but he says he doesnt know and then he said he doesn't see me in that way but he will think about and hes only known since then that i fancy him, and he says were good friends but he won't say yes or no, and to me i get the impression that he trying to see he likes me as friend but we might have chance later on, do you think i should move on or do you think he fancies me or not, or do you think we have a chance.
2007-02-12 01:29:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey sweet lil pink panther gal, what's the hurry?..
As you said, you're only 14 and that guy's 15. You shouldn't worry that much, guys are almost uncertain about their feelings when it comes to love. You said you fancy him, right? But, do you really love him?
I'm 16 and I had a quite familiar problem with guys when I was your age. I fancied a guy, who was my dad friend's son, he reacted the same way as your friend did when he came to know that I fancied him.
I took some time off, re-evaluated my feelings, met new guys; and finally I realised that it wasn't love. You'll soon find out that this is just an attraction, probably the guys of your age do not make big impressions on you, that's why you like him so much.
As you'll grow older, you'll see that life doesn't go on the way we want it to be. Be relaxed, take your time, hang out with boys or your age or a bit older, you'll find the difference.
By the way, it's been 2 years now, and I have a crush on someone else.
2007-02-12 06:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't see you in that way. For now. You have a friendship that you should continue, because it can grow. Just be there for him without any pressure. A good friend is hard to find. He may be interested in someone else and doesnt' want to hurt you. And that person may not work out for him. When he's ready you'll know even more about him and he'll appreciate your patience. But still keep looking.
2007-02-12 09:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Venita Peyton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's always a chance, but, with him being only 15. It might take him awhile to realize it. In the meantime, move on you never know you could find someone that you would like. There's a lot of nice boys out there.
2007-02-12 09:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remain friends for a while see where that leads you all friendship, if u jump in 2 quick u could lose a very good friend. just countie talking as friends. and invite him over even if it's joust to talk about anything , or a dinner, don't give up. keep on holding on . r u could just sit him down & ask him straight out .
2007-02-12 09:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by claysaramommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It dosen't sould like you two really know each other all too well yet so try and arrange something where you can spend some time together without it being a big deal and see what happens.
2007-02-12 09:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please for the love of God DO NOT worry yourself over a boy! I wasted some of my best years on one boy and it turned out nasty. There are way more fish in the sea and i suggest you get fishing. I expect your far too good for him anyway so move on to someone that is gonna give you what you want!
2007-02-12 11:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he is over your house sit down with him and talk about it, and if he still says he doesnt no then move on
2007-02-12 09:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by shelley l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god to be teenager again. life doesn't get any easier you know! Having been a teenage many years ago we never admit liking a girl to anyone because we are cr*p! ignore him he will come running. Valentines is coming send him a card!
2007-02-12 09:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Monkeyphil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on sweety. if theres a chance later then go for it, but for now just be Friends.
2007-02-12 09:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's prob just a crush, ur young still plenty of time to get a boyfriend just go out there and have sum fun
2007-02-12 09:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋