Hey guys, remember me? Thanks for the advice by the way.
Basically, we've just broken up for the second time now (my girlfriend and i) and she said that "we should just be friends".
However, none of this makes sense because on Saturday she told me she forgave me (i told another girl i like her) and actually said, "To think that we were going to break up earlier this week, what was i thinking?
We made out so much that day as well-really intimate and passionate kissing.
Then suddenly today she says she wants to break up with me. She told me she still like me but she just can't trust me but the real truth is that she gets all her advice on boys from her older sister who HATES me.
So, we've broken up twice now, both times because of her sister.
So, what do I do, how do I get her back?
What do I do for Valentine's Day?
PLEASE HELP ME!!! I love this girl so much and i need her in my life!
2007-02-12 01:35:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her how you feel and let her know about her sister and what she is doing is wrong. Sister should keep her nose out of it.
2007-02-12 01:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure her sister is actually working against you here? Maybe you are just finding someone to blame? Look, her sister will try and do what she feels is best for your girlfriend, the last thing she wants, is to see her hurt, so maybe you shouldn't be so harsh on the sister.
As for what you can do. Be your gf's friend! You love her enough to want her to be happy above all, right? Then give her what she is asking for. If she wants to take a step back, then let her do that and take this opportunity to show her that she can trust you. Saying it isn't enough, you have to show it in your actions each and every minute. If you make a date, be sure to be there before she does. If you promise something, don't ever even consider breaking that promise. You need to show her that you are reliable in every aspect of your life, so this goes for every encounter, with or without her. Trust is tough to get back once broken, so you should put a lot of effort into it if you want her back.
2007-02-12 02:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for you, I really do. Her sister must have a reason that she doesnt like you right? Thing is you have to know why she hates you then talk to your girl. Explain how shes got it all wrong and tell her you love her. Dont go right infront of her face and say she was stupid enough to listen to her sis..dont say that out of anger! but tell her how much you love her, dont be agressive or too desperate to get her back but passionate and ready to take care of her. After you do all that..this is the bad part hun...its up to her. Dont lose hope!
2007-02-12 01:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by You've Already Won Me Over 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her a box of chocolates and some roses send her a txt saying how much you need her and if she wants you to change change and write her a romantic poem. i think the roses will work
2007-02-12 01:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Pastinie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a poem and get her a necklace & card tell her how you feel and try talking to her sister...stay calm and dont start yelling....dont let anything get in the way of love!!!!
2007-02-12 01:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by then she killed my brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make out with her sister.
2007-02-12 01:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a 3some with her sister and mom and let her catch you. She will be so jealous she'll want you back.
2007-02-12 01:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by whodeyflya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly speaking bro never mind your ex-girlfriend!!!
Theres plenty of girls who have great personality than your ex!!!
So go ahead bro make your way around town!!!
2007-02-12 01:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by ~RoNin~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk
2007-02-12 02:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋