Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

Which article of clothing best describes your personality and why?

Low Cut Blouse
Jogging Suit
Short Skirt
Jeans
Pantyhose or stockings
Tennis Shoes
High Heels

Which one best describes your personality and why?

2007-02-08 00:55:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 00:55:34 · 13 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Friends

She and I hve been together on and off for 8 months....mostly on these days most recently she said I'm the one..and asked me to meet the family.I said thats what I want but we really haven't spoked about A-LOT OF "THINGS"....sex is great but thats really all we really do,I feel like thats all she really wants me for, when I try to talk to her she changes the subject {rather artfully}..I'm not sure if she does this purposely?.....she's still seeing the airline pilot...I can't really say much...I thought about makeing myself not so available....but......I feel like I should just try to be better than the competition ..........do I tell her she means more than just haveing me or is timing everything? She goes back and forth on me...and I sure she does it to him as well.....{this morning he called and he and yelled at her for blowing him off }....I need to STRAIGHTEN THIS OUT .....or do I just xxxx her when she calls me ..at least she calls....oh I stopped calling her I tried to tell her.

2007-02-08 00:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by Smith & Jones 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 00:54:33 · 15 answers · asked by live forever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 00:53:39 · 23 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 00:52:13 · 34 answers · asked by katluvsu4eva2004 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, I'm moving foreward to marriage and I am coming to terms with something I've always sort of known... I'm not going to have any guests (I just dont know anyone), I have no one to act as a bridesmaid, my futur husband and I cant think of anyone to be in the party, and we can't think of any family to invite,
I suppose neither of us really has any friends. just people we casually know from work, We both have always been bookish and quite people and hold a variety of advanced degrees between us, just no friends. Also, we can't seem to find a minister or church as the ones we have contacted say they only allow members to use the facilities.
This stinks because I used to hope I'd have a happy traditional special day, but really what is the point with no guests or minister?
I suppose some quicky civil ceremony in the town's police station will have to fit the bill now, which doesn't sound too uplifting.
:(

2007-02-08 00:51:13 · 34 answers · asked by Zarina K 2 in Weddings

She's fresh out of high school. And, I'm about 12 years older than her. So, I have no idea why a girl that young is looking. But, in any case, was it a compliment? My pants are not supertight.

(If it helps, I am probably bigger than average.)

2007-02-08 00:50:21 · 16 answers · asked by duck 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 00:50:07 · 16 answers · asked by whatzit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im usually known as the joker amoung my friends, but i fear that my joking and sense of humor is the thing that is causing her not to think of me as a person she will be willing to date. last week my friend ask her for me and i was there she just looked at me and said "you know.." i was like yeah. i had no idea this was going to happen but it did so now i dont know what to do, i want to find a way to prove to her that i can be sweet, interesting etc. but now im afraid that because my friend already poped it up, now my chances are gone. Help please

2007-02-08 00:49:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My good friend has been influenced by all those people who are gossiping about me..I really dont care about them gossiping..But why is my good friend influenced by all this???I cant understand why other people love to ruin my life..WHY ME????????.I dont even like to go to school..Please help me out..I am really very stressed out..Please Please Please help me..I am really very sad..Those people are degrading my name..Why are they doing this to me..When i talk to somebody,they will ignore me..I am good in my studies...Are they jealous???Why are they doing this to me..Why do they wanna disturb me???Why Why Why????

2007-02-08 00:49:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i like her. she had a bf when i asked her out.. then i left a poem on her car. still had a bf.. i decide to ask her to a concert but a friend says something to her then she tells me she dont like the band.. then she tells me she didnt hav a bf.. and we talk. oneday i walk her to her car then i ask for her number n she says find her on myspace.. i do(wish i never got on there). we talk n then one day i tell her i hav fallen in love with her. i think i freaked her out(she says you hardly know me how can u love me ur just infatuated) then she tells the manager n now i cant get around her.. but on christmas i got her a gift n we tlked again.(we never hardly spoke to ech other only on myspace...)then she has a party n i ask if i can go then she said ya but i didnt go..n i told her the reason i wanted to go was to get to know her. then next day i see her n shes smiling at me n then i just walk away..then shes mad again.now everytime we pass ech other we feel awkward.n i get a stareHELP

2007-02-08 00:48:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And i want something not so basic,,

2007-02-08 00:48:36 · 9 answers · asked by deathape28 2 in Weddings

I'm confused about what my friend thinks of me. I've known him properly for about three months, and we generally hang around in a group. Sometimes I get the feeling he likes me. He looks at me and smiles at me a lot. He often sits next to me. If I'm talking to other people he often seems to be listening to what I'm saying, and sometimes joins in with the conversation, commenting on what I've said. He'll remember things I've said to him, or things I've said when he's around from weeks before. He'll always comes over and talk to me when he gets the chance, and sometimes when I'm talking to other people he'll hang around me, as if he wants to talk to me but doesn't have the chance to. He's generally quite shy, and doesn't give much away, so it's hard to tell what he's thinking. What signs should I be looking for? How can I tell whether it's just friendship he wants, or more?

2007-02-08 00:47:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

can a woman still enjoy sex even with a stranger of which she dosen't know his name neither his face, and he dosen't know her name neither her face?

2007-02-08 00:47:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like a guy who is thinking only about work.He likes me,but I think that he doesn't have love in plan now or maybe doesn't have time for love ...How can I make him mine? :)

2007-02-08 00:46:58 · 14 answers · asked by Yasna 2 in Singles & Dating

So i'm having a confusing time--dating and relationship wise. I broke up with my ex before christmas and since then i've been seeing this one girl who lives near me, and were old friends from high school. Recently we've been hooking up madly, and we like one another. The down side to this girl is that she goes to school in NYC--I go to school an hour and a half from there. She really doesn't make me seem like boyfriend potential... she's really just into sex, but as of late she has been showing interest in me. So im half in and half out with my feelings for her. Mind you were both single and have not committed to one another.

On the other hand there is this other girl i just met recently... she is a lot more attractive and out going and down to earth. She is very personable, sweet, and sincere. We have went on one REALLY romantic date already that truly went just like a dream or fairytale. And the thing is im starting to like her as well.

2007-02-08 00:46:40 · 8 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Singles & Dating

My best (girl) friend is dating my ex, who is also one of my best (male) friends. When they hooked up, my girlfriend took things a bit fast and scared my male friend who told her that she was "pressuring" him and he didn't like it: he dumped her harshly. I was put in the very awkward position of having to console my girlfriend, who wanted to me to participate in bashing my male friend who had treated her so badly. As a good friend, I did what i could to console her and the break up destroyed her: it caused her to treat herself badly (drugs, alcohol, depression). It was really awful to watch. Fastforward a few months: I've told her that she needs to have no contact with this guy because he's toxic for her: she continues to talk to him and now she's going to visit him. I want to respect her rights as an adult but I do not want to have to be put in a position where I have to hear about the drama. Does it make me a bad friend to tell her that i dont want to talk about him with her?

2007-02-08 00:44:19 · 13 answers · asked by fancy_muskrat 2 in Singles & Dating

cleaner than a man's because she changes it more often?

2007-02-08 00:44:16 · 17 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are married and have kids, how do you find the time to have sex. My husband and I have 3 kids and we can never find the time for anything let alone sex. Any suggestions?

2007-02-08 00:43:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sentimental, love songs with "love the second time around (or the 3rd, 4th..umpteenth time around, hehehe)" theme...

Thanks!

2007-02-08 00:43:40 · 5 answers · asked by Just Asking 2 in Singles & Dating

I am close with my brother's wife and the rest of her family but I have trouble when I try to describe our familial relationship to other people. Is there a term for the parents and siblings of your sister-in-law? What about the siblings' spouses?

2007-02-08 00:43:32 · 6 answers · asked by JLDuffy 1 in Family

Basically, I'm not very happy with my husband. Don't get me wrong, I love him to death, I just wish he sometimes acted as though he cared. He just comes home from work, takes off his shoes, and starts watching tv. It's like I'm not even there. I'm one of those people that needs a little bit of romance and some sweet gestures every now and again. He wouldn't even get me birthday or christmas gifts if I didn't tell him when to go get it, directions to the store, and what exactly it was that I wanted. I'd like to have a nice romantic suprise every now and then...I've told him many times that I'd like to have some romance, but it's like I'm speaking a foreign language to him. I'm getting so restless. I feel as though he doesn't need me or appreciate me. So, why am I here? The only time he gives me any attention is when he wants sex! What should I do? I can't talk to him. He doesn't listen to anything.

2007-02-08 00:43:08 · 11 answers · asked by ~the unforgiven~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughtd out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to thje time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I Am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit

2007-02-08 00:42:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

women..strip for money???

2007-02-08 00:42:35 · 11 answers · asked by a.c 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you go out with someone who you know has cheated before?

2007-02-08 00:41:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 00:40:42 · 10 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 00:39:33 · 19 answers · asked by Lamypard 1 in Friends

We all have regrets or should have , would have , could of? if you could back in time what is the one thing that you would change and why??

2007-02-08 00:39:29 · 10 answers · asked by sml 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a big reunion to go to this weekend and i don't want to go without one. do you think a replace would be ok just for the weekend? i know that cubic zirconia's look so real now no one would probably even tell but i don't want to feel dump. any ideas?

2007-02-08 00:38:53 · 5 answers · asked by mommyoftwo 1 in Weddings