A Girl Told Me Her Friends Call Me "Tight Pants". Was That a Compliment?

Question

She's fresh out of high school. And, I'm about 12 years older than her. So, I have no idea why a girl that young is looking. But, in any case, was it a compliment? My pants are not supertight.

(If it helps, I am probably bigger than average.)

Answer 1

hmm..i think...that "thing" of urs might be bulging! hehehe...:-P

Answer 2

I'm with you in thinking it's more of an insult, even if that's not the way it was intended. Women are impossibly sensitive about weight, so we're inclined to consider anything other than the word "thin" an insult. Even a guy who appreciates curves knows he can offend any woman by his choice of words. As crazy as this sounds, most white guys I know consider "thick" a negative thing (or they say they do, even if they're clearly drawn to women who don't resemble stick figures), but most black guys I know consider it a high compliment. But even if a black guy tells me I'm "thick" with an appreciative smile on his face, I can't help but recoil in horror because I hear the word "fat" instead of "thick." I wish I could feel flattered, but I honestly don't. By the way, if you're 5'9" and 165 pounds, you definitely don't meet the criteria required to be considered fat! You sound like you're proportioned the way a woman should be -- complete with breasts and hips. To hell with all the genetic freaks passing themselves off as supermodels! Two days without food and they're dead of starvation! And who will have the last laugh then? The real women will!

Answer 3

Hmmmm....

Don't know.

Brush it off your shoulders. You be the bigger person since you're so much older than she. You set the example and shrug off the nonsense comment. Don't take every little thing to heart. It's not worth it, and really, life is just too short.

I wouldn't take it as compliment or insult. It just may very well be that she could be bored and would like some drama in her life and she's making nonsense comments to kick start it.

Occupy your time with like minded ppl your own age and leave the high school graduates with their peers.

Hope this has helped.

Answer 4

If she's just a baby. than yes, its probably a compliment.

Its either a comment on you having a large member, or maybe you just wear pants that are too small for you and you look ridiculous.

At any rate, thats what you get for hanging out with children, they do stupid crap like that.

Answer 5

If it were me, I would not take it as a compliment. I would take it that they were commenting that I need to get pants that fit.
Skin tight pants on large hips and legs aren't very attractive.

Answer 6

When I was growing up we used to call it "iron pants". It is a compliment in a way, it should mean no one can get into them.

Answer 7

maybe to her your tight pants dont really compliment your figure. so i dont really think its a compliment. just forget about it, she's probably jealous anyway that a woman much older than her looks better in tight pants than she does.

Answer 8

Duck! Coach! We're Conservatives! Conservative Values. Respectful Views to Women. Let's get back to being respectful to others. Show yourself as a Man. Not a piece of Meet! Your Heart Loves this Country. Show that heart, instead of your Groin. I hope this only fires you up. No offense, intended!

Answer 9

Do you wear your pants high a la Simon Cowell?

I can't see how it can be construed as a compliment, tight pants sounds derogatory to me.

Answer 10

Your pants may not be supertight, but they are tight nonetheless. Girls laugh at metros like you.

Answer 11

No, it was not a compliment. Wish people could see themselves from the rear as others do.