My good friend has been influenced by all those people who are gossiping about me..I really dont care about them gossiping..But why is my good friend influenced by all this???I cant understand why other people love to ruin my life..WHY ME????????.I dont even like to go to school..Please help me out..I am really very stressed out..Please Please Please help me..I am really very sad..Those people are degrading my name..Why are they doing this to me..When i talk to somebody,they will ignore me..I am good in my studies...Are they jealous???Why are they doing this to me..Why do they wanna disturb me???Why Why Why????
2007-02-08 00:49:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Everyone hates me..Teachers like me alot..But students hate me..What have I done????I have not done anything to them..
2007-02-08 00:52:11 · update #1
Hey, first of all, calm down, take a deep breath and try to fight theb urge to smash something.
You have a lot of problems and it takes time to work them out. Being liked by all teachers may sometimes be a problem, because, well....kids think its uncool, or they get jealous. Dont let that bother you
Next- if your best friend is really beleiving this crap about you, maybe he/she really isnt that good a friend. Talk to your friend and tell her/him how you feel. I know what you're going through right now, and its awful. But getting worked up isnt going to solve any problems.
The gossip about you isnt true right?? When you knwo that, then why do you get so bothered??
The next time someone tell you sometung, just turn around and say " Yeah, thats me. So what? If you have a problem with that, just shut it."
The more you show them taht you get upset, the more thay will do this. Act cool and talk back. Dont take this lying down. Listen, you've got things working for you. You're good at studies, and you also seem to be a really nice person. Think about that rather than what the others say.
When you know that you're okay, then why bother?? Do you really think taht those people may be right?? No way!!!
Get your act together and give it back to them. Dont take this anymore. Show them that you;re someone to reckon with. Proove them wrong!!!!!!
And about your good friend, try talking. Thats the best thing to do
Good luck, and dont get bugged. this happens to everyone!!!!
cheer up!
^_^
2007-02-08 02:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by uniciron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they are jealous and that their lives are so boring that they have nothing else to talk about. I went through that in high school to, but I never really cared about those kids, I just did my own thing. About your friend, if she is getting influenced like that then she's not really a good friend is she? It seems like she just wants to go with the crowd, it's sad because the ones that do that cannot develop their own identity, they just do what the others are doing. I say, continue your studies since you do well and remember, once high school is done you'll never see these idiots again! if they tell you things in your face just answer them back, you could say something like "well I don't care if you think I'm (whatever they call you) I'd rather be that than be you"! Believe me, just do your own thing and it will all come to an end one day.
2007-02-08 00:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If all others gossip about you, it means you have got something really special and nice. When people want to be like you and they can't be they gossip. Don't pay attention to it and keep on being best and paying attention towards studies.
If your friend is affected by all this, give her some time. After being in company of other people for a while, she will realize herself that you are a better person to be with and she will come back. You will have to be patient for this. When she comes back, forgive her with open heart. She will understand you more this way and will never leave you again after. Bond between two of you will be very strong and real and both will come closer this way.
If she does not come back even after giving her time, God will send you some other real friend. Trust me.
2007-02-08 01:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds as if you are dealing with a group of immature
teens, however you will not be a student in high school forever
Some children never grow up so it seems. Therefore never
allow them to see you sweat! only you can rise above the issues
which are being presented. If your friend doesn't know who you are , what you are about, my advice would be get a new friend the choice is yours. So if you must confront, ask for proof in every accusation being made, not hear say. He said this or she said that, Facts always points to the liar, who started the drama?
you can end the chapter or start a new episode in your life.
2007-02-08 01:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry your going through this. Please know we all go through this and it will get better. Your friend, if a true friend will come back. If not, you will make other friends, true friends, wonderful friends, who will share excelant adventures with you.
As to why some people want to hurt other people ??? That question has been asked since the begining of time. A lot of people are looking for the answer to this day. Just remember this feeling and when you get the chance don't do this to anyone else. I know will have the chance, it happen to me and lots of other folks also. It probly happened to the people who are hurting you know and they are acting on their hurt.
Hang in there, share the friendship, be nice to people, help people, and it will come back to you.
2007-02-08 01:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by FREE4ALL8 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe they are jealous because you concentrate on your studys and want to do something with your life
you could try talking to your good friend to c why they have been gossipping about you and why they want to upset you
if that does't work then maybe your friend is not as good a friend as you first thought and you should find a friend that is worth keeping
if you ignore the gossips they will soon get bored
2007-02-08 00:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by stace 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find out what it is that changed ur friends opinion about u personally as soon as possible face 2 face and then take it from there. If its just plain kak stories laugh out loud in his face and tell ur best friend 2 his face u honestly overestimated his intelligence. And then phone ur local radio station and dedicate Pink's - stupid girl 2 him. But if ur in the wrong work it out 4 ur self or come and ask another question.
2007-02-08 00:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well most likely they are the most hated kids at your school and they are trying to feel popular by messing with you . They want to most likely be like you and do not want to because they will never be as smart are happier then you are to be smart in your studies .It will all pass one day . Never let them know it bothers you they will continue to mess with you . Your good friend is not a good friend if he betrayed you like that . Let him know that you do not need a friend like him that makes you feel like you are being bullied like the others do to you.
2007-02-08 00:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that sounds like what happened to me last year then i this year they still hated me so i dress all in black and white and i got alot of attention inb a good way. and now im the most popular one there. i t all takes time. some people think im gothic bnut im just expressing myself.
2007-02-08 00:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by Emo_Gurl™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them and carry on your studies and maintain relationship with teachers and friends. you dont' need to worry. time will heal. if they dont' talk just ignore them. you are there to study and to make your life secure. why cares whether other students talk to you or not.
2007-02-08 00:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by vijay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋