She and I hve been together on and off for 8 months....mostly on these days most recently she said I'm the one..and asked me to meet the family.I said thats what I want but we really haven't spoked about A-LOT OF "THINGS"....sex is great but thats really all we really do,I feel like thats all she really wants me for, when I try to talk to her she changes the subject {rather artfully}..I'm not sure if she does this purposely?.....she's still seeing the airline pilot...I can't really say much...I thought about makeing myself not so available....but......I feel like I should just try to be better than the competition ..........do I tell her she means more than just haveing me or is timing everything? She goes back and forth on me...and I sure she does it to him as well.....{this morning he called and he and yelled at her for blowing him off }....I need to STRAIGHTEN THIS OUT .....or do I just xxxx her when she calls me ..at least she calls....oh I stopped calling her I tried to tell her.
2007-02-08 00:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by Smith & Jones 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is using both of you
2007-02-08 01:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully, you're not sleeping with her unprotected, because she's lying to you about everything and pilots fly around the country sleeping with whoever they can get. Do you suffer from low self-esteem, because obviously she is not the only girl in the world. If you are single, be sure to not get serious with single mothers. For now the next time that slut calls you, tell her that you don't want to catch anything and hang up.
2007-02-08 09:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Candance1811 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its just a fling, after a complete year, you will just know her as a memory.
if she has someone else in mind then sad to say my dear, get over it, you know that you and her will never be, and shes full of lies.
why worrie about compitition, its not worth it.
obviously she dont know whta the hell she wants, she sounds like a mind f**k to me lol.
leave her alone, she is just just gonna play games, with the both of you, she must get off on it to keep doing this in her own sick twisted way..
im sorry im not tring to sound mean, ingnorent, nor arrogent, but is see so many girls do this, and guys too.
you shoul find a faithfull gal that knows what she wants and who is sweet, not a pig.
but thats me hun, i really cant tell you how to run your life, but if you want to keep getiing more confused, and d**ked around, then thats your choise.
good luck hun
i hope you figure out whats best for you, mentally and physically
2007-02-08 09:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try refusing to have sex with her one time and tell her that you'd like to have a conversation instead and see what she says
2007-02-08 09:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by stace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not love. blow her out and leave her to the pilot. find yourself someone who will love you and respect you and herself by being mongomous.
2007-02-08 09:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should severe tie with her. tell her frankly that you don't like her meeting with other guy. if she does not change herself, better you should change your GF.
2007-02-08 09:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by vijay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your phone number and forget her
2007-02-08 09:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by ayal p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, that is not love.
2007-02-08 08:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋