So i'm having a confusing time--dating and relationship wise. I broke up with my ex before christmas and since then i've been seeing this one girl who lives near me, and were old friends from high school. Recently we've been hooking up madly, and we like one another. The down side to this girl is that she goes to school in NYC--I go to school an hour and a half from there. She really doesn't make me seem like boyfriend potential... she's really just into sex, but as of late she has been showing interest in me. So im half in and half out with my feelings for her. Mind you were both single and have not committed to one another.
On the other hand there is this other girl i just met recently... she is a lot more attractive and out going and down to earth. She is very personable, sweet, and sincere. We have went on one REALLY romantic date already that truly went just like a dream or fairytale. And the thing is im starting to like her as well.
2007-02-08 00:46:40 · 8 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
am i doing the wrong thing in double dating, two women?
who should i procue? i dont know what to do...
2007-02-08 00:47:38 · update #1
So you have a choice between a nymphomaniac or a more wholesome down to earth girl.............
I'd say go with girl #2. You speak highly of her and seem to like her more anyway.
2007-02-08 00:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as there's no exclusivity, either stated or implied, there's nothing wrong with dating two different women. Just make sure you're honest about it if the subject should come up. As long as you're just dating, or not seeing either exclusively, there's nothing wrong with it. How else would you know if either girl is worth seeing?
2007-02-08 00:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only becomes a problem after you have made a commitment with one of the women. If that happens, you need to stop seeing the other.
2007-02-08 00:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the down to earth one..
a girl who is just into sex cant give you all you need out of a significant other. you need someone to care about you too.
i say go for the down to earth one and have a great relationship..
i wish you the best man..
2007-02-08 00:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of while you're clever, you will bail on the full marriage situation superb now. i think of superb now in this united states of america and out of the country, marriage & having infants is a frightening proposition whether you reside jointly or no longer. as we communicate, the divorce fee is so intense by way of no-fault divorce. in case you have young infants, for women individuals - meaning they carry each and all the enjoying cards. a guy as we communicate has to attain that, love and "the dream" aside, the hazards to adult adult males/fathers far outweigh the rewards. examine the source - some great books and different components on merely this situation. family members court docket is tilted heavily in choose of ladies individuals/mothers. mothers have each and all the rights, get each and all the advantages, and pa is merely too in many circumstances relegated to a customer in his baby's lives whilst being an ATM gadget for mom. He can lose a million/2 (or extra) of the money, vehicles, residing house, investments, and so on... and worse - the infants. heavily, if I had familiar then what i be attentive to now approximately how the divorce gadget sucks in fathers, grinds them up, and spits them out so unceremoniously, i might have by no potential gotten married. i might have given up my dream of having a family members. without-fault divorce (the biggest killer of marriage and families) you do no longer choose an excuse anymore to break up. you merely do no longer could experience like being married anymore - and with that certainty comes the certainty - a marriage is now no longer a settlement, so what's the element different than to place your self and your destiny in threat whilst somebody "does not experience like it anymore?" With women individuals (who've infants) commencing up very almost 3/4 of divorces as we communicate (maximum adult adult males do no longer even see it coming), that's the clever guy who chooses to no longer get married and in no way have infants... and that's a shame. This impacts adult adult males, women individuals, and young infants alike. It impacts each and every physique and individuals could awaken to that certainty. i be attentive to that there are awful adult adult males and awful fathers in this worldwide - yet make no mistake - the are lots of awful women individuals and awful mothers in this worldwide and we could continually all be taken care of the comparable way (good or undesirable) and that merely isn't happening as we communicate.
2016-11-02 21:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard the phrase, "Burning the candle at both ends"? You're gonna find yourself, with neither of `em. If they find out. Be a Man! Show some respect to both of `em. You wouldn't want them geekin' someone else. Listen to your Heart. See which one, it tells you to be with. And be respectful enough, to tell the other one, that you wish her well.
2007-02-08 00:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit playin with these girls!wat kinda REPECT is that!!!!!!!!!! dont start no relationship if u havent completly closed the old one...i think wat u really need 2 do is give girls a time out...u seem young so just enjoy life an friends...quit wasting ur time on "dating games'...just wait till the "right-one" comes along!! u dont need all that baggage!!!!!!!!11
2007-02-08 00:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by angeljoy89 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This type of relationship never last. Dumping someone close to X-mas, it`s really nasty. Cut her lose!
2007-02-08 00:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋