Is it okey to tell friends our secrets?

Answer 1

YES! If you really trust your friends, you should tell them your secrets. I do. I have two best friends and have told them a secret about my life, something no one else knows. It is a very sad secret, but I trust them to keep this secret. I am a great secret holder. No one can get a secret out me, I would never tell a secret to anyone. But yes tell you friend, but make sure you can trust them first. And if you can't trust them, then they are not good friends.

Answer 2

It depends...how long have you been friends? Can you trust your friend to keep things between you and them? If you don't know tell them something trivial that doesn't matter and see if it comes back to you. See if they can keep a secret. ALWAYS make sure that you tell your friend when you want something kept between the two of you.

After you know that you can trust your friend I say go for it. If you need to talk or vent who else can you trust? Some things can only be trusted to be talked through with a friend. Sometimes they are the only ones who understand. I can go to my parents and talk to them but sometimes they just don't understand like my best friend does. (I have more than one best friend that I can call.) My best friends are there for me. Remember it works the same way though. You need to be there for your friends and when they are confiding in you make sure before you get off the phone that you let them know that this will stay between you and your friend, that you won't tell anyone their secret.

Now on the other hand there is a time to tell. If your friend is getting hurt or needs help for some reason. They will thank you later, maybe much later. But you did the right thing. I hope that this helps you.

Answer 3

Yes. I have told secrets to my friends...but, I know that I can trust them. We have a special bond and with that bond is a contract. I don't tell them anything until, I feel like they are very trustworthy. And knock on wood, they haven't let my information leak out yet and they have known these things for years. Also, if you think about it, a secret is no longer a secret if it is told. It then becomes news. Just be careful (of course), and you will know who and what to tell. :-)

Answer 4

Ben Franklin said, "Three can keep a secret if two of them are dead."

My motto is, if you can't keep your own secrets, why expect someone else to keep your secrets?

In other words, if I breach my own trust and tell someone MY secrets, I cannot be upset if that person goes and spreads my secret. If I share a secret with one person, I accept responsibility for the fact that more than 2 people may know my secret by the end of the day.

Answer 5

yes of course. that is one of the great aspects of having a friend. but make sure that you can trust this friend before you spill out your words. you wouldnt want to end up saying things you dont want the world to know if your friend is a blabbermouth. and keep in mind that while telling a friend something nobody else knows brings you closer, you dont always have to tell your secrets to people. some things you should keep to yourself.

Answer 6

Yes. It is our duty as a friend to tell our secrets. Friendship requires us to be honest with each other. Living a life full of secrets is the same as living a life of lies.

Answer 7

I think it is OK but if it is something very detrimental
don't if you are asking this question than you are leery
so follow your heart and listen well..I do not tell secrets
because that is what they are secrets..I may share
some things about me with someone but I am very
careful who I share with because not everything is
for everyone..

Answer 8

hey i wanna help u in this bcoz i m very well xperienced in this matters ..u r secret u can just share a little bit with u r the most best frd .because this is the world where everyone is selfwish and u cant trust any 1
all d best

Answer 9

Then your love is no secret anymore. Wether you telll the whole world or just one person, it is no longer a secret. It just takes longer for the news to spread.

Answer 10

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