Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

2007-02-08 01:38:31 · 14 answers · asked by in need of advise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Music is very important to me. I am getting married in October. I am not really into the normal tunes that get played at weddings by cheesy DJ's. So, I'd like to have a DJ that will play the songs that I give him. Has that been done? Is it offensive to the DJ?

2007-02-08 01:38:04 · 19 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Weddings

i blame myself for my parents splitting up a lot....i mean...maybe if i wasn't in my teens and wasn't always in a bad mood maybe they would have had given it more try to make it work again...they divorced ....twice

2007-02-08 01:37:09 · 18 answers · asked by flaming red 2 in Family

Come on, this is a board not only for minors, but also for adults to ask genuine questions, though it may not be suitable for minors.

2007-02-08 01:37:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 01:36:39 · 12 answers · asked by kyna 1 in Friends

Its m first proper relationship...im 17 he's 20 he means everything to me....im on anti depressants at mo, finindg things hard and just dont know how to pick myself up. He's so supportive an he says i am when hes down...was just wondering how do you know its love?? I guess im having doubts as it i my first proper relationship?????

I hate having these doubts, it gets me really really down and i can't stand hurting him...
Please help

Been going out for 6 months now

2007-02-08 01:36:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 01:35:21 · 20 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

seems like everytime i meet a chick shes 18 or 19...im 24 now. i been w/ older but lately thats all i been gettin. is that wrong, or is something wrong w/ me?

2007-02-08 01:34:56 · 16 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 01:34:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-08 01:34:17 · 4 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Friends

i love a girl who is my best frd and she lkes a guy who dsnt care for her .and i cant convey my love ".how do i do plz help

2007-02-08 01:34:11 · 8 answers · asked by kaalllllllllllllllllllllllllll 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you know if your boyfriend is about to brake up with you!!!!!
Me and my b/f got inn a big figth and he did not call me back after that.I tired to call him but he always rejected my call dose that mean is he mad at me or dose he won't to brake up!!!Please help!!

2007-02-08 01:34:00 · 12 answers · asked by hot_cowgirl_1986 1 in Singles & Dating

We were goods friends before we started dating,it seems we fell for each other the day we met but were not certain whether the other felt the same, when he finally surfaced his feelings and found out i feel the same way, we bonded since then. And believe we truly love each other, same age, both working, both don't have a car, he give me the love, respect, appreciation and acceptance that i deserve.Same thing about me, he wnats to spend the rest of his life with me, but we are not yet ready financially to get married and he's afraid of losing me not that he doesnt trust me, but he's just insecure of losing his princess. I suggested we go for counselling which he agrees to. Any opinions???? I love him big time.

2007-02-08 01:33:58 · 7 answers · asked by Phenomenal woman 2 in Singles & Dating

Well...my bf and I are "attempting" to have sex. Everytime we start to, I get psychologically scared of the pain (yes my first time) and I begin to close up. I am really really tight too...it's really hard for him to enter. He says it even hurts him a lil when he tries to penetrate me because I am so tight. AFter that..he tries to "loosen" me up by using his fingers...but for even that I have closed up! It hurts and burns even if he just touches me! I am so confused...what do I do to not freak out so much? Im just really really scared of the pain...?! I freak out and scream and scare my bf... (im 18..so im not some lil girl..just so you know...) please help! serious answers only please! If any girl is willing to talk too..that would be nice. How do I stop the pain from stopping me?!! I dont want answers that say..ur not ready or something..and im not being pressured. so thanx :)

:) Thanx for your help!

2007-02-08 01:33:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known my honey in email for about 2 months now and have had to full weekend dates.

Emails are starting to slow down a bit and I am not sure what to talk about.

Any ideas or links to spice it up?

I am afraid it will get boring..

2007-02-08 01:33:06 · 8 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2 in Singles & Dating

If a man chooses a girl, probably he received an proposal from girl's side, which he expected, wants to have some time to decide then normally how will he think to commit if he is not with the girl or near, or not ever met her personally

2007-02-08 01:32:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl has gotten him to lie to his parents, cus, and just outright rebel AFTER going out for 1 month. This boy is just on the dark side! He use to be fun. Please advise.

2007-02-08 01:32:21 · 4 answers · asked by celest c 1 in Friends

My ex has been calling me lately (if you read my other questions, it isn't the guy I went to lunch with, it is another guy) our relationship ended on VERY bad terms. But I still have never loved anyone like I love him...he wants to see if we can work things out, and as much as I want to, I can't help but think that things will just be horrible again. Things used to be great between us, and I know we both want that back...I just don't know if we have crossed the line too far to be able to get back what we had. I am afraid that if I don't give this a try, I will spend the rest of my life wondering "What if..." and then I am afraid if I do, we will only end up hurting each other in the end. What should I do?

2007-02-08 01:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by spoiledrottenchica1987 3 in Singles & Dating

So here's the story. There's this guy that flirts with me a lot. I've know him for about two years, and i would consider us friends. So then i developed a crush on him. He has a girlfriend, though. He always complains about her, for example he says, "She's annoying!" or "She's mad at me again!" So... one day i asked him if he even liked her, he said, "no." I know this is bad, but this made me happy! LOL. Anyways, i was almost sure that he like, liked me. So i got my friend to tell him how i felt. She did, and it turned out that he didn't like me. So, the next day it was really awkward. I didn't talk as much as i normally did with him and i didn't walk with him. He got mad and complained to Jen, the girl who told him how i felt, that i wasn't talking or walking with him. Then i acted normal except for i didn't start any flriting. He started it all, and now, he flirts with me even more! It's like nonstop! One time, he slapped my butt "by accident" with his folder twice! what do i do?

2007-02-08 01:32:08 · 17 answers · asked by Drea 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 01:31:34 · 18 answers · asked by anuz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 01:31:16 · 11 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a dream last night where somehow I got with the girl who I have liked for a while but never had the courage to ask out; but in the dream, she made the move on me. One thing I remember she said was, "you're really sweet and nice, but otherwise you're pretty average," like it was out of pity or something.

I then remember that in the end she leaves me for another guy, and then strangely, I feel relieved that I'm no longer attracted to her. What do you think?

2007-02-08 01:31:16 · 4 answers · asked by jrodbendi 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy in my class and his birthday is soon so I am going to bake some peanut butter cookies for him because I made them for my class before and he really liked them. He told me that I could bake for him any time because the peanut butter cookies were so good. That is why I decided to make him some for his birthday.
My mom says baking for a guy is a really intamite thing to do but I don't think so and I really want to do this for him. I don't know if I like him but if I bake for him will he think I like him?
What do you think about baking for a guy????
Is it good or bad?
Thanks!

2007-02-08 01:31:02 · 20 answers · asked by j p 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Leaving out the liars and perverts. Have you made friends online?

2007-02-08 01:30:20 · 12 answers · asked by bookfreak2day 6 in Friends

2007-02-08 01:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a sophomore in highschool, and there's a freshman girl I saw who I want to get to know. I haven't really talked but sometimes make eye contact in the hallways. How should I approach her for the first time?

I have NO classes with her, and i only see her in between some classes.

Sicne it's just between a few classes, I can't really go up to her because she's with all her friends and we don't get much time to switch classes.

I wanna go up to her, but I can almost never find her during any of the breaks or in the morning or after school.

If I did find her in the morning or after school, would going up to her for the first time in fornt of her friends be better or worse?

or what if I went up to her in front of her friends then asked to talk to her privatley or something?

2007-02-08 01:28:45 · 16 answers · asked by Andrew 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a older guy likes you?

This guy that i know is 31 and him and i get along great.

I just dont know if he likes me back. I mean i see him scanning me sometimes when we are talking and one day my friend told me that he was eyeing me............(is the same thing as scanning?)

Hes not a pervet and hes really nice to me....

The problem why im having troble with knowing if he likes me or is becuz he has a living gf, but shes on the edge of getting kicked out cuz he doesnt want to be with her.............he tells me this all the time and the thing is he is a manager so im thinking managers shouldnt bring personal issues up to employees during work right?

*hes not my manager but he works in a diff deportment in the store im at*

2007-02-08 01:28:20 · 6 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Friends

I just wanna know..I dont want to act cool..But i just wanna know..

2007-02-08 01:27:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-08 01:27:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you tell someone you dont want to be with them any more .. the spark has gone ...

2007-02-08 01:27:07 · 12 answers · asked by vms001 1 in Friends