So here's the story. There's this guy that flirts with me a lot. I've know him for about two years, and i would consider us friends. So then i developed a crush on him. He has a girlfriend, though. He always complains about her, for example he says, "She's annoying!" or "She's mad at me again!" So... one day i asked him if he even liked her, he said, "no." I know this is bad, but this made me happy! LOL. Anyways, i was almost sure that he like, liked me. So i got my friend to tell him how i felt. She did, and it turned out that he didn't like me. So, the next day it was really awkward. I didn't talk as much as i normally did with him and i didn't walk with him. He got mad and complained to Jen, the girl who told him how i felt, that i wasn't talking or walking with him. Then i acted normal except for i didn't start any flriting. He started it all, and now, he flirts with me even more! It's like nonstop! One time, he slapped my butt "by accident" with his folder twice! what do i do?
2007-02-08 01:32:08 · 17 answers · asked by Drea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all , do not pass messages through your friend ( mistake). Talk to him yourself, but wait until he is single before you try initiate dating with him.
2007-02-08 01:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is playing games with you. He knows you like him and he has told your friend that he doesn't like you back so you should both move on and just be friends.
Maybe you can say something to the effect of " if you keep acting this way then someone may get the idea you like me "
Something that will let him know he is making it hard for you to decipher what he is about.
Just keep being yourself and it will develop into more than friendship or the friendship will deepen. Either way if you are true to yourself and don't let your emotions get in the way you will have a good friendship with the guy.
2007-02-08 09:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By flirting you and slapping your butt, it's just like he couldn't believe that you like him...he is just kinda making fun of you, trying to flirt you if you will bite his style/approach....in short, he still wants you as a friend and he is kinda used already by having you in his sides as an adviser or friend to lean on. Be honest to him and tell him the truth that why he is flirting you, let him the one to talk about it....because the more you will avoid that situation or the truth is the more that you feel awkward and feel bad about that situations and lots of questions in your mind......Your second choice, is get rid of him slowly and be open to other guys to let them walk with you or talk or dating.
2007-02-08 10:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by Susanjbb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if he said he didn't like you b-4, and he said he was mad at his g/f, he either just wants to be friends or is a tremendously good liar. You gotta make your move and ask him yourself or you will never know for sure.
2007-02-08 09:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Brownie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have soooo been in your shoes before. Guys are immature and have no clue what they want. I would just forget about him and find ourself a new hottie. You deserve someone who will give you the right signals and treat you right.
2007-02-08 09:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds as if he isn't genuinely interested and is keeping you around just in case or to pass the time while his gf isn't around.
If I were you, I would move on and find someone who genuinely has your best interest in mind.
2007-02-08 09:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face the truth, Hes a Player with a girl and all you are is a piece of tail to fall back on. dump him before you get hurt.
2007-02-08 09:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by paul k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told her that he doesn't like you then i don't think he does, sounds like you are someone that he wants to keep him entertained, and he only wants to be friends, he also may be playing off of your feelings since he knows that you like him
2007-02-08 09:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not the one for you, find someone who likes you back.
2007-02-08 09:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely he also likes u........but he himself doesn't know abt it.........the moment u were not talking to him ,he was annoyed n was missin u........n may be soon he'll be able to listen his heart ..........so best of luck.
2007-02-08 09:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋