Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

These people moved in next door and are supposedly buying that house pending the sale of their TRAILER. Please what can I do to get rid of them? They have been there a couple of months and in that time...

1. Cops and ambulance were called. The husband slashed his body and wrists with razors. This is not the first time they had cops at their home.

2. The wife smokes pot blatently. The child authorities took her kids. She had them stay at her sisters and was not supposed to see them but the sister brought the kids over to sleep at her house with all this going on. I called but don't know their last name.

3. There are coming and going all hours of the night.

4. The yard has debris and a fallen chimney.

I have already sent a letter to the property owners which is an out of state company. I already called the fire department regarding their chimney falling onto their lawn. What more can I do to get them out? Is there city ordinances I can check into? Help.

2007-02-08 01:26:44 · 7 answers · asked by jayndee13 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-08 01:26:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my girlfriend and I have been dating for about two years and she wrote me a letter saying that it might be better that we break up and see what life has for us and then after writng the letter the next day she says that we have worked so hard and been faithful to this day and that she doesnt want to end the relationship that the letter she wrote it when she was mad and to overlook it. I love her and i know that she loves me and we have worked hard to get to this point in our relationship but she said she will leave the decision of if its over or not. what should i do?? plz help??

2007-02-08 01:26:02 · 11 answers · asked by anthony 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-08 01:26:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know some of you might say why play games. But in this situation I do with this particular guy. He is an ex and I am going to decline ever in the future getting back with him, and politely say that we should just be friends"!. He he messed me about in the past due to his inability to commit then. But said that I was perfect for him. I KNOW he is going to want me back now that I am moving on!

But I just want him to see what he has lost! or could have had!

He still calls me sometimes, he called me the other day to see how I was doing in my new job as I am progressing very well! so if and when he does call shall I just act polite, happy. I want him to see what he had.

No negative comments please just ideas as to how you can make someone realise what they have lost. Or what would make you realise?

Thanks

Some people say that if you ignore or have an attitude it shows that you are still hung up or not over them?

2007-02-08 01:25:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was on the comupter last night, and I saw that my husband went to a divorce discustion site. I got a little curious and started looking through the history and noticed that for the past couple of days that he was going to similar sites and reading up on infidelity. I need some opinions on his motives...Is it that he thinks I'm cheating, or is it that he feels guilty about something?

2007-02-08 01:25:43 · 30 answers · asked by black_temptress_2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-02-08 01:24:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-g/f (where still good friends), just have had her mother die on her. As for helping her with the proccess, what can I do?....I dont want to be too pushy and keep bugging her if she doesnt want to talk. But at the same time I want to know whats she thinking. Whats the best thing to do....

2007-02-08 01:24:11 · 10 answers · asked by witfullsparrow 1 in Family

what would you do if you walked in on your boyfriend with another girl and then find out that he had like five while he was with you.. and you have met them all coinsadently how do i show him im the wrong one to play see he doesnt know i know bout all the other girls they didnt know bout eachother or me so we all looking for a way to nail the sucker any ideas.. plzzz something fun but harsh...

2007-02-08 01:24:03 · 12 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

he always watches her when we are out and when we go by her house or where she works he looks sorta sneeky so i don't see but i do. He says they are not friends and don't talk but her new husband always talks to him and evev when we go to karoke and he sings he looks at her alot . what do i do

2007-02-08 01:22:46 · 10 answers · asked by sho 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-08 01:22:15 · 10 answers · asked by rinks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 01:22:07 · 52 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Singles & Dating

I lykd dis guy for 3 years...we were in class 2gether...2 years l8r i saw hym nd he took football with my bro...he kept on ignoring me wen i was trying 2 tell hym im sorri...he new dat i lykd hym cuz of my bro
i takd 2 him on da internet...nd he sayd he didnt lyk me cuz i wuz ugli...now i dont reeli lyk hym...now every luv song i hear it reminds mei of hym...can u help mei...

2007-02-08 01:22:06 · 16 answers · asked by coager100 1 in Singles & Dating

yes or no?

2007-02-08 01:20:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 01:19:48 · 20 answers · asked by anuz 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl has gotten him to lie to his parents, cus, and just outright rebel AFTER going out for 1 month. This boy is just on the dark side! He use to be fun. Please advise.

2007-02-08 01:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by celest c 1 in Friends

i ve been married since 14 years and really theyve been a torrent for me..from beatings to abuse to my hubby having had an affair, i ve seen it all,i ve two kids and allways coz of them ive given him a second opportunity,i come from a culture that seperating seems a veryfar idea, my hubs has allways been atypical male who only loves his brothers and sisters, and now he is going to be 40 but still is the same. I ve wondered all these years where do i stand he has told me clearly he has never loved me , i thought that his affair thing had been a lesson not to hurt me any more but he confessed a few days back that he contrls his feelings for other females just coz he had taken an oath on my son not to do it again, i am devastated, sometimes i feel like killing myself, coz truly i have loved him a lot and tried to allways forgive him, i dont see the way out,he allways blames me for not being in touch with his sisters but he knows that the true reason behind this is coz he misbehaves .

2007-02-08 01:19:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am not desperate, but i'm going out of mind with boredom... anyone else? i am a good girl... ( ; but i am willing to try almost anything. Lets have some fun today. I live in Liverpool NY, email me and I'll send you the address.

2007-02-08 01:18:55 · 4 answers · asked by tokeepbreathing 1 in Singles & Dating

14-19 sweet, nice ,intesrested in agirl who loves history

2007-02-08 01:18:03 · 8 answers · asked by greenday girl/ rock angel 1 in Singles & Dating

I suspect that my bf is cheating one me, but I have no "evidence".

I was thinkin that I would call him up and tell him that I'm going to lunch with a guy "friend" to see what his reactions would be (I'm really not). I figure if he's cool with it, that means he's got something to hide. Because why would you let your gf go out with another guy? Unles syou want to go out yourself.

I'm just afraid that it may start a fight and I don't have the strength to fight with him, he seems to always get the last word.

People say ask, but that's too hard. He's not going to be honest. Or is this playing games?

2007-02-08 01:17:35 · 13 answers · asked by SEXY LOVE 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm a student of final year of physiotherapy and failed in one subject.i was very good student earlier. i'm n love with a boy for the past 3 yrs.he's a very caring person but he can't marry me .i don't know the reason . i'm not a beautiful girl. i love him very much .

2007-02-08 01:17:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 01:16:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm trying to find a way of entertaining my guests during the break you have between your Wedding Breakfast and your Evening Reception.

Does anyone have any ideas?

I thought about maybe Showing a Film or Putting out Board games! What do you think?

2007-02-08 01:15:50 · 20 answers · asked by fairyprincesscorinne 3 in Weddings

Everything seems perfect: we get along well, laugh a lot, rely on each other, become close over the months and finally make love. It's awesome, and feels just right. Next day, we meet again, share an evening out with friends, drinking, dancing, chatting, when out of the blue I tell him I long for us to be together always, to marry and have kids. I can't believe what I am saying.
He asks am I kidding, I say no, seriously, he avoids my eyes and something suddenly feels different. We spend the evening with our friends, but since we parted I haven't heard from him. Did I scare him away, and if yes, is there something I can do, or say, not to loose him?

2007-02-08 01:15:38 · 18 answers · asked by Debora 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you not take someone you love for granted and realise how special they are, And never forget how lonely you were without them???

2007-02-08 01:15:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not satisfy with African women in General expecially bulk of then i came in contact with here in my country having at least a child 1 or two at least...i don't want that what do you think is my problem? i am almost 29 years old and still looking ..i get annoy with myself at man. pls help.

2007-02-08 01:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Once she told a lie that she had a friend who was anorexic who died two months ago but last week we found out that this person never exsisted. She also said that her house was burgled but it wasn't in the newspaper or anything. Also, she said that she went to meet Keira Knightley in London, but her brother told me that they were going up Manchester. I never know now when she is telling the truth or lying. Please help me!

2007-02-08 01:13:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My relationship is going on 7 years but I love him more than ever and i really want to be with him he has a new job I work 1st he works second so we barely get to see each other now where we are use to being together all the time he use to be really wild now I scared that sense we never see each other he will slip back into his old ways should I worry

2007-02-08 01:13:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have all the confidence in the world..But i really dont like when people degrade my name..I really dont like it at all..I have had enough of their nonsense..Just one more question..Is it okay to act cool in school???Thank you..

2007-02-08 01:12:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So, I am physically disabled, have no problem attracting women, but once I expose myself, like take my clothes off, it ends right there. Yeah, my skinniness and the hole in my chest astonish them.

Although I am not a virgin, I can't seem to be accepted the way I am. Plus, these are some of the things I hear at school from both females and male:

" Why do you ever fall for a disabled person? You deserve better."

" You are wasting your time. They're lots of healthy people out there, so why get involved with a disabled person imtimately?"

" OH My God, you must be crazy. I mean, you are not sane."

So, it seems as if we " Disabled" are like monsters. We aren't considerd Humans, and we don't need love. That is correct, right?

Anyway, girls know I am physically disabled, but there is something about me that keeps attracting them, but once my skinniness and the hole in my chest get exposed, I will get dumped.

Let me hear your thoughts.

Lord have mercy on me.

2007-02-08 01:11:38 · 14 answers · asked by PC VS Mac 2 in Singles & Dating