How do you not take someone you love for granted and realise how special they are, And never forget how lonely you were without them???
2007-02-08 01:15:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you basically just answered your own question. You have to remember that everything in life ends at some point so you have to make the most of what time you have with the people that you love.
Love is life, you cant take either of them for granted.
xxx
2007-02-08 01:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend less time together. Might seem counter-intuitive but trust me, taking someone for granted usually stems from getting comfortable and complacent in the relationship. Do whatever you need to do to shake things up a little, and you'll realise how much that special person means to you.
After you spend less time together (not sure how much time you do spend together, but try at least 3 nights off a week) you'll naturally want to do all the little things for them that you did at the start of the relationship. But you need to give yourself the space to realise this first. If you force it, they'll know it's not coming from the heart.
2007-02-08 01:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way possible. the person you love ETC breaks up with you.
you realise it was your fault and your start to miss them. you cant stop thinking of what went rong and why....until it clicks.
Its the way you treated them and took them for granted.
trouble is once you find that out its usually to late. and they dont believe you can change.
Its a hard life though if you can get them back-you will treat them like a princess for the rest of the time you are together.
2007-02-08 03:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always do special things for the person you love. Tell them you love them at least once a day. Hug them no matter how busy you are and make their favorite meal once a week.
2007-02-08 01:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat them right every day.dont forget the things u used to do for them wen u started dating especially the small things like helping her carry a bag or opening a door or calling in the middle of the day to say i love u.
2007-02-08 01:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by mwm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by constantly reminding yourself of how life would be without that person. and really you wouldnt need to remind yourself because the little things about that special someone and how great of a person they are and how they make you feel, is what reminds you that you would be nothing without them.
2007-02-08 03:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it has usually been the boy individual tht has taken me for granted.
2007-02-08 01:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anna S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wrote about how lonely you were before, you could try reading it back from time to time to remind yourself.
2007-02-08 01:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him how he treats you. Tellhim he is special. Do something special for him for Valentine's day.....and best of all, tell the person you love him.
2007-02-08 01:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by chardonnayormerlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to understand the person, then learn to respect the person so much. IT WORKS!!!
2007-02-08 01:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by mail_me300 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋