i'm a student of final year of physiotherapy and failed in one subject.i was very good student earlier. i'm n love with a boy for the past 3 yrs.he's a very caring person but he can't marry me .i don't know the reason . i'm not a beautiful girl. i love him very much .
2007-02-08 01:17:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is a pt.of heart disease . i don't know how to behave with him.i love him very very much .i can do anything to save his life.he is a very kind person .plz suggest me .....help me ......i'm very depressed....
2007-02-08 01:47:49 · update #1
Quit forcing it to happen and let it happen.
2007-02-12 01:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by eiplanner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are facing two problems right now.Firstly for failing in any exam ... believe me all the merit studfents do not make a great career.You should take this failure positively.And about your love...so what if you are not beautiful?Try to be good in whatever you do...people will see an angel in you...its true.Abot the boy you are in love,if cant make you happy he does not have right to depress you.I bet a good person is in your destiny provided you forget this boy.Just have faith in yourself because ITS YOUR LIFE!
You have added that he is a heart patient,just give him best of moments but keep yourself safe physically and mentally.its you who has to survive and live.
2007-02-09 01:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the real issue is, You love him and he doesn't love you but he cares, Whoaaaaaaaaaaaaaa !!!
Its time to learn how to love yourself , stop having this pity party
and snap out of the funk, Have you not seen the metamorphosis of Ugly Betty? Come on sweetheart is this man worth your future being set on pause? Do not fail yourself, promise you will overcome if you make the effort to move passed your first emotional tryst that was a (3) yr self indulged fantasy.
2007-02-08 09:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi this a bit complex situation and difficult to explain but you can recover and help yourself to come out of this situation. It is difficult but not impossible.
please take help of Yoga & Meditation.
You will not be able to meditate now so try yoga first followed by some simple steps of meditation within yoga like pranayam, bhraam bhreem, alom vilom etc.
secondly try to do some walking preferably in morning. a long walk will take you out from stress & depression. & you will feel good to take problems in your life which will come to you with the solutions also.
please mail me in details as i also want to help people with heart disease whatever I can.
take care n Enjoy Life!
2007-02-09 00:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Pabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prayers work miracles, if your love is sincere, and is meant to be it will happen, please be very patient....and have a lot more confidence in yourself....don't rush it sweetheart.....
It has to be from both sides like a train needs two rails to move forward
Keep your mind occupied, and your formost obligation shall be towards education....without that no body will offer you anything, you are very young, please don't insult God's beautiful creation.
Regardless what?! God always loves you and you are special!!!
Take good care and Bless your heart!
2007-02-08 13:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by shivashaktipriya1007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you don't know the reason he won't marry you, you could try asking him! What ever he says it may help if you put yourself in his shoes. Although it sometimes sucks you gotta remember that people are different so they sometimes want different things whether you like it or not.
2007-02-08 09:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do 'Anulom-Vilom' Pranayam, a breathing exercise. It will help you to develop a positude towards life, and once it is done you will come out of depression.
2007-02-08 23:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by gupta_uncle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Antidepressant
cognitive technique
meditation
some random defense mechanism.
or a new boy, just go up to somebody and grab their thang. Forget being tack for just one day.
2007-02-08 09:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by my alias 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doc for depression, and we all are beautiful. He might not be ready to marry yet give it time.
2007-02-08 09:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by bette69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physical exercise.
2007-02-08 09:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋