2007-02-08 01:22:15 · 10 answers · asked by rinks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
move on
2007-02-08 01:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're in the same boat. My ex of four years and I broke up a year and six months ago, and up to now i still love him very much and i can't get him off my mind. His pictures are still in my iPod..i always listen to the songs we used to love..i still visit his cousins who are very close to me. Obviously, i haven't moved on yet. Sometimes become bitter and i want to curse love. I mean, you get that feeling that you gave everything yet your everything still isn't enough to make him stay. You tried to be perfect but still you're trying in vain. It's really hard, and you get the big phobia of falling in love again and risk getting hurt again.
My advice? Deal with it. Time heals all the wounds and so should you. You can't rush into moving on, you have to pass through several stages until you could say 'i survived!'. By now im sure you have the mottos 'love sucks', 'love is stupidity' etc....
for your ex...
1.) throw away all his mementos, photos, and eveything that reminds you of him.
2.) Spend more time with your friends and family.
3.) Keep yourself busy.
4.)Avoid listening to mellow music, esp. the songs both of you loved to listen to,
5.) Keep a list of all the bad things he did to you and tack them next to your bed.
6.) Sever all of your communications with him.
7.) Avoid seeing him.
8.)Avoid the places he frequents.
9.)Convince yourself that you don't deserve him.
Remember this:
GOD TAKES AWAY WHEN HE HAS SOMETHING BETTER TO GIVE..
2007-02-08 01:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try moving on if there's no chance in getting back with them. It sucks and isn't easy (from experience) but you will feel better one day. I found the best way is to spend more time with friends...
Good Luck
2007-02-08 01:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to be in love with. I believe it's called 'move on'.
2007-02-08 01:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yall not together find a nother guy and make him or her mad or u just do this go up to the proson say how you feel don't let him spaeek just keep going on how you feel if he don't listin to you. you don't need him or her
2007-02-08 01:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by david c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and move on. It hurts for a while, but it gets better with time.
Good luck!
2007-02-08 01:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you move on and you will find the love you want.
2007-02-08 01:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the person go bcuz as soon as u let him go he will start 2 love you again trust me i no
2007-02-08 01:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time ... concentrate on yourself, get yourself stronger (emotionally/etc) so when you do find your new love you are ready. Time heals all....
2007-02-08 01:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rape him
2007-02-08 01:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋