he always watches her when we are out and when we go by her house or where she works he looks sorta sneeky so i don't see but i do. He says they are not friends and don't talk but her new husband always talks to him and evev when we go to karoke and he sings he looks at her alot . what do i do
2007-02-08 01:22:46 · 10 answers · asked by sho 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get over it.
2007-02-08 01:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
See, that is an issue that should have been addressed and solved BEFORE you married him. If you are concerned about his being faithful then that's something else. If he still has emotional ties to her why did he marry you? Was it to get back at her maybe? You really need to discuss this with him and come to a solution. Either you stay and risk being hurt or you leave and find someone who cares for you solely without any baggage from a past relationship.
2007-02-08 09:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell that you see this behavior and you want the truth. You are neither blind or stupid and he needs to man up. Remind him that she is married so what doe's he hope to gain?! Let him know that if he continues the only thing that well happen is he will have more time looking because he will be a single man. Then tell him if that is the road he chooses, you are giving her husband the heads up on his activities. That should wake him up...
2007-02-08 09:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find out by hanging out with everybody(your husband, the ex wife, and her new hubby), observe dynamics. This will be really hard for you, but as you observe even more, you will see the truth. Ask hypothetical questions pertaining to relationships too. Watch their eyes and what/how they talk. If this is too troubling confront the husband with all your heart and mention about his overt behavior concerning his wife. It is quite disheartening.
2007-02-08 11:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a matter of trust. You need to trust that he is faithful to you. If he loves you, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. Maybe you have some jealousy issues, and are interpreting the things he does incorrectly. First off, stop getting into situations where you guys will run into her. Go find something to do with your husband, and stop going out with his ex and her husband!
2007-02-08 09:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by True Dat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think it is in your head. She is married, he is married to you and that is what is important. Its not strange a divorce could end in friendship and making friends with the x's partner.
As a matter of fact I actually went to my best friends Fathers wedding in France in which I was in the Wedding Party and so was his X wife. We were actually partnered together for the wedding. As a matter of fact they are still good friends to this day
2007-02-08 09:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he wanted to be with her he would have never married you. They both have moved on. You may be reading more into this situation, he is with you now. Don't make a big deal you may ruin what you have.
2007-02-08 09:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are ex's for a reason. In the meantime, stop associating with her.
2007-02-08 09:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him its normal for him to have feelings for his ex-wife but i wouldn't get mad if i were you its not like they are sleeping together.
2007-02-08 09:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by xoxo;Danieee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him .if your intuition suspects something then you need to know
2007-02-08 09:55:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Scarlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋