ok my girlfriend and I have been dating for about two years and she wrote me a letter saying that it might be better that we break up and see what life has for us and then after writng the letter the next day she says that we have worked so hard and been faithful to this day and that she doesnt want to end the relationship that the letter she wrote it when she was mad and to overlook it. I love her and i know that she loves me and we have worked hard to get to this point in our relationship but she said she will leave the decision of if its over or not. what should i do?? plz help??
2007-02-08 01:26:02 · 11 answers · asked by anthony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u two really love each other, then there is no point in calling it quits. however, if one of u is having doubts and thinks its time to see other ppl, maybe u should just end it now or take a little break!
2007-02-08 01:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should know at this point, women can be prone to emotional outbursts, which may lead to sad endings, or just a night without nookie. For the time being I'd stick it out and see what happens, but there might be a basis for her desire to break up, she might be unhappy or dissatisfied, try to find the root of whatever problem there may be and work it out, you two have been together for a while, and should be familiar to working out problems together. A decision like ending a relationship should not be based on an emotion decision that you could wind up regretting later.
2007-02-08 01:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Fred K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have been together quite a long time and that you really do care about each other (as for love I can't answer as I don't know the two of you). I am a girl, and yes, we can be odd at times. We get scared after long relationships that the guy will get bored with us, cheat on us or want to move on to something more new/fresh and thus, we write stupid letters and say dumbo things like I want to break up. I am sure she is the same way. Stay together and let your love grow! :)
2007-02-08 01:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are only as faithful as there options. She probably was seeing someone else and then it didn't work out like she had planned. So she retorted her letter to you and said she was sorry. Here's the plan bro. Never cut off any ties or burn any bridges with any female. They will constantly leave and come back. This is do to the fact that they never know what they want. But if you are always there to listen and be there when they screw up, then they will always come around. Trust me, I've been playin for years.
2007-02-08 01:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you both see each other together in 5 years? 10?
If not, maybe your relationship has run it's course and it's time to move on in life.
2007-02-08 01:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first letter was a mistake she made.Just overlook it.you both love each other.
2007-02-08 01:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to the bottom of y she wrote a letter like that??
and take it from ther
2007-02-08 01:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by hoTTstuFF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are. But, if you are under twenty, then take this opportunity to grab your freedom and run like hell.
2007-02-08 01:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Studly Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is causing this behavior she is just to undecisive
2007-02-08 01:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm that hard if you love her then you should be with her
2007-02-08 01:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by spawnof_thedevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋