My relationship is going on 7 years but I love him more than ever and i really want to be with him he has a new job I work 1st he works second so we barely get to see each other now where we are use to being together all the time he use to be really wild now I scared that sense we never see each other he will slip back into his old ways should I worry
2007-02-08 01:13:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I work 7pm til 7am. Five days a week. My husband works 11a-9pm. So I am in similar situation. I understand where you are coming from. My husband had a wild side to. I used to worry. But I had a heart to heart talk with my husband and told him. That I trust him and will as long as he doesn't give me a reason not to. So far he has not. Sure we have problems. Because it is hard when you don't have time like normal couple do. You know every evening together. But we have learned to adapt, and enjoy the time we do have together.I know you love your husband and as years go on you grow more in love. I don't think you need to worry. He had been with you and I am sure you make it all work out because of the love you have.
2007-02-08 01:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX!...you sound panicky...7years...a guy doesnt waste time for seven year, heck not even an hour (according to his schedule), anything a guy ever does for an extenuating time by choice is usually important to him, he probly wishes yall were closer too...however the distance, and lack of time may help you two appreciate each other a whole bunch more, and help you enjoy the time you do get together, whether it be a minute or an hour, you'll learn to make it last and memorable. Just relax, besides you should be able to talk to him about this, c'mon seven years, he's gotta be your best friend.
2007-02-08 01:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by MrMeT00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take Your Love. And move it to where it's suppose to be. Your Heart. You need to make sure his Love Address. is Your Heart. Not your Crotch. Not your House. Not just helping him pay the Bills. You need to have him in Your Heart. Ans no where else. It won't fail, if both of you can live there! Few are able to make it work. Few have lasting relationships. In case you wonder why. The Heart is no Joke. it' won't let you down. Be Sweet. It can work!
2007-02-08 01:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that absense makes a heart grow fonder! Just because you don't see each other as much that doesn't mean he's not thinking about you as much as you are him. Try to avoid rutine to make thing more exciting and enjoyable.
2007-02-08 01:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is like a business; you get out of it what you put into it.
2007-02-08 01:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing to worry abt
2007-02-08 01:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋