We all have regrets or should have , would have , could of? if you could back in time what is the one thing that you would change and why??
2007-02-08 00:39:29 · 10 answers · asked by sml 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the only thing that I would change is to hug my children more often ; been silly with them more often etc; those type of things
2007-02-08 02:22:12 · update #1
Spend more time with my boys when they were small and not worry so much about how clean the house is, I found out that cleaning and scrubbing can wait, because babies grow up and move away. Life is what you make it.
2007-02-08 02:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by emma 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have never married my ex husband. Not saying that I wouldn't have stayed with him the whole time, I just would not have signed that piece of paper. Because when it came time for the divorce he got totally stupid. Accusing my now husband of be a drug dealer and being arrested numorous times, when he has never been arrested for anything and never been a drug dealer. The man does heating and air conditioning for petes sake. I found out though that it was just because my ex husband didn't to be replaced with the kids, BUT he dissapeared for two years so it happened anyway.
Now I think I should say that no I didn't cheat on him, he left me with 2 kids and pregnant so by the time the divorce was finalised we had been seperated for 2 years.
2007-02-08 09:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by darkraven_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would do, what I'm advising everyone else to do, now! Don't see Love as an accomplishment. Or a Trophy. Or a signal of being an Adult. See Love as an Emotion, that is grown from within Your Heart. Not your Crotch, Not your Bank Account. Not your Ego. It can only grow, if it's fed through The Old Ticker. With Honesty, and Beauty.
2007-02-08 08:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would have divorced my husband many years ago instead of when my kids were teens. I believe that young children can tolerate the change of divorce WAY better than teens can.
The families I see with teens and divorce, the teens become very distructive, and self destructive. Mine included.
The families with young children, yes, i see problems, but not to the same degree.
2007-02-08 08:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Carol B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never have left the love of my life to move south. I know we would have still been together if I hadn't of left.Instead he went back to familiar ground but I know his heart is w/ me.I have to live w/ this regret 4 my life until he finds me............Noone will ever give me the true bond like we had..
2007-02-08 09:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you change your life? I mean there will always be bad times thats just life, I wouldn't change my life for anything and trust me I have had my share of bad times and regret, but it's made me who I am today.
2007-02-08 08:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would change nothing, cause if i did i would nto be who i am today! The things that have happen to me in my past has made me who i am now i would never change that!
2007-02-08 08:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by lhyer1972 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have divorced my husband the first time I caught him cheating. The longer you are together the harder it is to leave.
2007-02-08 08:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never look back it is more beneficial to look ahead and having learned from your regrets ,being full of wisdom and move forward................... as life does....
2007-02-08 08:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not get married
2007-02-08 08:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋