Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

I feel now like I had a chance with this guy and did not realize it at the time.It goes back 11 months ago when I was still upset about catching my x cheating on me(they r mutual freinds)he was so sweet and listened I asked him to drive me home.I invited him to stay,he did.I asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did.I asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was so sweet.I knew he was nervous about breaking the'guy code'bue he still stayed.I saw him again 2 months later,my ex was out with him also,he came to me and said"your killing me",my x was upset that we liked eachother.I sent him a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him at a party 6 months later,he walked in saw me and looked away quick.I wish now I would have made a move months ago when he told me I was'killing'him,now I feel its too late.What do I do?

2007-02-04 09:29:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this cute guy in school i have known him since 5th grade(im in 7th now)hes a year older than me.When i was in 5th he flirted alot with me and he said he liked me.I also like him .Now i dont realy talk to him that much but i want to have a relation ship with him or at least tell him that I like him
last time i graduated wwe got lucky and got graduated the same year
but know hes graduating and ill miss him for a whole year and i dont want him leaving without knowing i like him


sorry its so long but i need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-04 09:28:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can never settle, doesn't matter how great the guy is. I run away, its like I get bored when all I want deep down is to be settled and have a family. What is wrong with me? I'm like the littlest hobo going from town to town. Helpppp

2007-02-04 09:28:33 · 22 answers · asked by LADY__LUCK 2 in Singles & Dating

Looking for company or just some flirtatious conversation?

2007-02-04 09:28:19 · 36 answers · asked by kiscool34 1 in Singles & Dating

im 16 and its kinda embarresing that i dont know how.....but how do i ? plus im kissing my girlfriend

2007-02-04 09:28:14 · 9 answers · asked by Pooki3 1 in Singles & Dating

But he promises it will get better ...Should I stand by him?....Or move on?....I need your answers?....TY

2007-02-04 09:28:09 · 18 answers · asked by mads..lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 09:27:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were seeing eachother for awhile. secretley hanging out & that. we never had sex or anything major. just the normal dates. he started changing towards me and then my bestfriend found out. i let him know and he basically blamed it all on me. saying he never liked me & that it was all me. a couple days after that, he stepped up to the plate and took the blame. i heard from several people he was talking about me behind my back. i showed no emotion to any of this. he started emailing me asking if i hated him. making small talk and really sucking up. making an honest effort to try and talk/see me. i saw him for the first time in a month two days ago. i think he was trying ot make me jealous , but he was being super nice to me. wherever i went in the house he would go, too. i think that he thought i would always be there and then when i walked out he was surprised and realized how much he did like me. i don't know though...anyone?

2007-02-04 09:27:14 · 2 answers · asked by MULOVE 1 in Friends

....but I'm not good enough for him. I've got too much emotional baggage and I've known the guy for years and I don't want to ruin his life.

I know we would be happy together, am I doing the right thing by ending it before it begins?

2007-02-04 09:27:09 · 16 answers · asked by LADY__LUCK 2 in Singles & Dating

Who's this idiot, Wikipedia? Some kind of degenerate, probably a product of crossbreeding with sheep if you ask me.

2007-02-04 09:27:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well im 16 and in high school. im bisexual but no body knows exept my girl friend that goes 2 the school.were engaged!and my best friend knows too! but im popular and have a pretty good rep....and people already asked me was i gay and i said no.well should i come out in school or not?
p.s.out of school i tell people im bi

2007-02-04 09:25:20 · 14 answers · asked by Pooki3 1 in Singles & Dating

he moved with me to So-Cal and i have been feeding and housing him in hotels. he tells me his last relationship failed because he worked 80 hours a week, but so far he hasnt made an effort to even look for a job unless i threaten him. my mom said to dump him, i can do it on my own, but im scared. i dont love him but i feel some kind of strange security with him.

2007-02-04 09:25:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend lives in arizona and i live in wiconsin. i am thinking of sending him hershy kisses through mail and a note that says :even though you are far away, i maneged to give you a few kisses". is this cute!?

2007-02-04 09:24:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is age such an issue to a man in a relationship? I met this guy who is 20 years older than me, but we hit it off so well, then he finds out my age and kind of backs off. Then he comes back and says he is falling for me and that he just doesnt understand how that could happen because of my age---he works with young adults my age with his occupation and never thought he would ever have feelings for someone so young and the same age of the people he worked with everyday. Age doesnt matter to me, he doesnt bring it up to often but I constantly wonder if he holds back because in his mind I am young. We talk about "our" future as if we could make it, I love thinking about spending the rest of my life with him.......What should I do in this situation? -Just stop thinking about his concerns unless he doesnt bring them up, -Fall in love with him and hope it goes somewhere,-Or give up before I get hurt?

2007-02-04 09:23:43 · 18 answers · asked by getoffmyback 2 in Singles & Dating

In your opinion, can you have a satisfying sexual relationship with your spouse if you no longer find him/her physically attractive because your partner has let himself/herself go?

I'm curious because I hear it repeated over and over on here that physical attraction shouldn't matter in a marriage as long as you love each other. I'm curious to know just what percentage of men and what percentage of women share that view.

Personally, I think that if you truly love each other, it would be important to you to at least try to be physically attractive and pleasing to your partner. That would in turn help to foster a better, more satisfying sex life.

2007-02-04 09:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by Leroy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

...again just wondering how many people are !

2007-02-04 09:21:51 · 24 answers · asked by Reproman 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i cant tell if he actually likes me or is just another girl to him.
since all he does is flirt Flirt FLIRT! ok i dont want to ask him out or anything because i DO NOT like getting rejected (it hurts) and so iam wonder if anyone thinks he likes me or what...like your coments, so ok so theres this guy i like and when ever we walk by each other i look at his eyes and he looks at mine then checks me out(how ever he does) starting with my eyes and to my feet back to my eyes again and he doesnt stop even if were walking around each other, untill i do then when we talk the whole time hes smiles and lookes at my eyes and i cant tell if hes interested or not! its driving me insane...will someone help me out with this? please

2007-02-04 09:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by hannah1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Currently i'm in a relationship that isn't going anywhere. I would one day like to have kids but my wife (although she told me before getting married and i'm not blamming her) doesn't want any kids. We don't do much together at all, she is somewhat antisocial, therefore only likes to stay in. We only have sex whenever she feels like and that's once every 2 or 3 months if i'm lucky. It's been going on for a few years now and we even sleep in seperate rooms. Eventually it led to infidelity on my part. I have told her just recently and it didn't seem to devastate her at all. Her reply was i've been cheated on before. Now with this lack of affection in my marriage has had me thinking about this young woman (single) I met at the park. She is very nice, sweet and has me wishing I had met her 9 years ago instead of my wife. I constantly think about her and in february this woman and I will be in the same night class. Any thoughts anyone?

2007-02-04 09:21:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

God help me, I have so fallen for this man. It's a new, creative venture for me and I so desperately don't want to lose it, yet all I can think of is him. I know he's taken. I just wish I could switch it off and go back to being professional - I pay him for some help he gives me by the way. We're working on my music. It's so beautiful and I don't want the work to stop but I'm crazy about him. Why have I fallen for him? Why when I found out he's taken? Why when I'm doing something really wonderful for the first time in my life? I fear he will pull the plug. Please help!

2007-02-04 09:19:55 · 23 answers · asked by singingjulietruly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my g/f were together for 8 yrs.We had a break about 6 months ago for about 4 months and got back together (maybe to early).The original problem was her wanting to do a little traveling before settling.However before getting back together everything was discussed and we then planned to do some travelling together.The relationship was back on track and everything looked good and then she pulled the plug again saying she feels as though she can't do the things she wants to such as travel whilst with me.She says i am the greatest guy to her and i treat her so well,she loves me but just cant give me what i want right now.I have loved this girl for so long that i cant just let go, i told her i couldnt see her,speak to her or anything so i can just move on.The problem is this is killing me and i am scared of never seeing or hearing from her again now.Do i wait a while then contact her or wait for her to maybe 1 day contact me.There is just to much between us to give up on forever.

2007-02-04 09:19:47 · 10 answers · asked by whitey 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

REposting Question for more answers. I'm 28 black female & i broke up with my black b/friend of 18 months 3 months ago.He was fine with the breakup until he learned that i was seeing a white guy.My ex now comes to my house unannouned just to see if the new guy is with me.My ex told me,it's the ultimate insult for a black girl to leave a black man 4 a white man.I don't know what to do cause i'm scared that my ex wants to chase this guy away.I'm not yet inlove with the guy but i want to give it a try.I ve not had any success with the men i dated,so i thought,why not try outside my race & so far so good.Infact really good when it comes to sex.I love the way he loves me.I feel happy when i'm with him.I ve never been with a guy who loves to show me off.Something's very different about him compared to my Exs apart from the race.I feel important & wanted by him.I'm scared my Ex wants to ruin this 4 me.I ve not told this guy i'm seeing about my Ex.I just told him we can only meet at his house.

2007-02-04 09:18:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 09:18:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im an asian girl n my boyfriend's asian 2..... lately he's been treatin me really badly n i jus thought im not gna put up wit dis so i tried 2 break up wit him.... but den he threatened 2 tel my parents n i dnt wan my parents 2 find out otherwise they'l kill me. My parents hav dat 'tradition' wher us girls aren't allowed bfs, ive been goin out wit my bf behind their bak, i really wish i neva did now.... my bf threathens 2 make me life hell if i break up wit him, he sed he's gna f**k me up so bad dat my whole familys gna suffer if i try 2 leave him...ive cried so much over dis coz i dnt kno wat 2 do, i wana get rid of him witout my parents knowin...plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-04 09:18:18 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend says she wont be my friend because i cant go to her house but when i can she calles me a user. she bes mean when shes all around her friends and later when me and her are alone she says that she doesnt want to make her other friends mad.she tries to break me and cody linley up so what should i do

2007-02-04 09:18:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a leo and I have a hard time finding good partners who are my love matches? Is Aries a good or a bad one?

2007-02-04 09:17:01 · 11 answers · asked by spidy 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, me and my boyfriend have been together for a over a year now. And we have talked about getting married and children and stuff. We are very dedicated to eachother. He is very sweet to me and treats me right. But his mom doesn't like me and she shows it quit well. She tells him that we aren't going to get married. What do you think is going to happen?

2007-02-04 09:16:38 · 21 answers · asked by grumpybear0718 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 09:15:15 · 28 answers · asked by Q-Tip M 2 in Singles & Dating

He betrayed me big time,how do i stop myself from wanting to kill him?

2007-02-04 09:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the short girls? Iam not short, by any means...and my theory on that is is that these men must have really tiny dinkies so they want a short little girl to make them look bigger...otherwise if you had a big dinky it wouldnt matter, you would be confident about dating girls of any hieght...but the men I know really really prefer shorties...I do have a bf, and he is only five ten, like me, and I feel less feminine being with him for some reason...beats me...anyways answer the question...please..thanks

2007-02-04 09:14:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who is really shy...but when he started txting me he got all weird..if u noe what i mean...what does that mean...

2007-02-04 09:13:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends