I feel now like I had a chance with this guy and did not realize it at the time.It goes back 11 months ago when I was still upset about catching my x cheating on me(they r mutual freinds)he was so sweet and listened I asked him to drive me home.I invited him to stay,he did.I asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did.I asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was so sweet.I knew he was nervous about breaking the'guy code'bue he still stayed.I saw him again 2 months later,my ex was out with him also,he came to me and said"your killing me",my x was upset that we liked eachother.I sent him a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him at a party 6 months later,he walked in saw me and looked away quick.I wish now I would have made a move months ago when he told me I was'killing'him,now I feel its too late.What do I do?
2007-02-04 09:29:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when two people really care 4 each other its never too late!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-04 09:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard the term "bro's before ho's". i know you don't want to hear this, but he would rather keep a long term friend then ditch him for you (your ex is probably jealous and would do an immature thing like that) and things not work out then he lost both.make since? but you never know. send him a hello text every couple of weeks, be patient and he might come around. hopefully your ex will get over the jealousy thing.
2007-02-04 17:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by winklerwilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to start talking to him, again. invite him out to get a quick bite to eat or for a little walk or something fun. your ex probably told him to not talk to you or some **** because of what happened between you and him. its that "guy code" you mentioned. however, if this friend really likes you, then he should goes with what feels natural to him. if you begin to talk to him more and stuff then hopefully, for you, that feeling of "killing him" will come back. good luck!
2007-02-04 17:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on. It's clear that your chances are really slim now. Maybe he has a girlfriend or just doesn't want to break his friendship with your ex. Either way, you're less important for him now. Move on!
2007-02-04 17:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by Aliondra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like it is too late then it probably is. find someone else because going out with someone who knows your ex is not a good idea to begin with.
2007-02-04 17:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him that you were all confused from being cheated on. and you were stupid for not seeing what was in front of you. maybe he'll understand. if not there is someone else waiting for you to find them.
2007-02-04 17:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by hickgirl4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell this guy how you feel about him & see what he says. you can only try right? if you dont the you will be left wondering..
2007-02-04 17:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by tambat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him bout how you feel. See if it's mutual. If it's not- hey, you're young!
2007-02-04 17:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by baby_wrestler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a friend of your ex. dont go there.
2007-02-04 17:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋