Why do I run away?

Question

I can never settle, doesn't matter how great the guy is. I run away, its like I get bored when all I want deep down is to be settled and have a family. What is wrong with me? I'm like the littlest hobo going from town to town. Helpppp

Answer 1

Maybe you are scared of falling in love cause you think that you will get close to the person and they will leave you or let you down. Have you been let down by those that got close to you before?

Answer 2

Maybe cos deeper down the responsibility of settling down is a bit too scary. Relationships have to be worked at, so when you meet Mr Right (and you may not have done yet) it may be a case of just doing it. You have to give up your 'free spirit' in some context to make the union with the other person. it takes determination and hard work to keep a relationship going.

Answer 3

lol - i remember that tv program when i was a kid - it was always on during the summer holidays. it sounds like u need to be happy with yourself before u can be happy with any guy. are u afraid of being hurt or rejected ? or are u afraid of giving up the lifestyle that u have at the moment ? it can be pretty daunting - making such a change in your life. i would say that the next time u meet a guy, that u should give the relationship a chance before u run away, but i think that would be easier said than done. i recommend that u get some counselling to see if u can get to the root of this problem..... i have been through counselling myself, and although it doesn't offer any miraculous explanations or solutions, it can help to talk things through with a professional who has experience of these kind of things. good luck !

Answer 4

Maybe you are scared of commitment or just not found the right person yet. Not everyone finds the right person first time. I've assumed it's the right person over and over only to find it's not and had to move on. So you're not alone there. I'm still looking and getting no where :-(

All I want is what you want. Could I be your one you are looking for? lol

Promise not to run off though :-D

Answer 5

Little hobo you can hop yourself down to a counselor and figure out the deeper issues here and work on you before going to another town.

Answer 6

my friend was like this then she met a guy on holiday. she was from scotland, he was english. they kept in touch by phone when holiday ended. after a few months of this she went to london to visit, another couple of months and he visted up here. eventually he tranferrred work to scotland - still miles away and they saw each other at weekends. anyway to cut a long story short they have now been married 8 years, have 2 kids and live in london. i think it was because it all happened so slowly that she never realised until she was well and truly 'caught'. meet someone who lives far away OR just take things slow with someone who lives nearby. have fun.

Answer 7

You've answered your own question.
You've have decided never to settle down. Your first 4 words.
So ,, I think your a little self destructive just trying to be hurt so you can hurt and run. Some of those guy may have loved you dearly but got screwed.

Answer 8

The key word is "settle". Don't settle. Find the right one and decide to stay. Don't settle for those who don't measure up and then try to make them into the "one".

Answer 9

You sound like me when i was younger. I used to do that all the time, until i met my hubby one night it all changed when i met him. We got engaged really quickly and got married a year and a half later. You will settle when you find the right bloke. Dont worry to much about it.

Answer 10

I do that too. Don't worry about it. "Running away" basically means that you're not ready to settle down with any particular person just yet. But when that special person does come around in a few years you'll eventually settle down.