Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

My friend got a "list" of things she was doing wrong....example she made him feel like he could do nothing right. There was more to this "list" that she refused to tell me. Why would she "accept" this and try to work on it? She is the type that she says she will not change for anyone....isnt this changing who she is?

2007-02-04 09:00:54 · 11 answers · asked by legluvr35 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 09:00:48 · 6 answers · asked by birdie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 09:00:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i told my friend i liked him. lets call him nick. i gave nick my phone # and he called and told me he liked me. so we both like each other and we r supposed to thioink about if we both want to try dating and i cant make up my mind. i want to date him cause if i ont then i will always wonder what would have hapend, but then i dont want to ruin our friendship. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!?! thanks 4 helping me!!! :)

2007-02-04 09:00:35 · 1 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Singles & Dating

Why does he demand hugs from me every 10 minutes and ask to hang out every day. After dating him for a month, he told me "your not the one for me". His excuse for us not being together anymore was "your not the person i thought you were, you've changed". But the thing is, I haven't. Before we broke up, we fought frequently and I believe i have been put in situations where I can't be the most agreeable person. I've known this person for about half a year and he seems decent but I can't help but to think that he's being a little selfish and controlling. We used to fight over little things like how i would put my shoe up on the dashboard of his car and getting mad and leaving his house without saying goodbye. He thinks that we are uncompatible. I still have feelings for him. How can convince him that we aren't? I'm so confused, what does he want from me? Am i some kind of safety blanket?

2007-02-04 09:00:09 · 2 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 09:00:03 · 5 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i ike this guy and he likes me...he has a gf but we're super close and i dont no if i should do something for him for valentines day.....heres the story

he told me he liked me and we started to get closer....i feel for him and he asked for a kiss but i said no, knowing that he had a gf...i told him i would i he broke up with her....well lately i've been hearing that he might actually do it...should i do nething for him for valentines day weather or not he's with his girl?

2007-02-04 08:59:27 · 8 answers · asked by Monica 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 08:58:41 · 9 answers · asked by Mariana 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in a college dorm and for the past 3 years like almost every guy on my floor we would all link up and play video games like Halo for a couple hours a day on the weekends. But now my GF is going nuts about it saying I dont spend any time with her and all I do is play video games. So she made this rule that when ever she comes over I can not play. So at first I was like fine that sounds fair. But she always comes over so I said forget that rule. Everyone else's GF is fine with I dunno what her problem is. We usually play from like 1pm to 5 or 6pm on sat and sundays and maybe an hour or 2 during the week. How do I resolve this issue?

2007-02-04 08:58:41 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Martini 3 in Family

I'm 20, my brother's 15. I still live at home, Im going to college still. My brother and I were really close when we were little, there was always a little sibling rivalry there, but lately things have gotten worse. We fight all the time, and my little brother has started drinking. Im always down his throat about the drinking. He is becoming extremely rebellious and smart mouthed. We now fight all the time. Fist fights now. My mom and dad split up and have been divorced. My mom and dad were living together, "try and make it work for the kids". This year my mom moved out and my dad has gone into this crazy rage about the whole thing. Everything I say or do is somehow linked to my mom. My dad claims I am always on her side and that I have "Divorced Child Syndrome". Im too old. I also think I may have jealousy issues with him, cause of how he was raised differently than I. He is treated SOO much better. You can ask anyone, really tearing me up. cant even talk 2 him W/O almost crying now.

2007-02-04 08:58:40 · 4 answers · asked by bhj618 2 in Family

i am of course talking about in the nicest possible way...

anything you like from a field full of poppies...to kissing in the rain...to whatever else you can think of...have fun...;0)

2007-02-04 08:57:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a really good friend, and by each passing day I get butterflies when I see him, everytime we talk we hit it off really well (as all friends do), we've never gotten into a single fight.... but he has a girlfriend. And being the good friend, I've become friends with his girlfriend and she's extremely nice, extremely pretty, and has more history with him. Should I just stay his good friend? If not, what do I do?

2007-02-04 08:57:14 · 19 answers · asked by natalia j 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 5 months and today he seems to think he has higher authority over me. and if i ask him something its optional for him to do it but if he tells me to do something i HAVE to do it.

2007-02-04 08:56:08 · 25 answers · asked by Laney 2 in Singles & Dating

do guys like more or a lil tounge while makin out??

2007-02-04 08:54:42 · 9 answers · asked by singlelady 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 08:54:32 · 24 answers · asked by sassy! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy that I like a lot. Only two problems. First off, he lives in a different town so i don't get to hang out with him very often, but when we do we have so much fun. We still talk, even when we aren't hanging out, over the phone, aim, etc. Second off, I don't know if he likes me the same way. I think I see signs that he likes me, but I mite just see them b/c I want him to like me. When we do hang out, we usually hang out with other friends, too. We will go to the mall or the movies, etc. I have caught him looking at me, and then he would quickly look away. He would walk real close to me- bumping into me several times. If I go outside when we are waiting for a ride home from the movies (b/c I am hot, etc.), he would follow me outside, even though every1 else was staying in.When we talk it is either flirty-make-fun-of-eachother..... or serious stuff, like stuff you don't tell just anyone.Am I seeing things that aren't there? Should I tell him how I feel? If so, how?

2007-02-04 08:54:31 · 1 answers · asked by yo. 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend and i were talkin about this and i want to prove her wrong. she thinks when guys see a hot girl they want to ask her out or go up and talk to her now i think that they are just thinkin about her body (if you know what i mean by that) and that they want to get to "know her a little better" now are we both right or what.................or r we both wrong.........?

2007-02-04 08:54:31 · 1 answers · asked by moco-frap 3 in Singles & Dating

how do you guys do it?

2007-02-04 08:54:23 · 10 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been on a couple of dates with this guy the last week. He seems to be a whole lot interested in physical stuff. A couple of days ago, he asked me if I wanted to be his girl. And I think I do, because I like him, we have a good time when we're together. But he doesn't show it much, that he's into me. When it comes to physical stuff, then he's caring and sweet, but apart from that, he's not very romantic or showing much emotions. I've told him how I feel, but he says he really likes me. But I'm afraid he might be just a player. We text eachother several times a day. But when I show that I'm interested, he pulls back, and tries to play cool. That annoys me. I'm starting to think I should just stay away and see what happens. I don't want to grow too attached to him, and then he might turn me down. I don't want to keep nagging about it either. I just don't know what to do. I just feel he's not really interested, not as much as I am. Should I just back off for a while?

2007-02-04 08:54:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in high school, and I want to ask this girl I know to go to the movies with me. How can I work this into the conversation without being too obvious ("So, seen any good movies lately?")? I'm stumped.....

2007-02-04 08:54:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Scenerio:
You get in a fight with your girlfriend and she hangs you the call on her cell. You really want to talk to her and although your mother-in-law does not like you, you have called to her home sevaral times before with no problem.....But what if out of the blue as soon as she answers she tells you wtf do you want, don't be calling over here!

If the response was "Go Sc** your mom!"

Is that wrong? Also how would you react?

2007-02-04 08:53:50 · 2 answers · asked by PiZzA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Before you pass judgment read.I'm 28 black female & i broke up with my black b/friend of 18 months 3 months ago.He was fine with the breakup until he learned that i was seeing a white guy.My ex now comes to my house unannouned just to see if the new guy is with me.My ex told me,it's the ultimate insult for a black girl to leave a black man 4 a white man.I don't know what to do cause i'm scared that my ex wants to chase this guy away.I'm not yet inlove with the guy but i want to give it a try.I ve not had any success with the men i dated,so i thought,why not try outside my race & so far so good.Infact really good when it comes to sex.I love the way he loves me.I feel happy when i'm with him.I ve never been with a guy who loves to show me off.Something's very different about him compared to my Exs apart from the race.I feel important & wanted by him.I'm scared my Ex wants to ruin this for me.I ve not told this guy i'm seeing about my Ex.I just told him we can only meet at his house.

2007-02-04 08:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, his name is Josh and he asked me out once. i said yea, and we went out for a couple of months. he dumped me after a while and now he asked me out again. I really do like him , but the last time i got into this kind of relationship something really bad happened, and i dont want that to happen again. well i dont konw for sure if i wanna go out with him again, but please help me! oh an by the way hes 15 and he smokes. im 13

2007-02-04 08:53:12 · 4 answers · asked by April 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I have been trying my hardest to avoid this married guy at work that I am attracted to. I want to stay out of it, but he seems to always keep helping me out with things, asking me how I'm doing EVERY DAY, and just always sounding concerned about how I'm doing etc. It's almost too nice for me, which makes me think he's interested in starting something. I have been working very hard to avoid him, like barely saying hello in the morning and just saying a quick "bye" before leaving, but he has an extra question for me or something to ask. It's making it very hard for me because I am very attracted to him, but what else can I do to stay out of this? Why won't he just ignore me? Is he really THAT concerned with my well being, or is their another motive? Could he just be "being nice"?

2007-02-04 08:52:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 08:52:13 · 17 answers · asked by soon to be mrs.rodgers 1 in Weddings

my husband is very pickie it makes me mad but he is soo sweet!
he dosen't like what i do and i don't like what he likes!

2007-02-04 08:51:45 · 6 answers · asked by Ask April :P 3 in Singles & Dating

is it bad that im still a virgin at 19 i know I'm going to make it too 20 in a way im scared cause my friends all tell me that its a lot of pain and i hate pain but i a way im not waiting too get married because i dont belive in marriage

2007-02-04 08:51:22 · 26 answers · asked by BROK3NLI3Z20 2 in Singles & Dating

are you looking for that special person to share your lifes experiences this Valentines or have you already found your perfect partner ?

2007-02-04 08:50:57 · 8 answers · asked by Reproman 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

When he is separated you just dont want to be in the middle as a woman right? I mean, as a female friend,,,if you start feeling for him,,wah if he just uses you as to go outside of his past relationship? and what if he returns to his ex?
what is your experience as sombody that is going throught this process of leaving your wife not becuase another woman?

2007-02-04 08:49:44 · 4 answers · asked by monis 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-04 08:49:41 · 12 answers · asked by nickayy=) 1 in Singles & Dating