Divorced? Why? Was the decision hard to make? Are you glad to be out?

Answer 1

Divorcing the cheating non working ex was the easiest smartest thing I did. To say I'm glad to be out of that marriage is putting it mildly.

Answer 2

it took me 20 years to make the decision to get a divorce,I am glad to be out.

Answer 3

My husband cheated and I could not deal with it,so I left.He begged me to stay,said he made a mistake,was under influence of drugs. It was the only thing I thought I could do. I thought how could he love me if he did that? Now 10+ years later, I have grown up some to realize, that maybe I made a mistake too. I know now, he just needed more attention. Yes, he should have not done it, and he should have been able to control himself. But I too should have given more time to our relationship and not been so wrapped up in raising the kids,keeping the house up and my career. All impostant things, but now I see I may have been too wrapped up in all of it.So I was glad to be out of it at the time, but now I wish I had at least tried before leaving. My children would not have had such a hard life being raised by a single mom.I regret not knowing if I had tried, would it have worked. But I believe one being happy is most important,do what makes you happy. It is better to be alone than with someone that makes you unhappy.

Answer 4

i was divorced due to his affair, at first i was quite hurt and emotionally not well. but as time went on and i got out of the marriage i had to believe it was meant to be like this, yes i am glad to have it behind me now, and out of a no win situation.

Answer 5

well the first time it was not hard at all it was because of abuse . Yes am glad to be out . good luck .

Answer 6

im not divorced yet