Before you pass judgment read.I'm 28 black female & i broke up with my black b/friend of 18 months 3 months ago.He was fine with the breakup until he learned that i was seeing a white guy.My ex now comes to my house unannouned just to see if the new guy is with me.My ex told me,it's the ultimate insult for a black girl to leave a black man 4 a white man.I don't know what to do cause i'm scared that my ex wants to chase this guy away.I'm not yet inlove with the guy but i want to give it a try.I ve not had any success with the men i dated,so i thought,why not try outside my race & so far so good.Infact really good when it comes to sex.I love the way he loves me.I feel happy when i'm with him.I ve never been with a guy who loves to show me off.Something's very different about him compared to my Exs apart from the race.I feel important & wanted by him.I'm scared my Ex wants to ruin this for me.I ve not told this guy i'm seeing about my Ex.I just told him we can only meet at his house.
2007-02-04 08:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also feel like my girlfriends are telling my Ex things because they are jealous.You know how we girls talk about the new guys we are seeing but somehow my Ex confronts me with the info about this guy. My Ex says i must stop seeing this guy or else. Should i tell this new guy about my ex? I don't want to cause he just might leave and i'm having fun with him. My ex says if the new guy was Black he would have no problems with him.I aksed my Ex to stop calling and coming to my place but he will not listen.I ve gone as far cutting contact with 2 of my friends because they were betraying me.For the last 2 weeks i have been living with my parents to avoid my ex. The guy i'm dating now asked me why and i did not have an answer. I spend my weekends with him at his house but i fear that my friends will give my Ex his address and my ex will come to fight him.I think there is potential of us having a serious relationship..what should i do?
2007-02-04 09:03:40 · update #1
An ex is an ex and he has no right to barge into your private life. Refrain from having any contact with him and if he persists, u'd better report to the police. Good luck
2007-02-04 09:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Brunette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 10:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your current bf about your ex. Then, talk to your ex (over the phone, if you're scared to see him in person. i understand). Tell your ex that it's over, and that he has to stop getting into your own business. If he still doesn't stop, or he starts stalking you or something, then threaten that you will tell the police.
2007-02-04 08:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a restraining order on your ex. It's none of his business who you're dating and there's nothing wrong with dating outside of your race.
2007-02-04 08:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him about the situation with ur x and from the way u describe him he seems like an understanding person. you should let him know how much you love him and how u really want ur relationship to work.
2007-02-04 09:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by sport_queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex-BF that racial bias doesn't apply to individual relationships. If this new guy makes you happy, so be it.
2007-02-04 08:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually it is vise versa but anyway most women just do it for the co ck anyways so why is palying who
2007-02-04 08:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋