Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

2007-02-04 08:23:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am i really overreacting or am i just in my actions?
My friend is mad at me because I wont let my boyfriend pick her up and take her to her boyfriends house. I cant see him because I am sick and I dont need to be out the house. I am just a little concerned because within 2 days afta i introduced them she ran away from home and asked him to take her to her boyfriends house. I thought she could have atleast called and asked me about it first. I found out because he asked me should he go do it. Now two weeks later she is calling him asking him again. I told her to stop calling my man so much. Even after I told her this she beeped in while I was on the phone with him.

I told her to stop calling him once again, and I told him not to go get her. She calls him more than I do. I know she dosent want him, thats my bff and I know she wouldnt do anything like that. Ive known her too long. I trust her. I guess i just dont know hy she has to call him so much. She has other friends and maybe her Boyfriend should find a her a ride.

2007-02-04 08:22:46 · 11 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Friends

We are both in college and plan on moving in together. She keeps pressuring me to marry her now. I explain that I can't because I'm in NROTC. She gets mad and screams. She creates problems. I understand that the pregnancy may make her moody but I'm getting tired of putting up with her. I do whatever she tells me whenever she tells me. But the worst thing is that she claims she doesn't have a sex drive. This would be okay if she treeated me better. But because she doesn't I find myself talking to other females more and more often. I'm not conceited but some would call me attractive so cheating is a thought that runs through my head all day. What do I do?

2007-02-04 08:22:02 · 8 answers · asked by meatreturns 1 in Singles & Dating

My kids are 5 and 3 and my Dad has asked me twice about taking them with he and my mother on their trip to Missouri to see his brother (their great-uncle, whom the kids have never met). It is approx. 350 miles away and they are wanting to take them for 4 days. I have never been away from my children even 1 day and I just can't see letting them go. I love my Mom and Pop and trust them completely but thats a long way for a 5 & 3 year old to travel, plus without their Mommy. I would go with them but my husband doesn't really want to because they will be staying at a cabin (a very old resort cabin with no TV) kind of outside a small community where there would be nothing to do but sit. (Hubby is the kind that has to be entertained everywhere he goes.) I am at a loss for what to do. My parents are taking this trip because of my Dad's 70th Birthday. (It's where Dad wants to go.)

2007-02-04 08:21:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

As males,what attracts you?I mean what turns you on when you look at a girl?What does she have to do?What turns you on when your with a girl?I want to know your opnions,boys!And please no one send me stupid answers about making myself happy and not caring about what guys think.This is my question please answer it properly.

2007-02-04 08:20:29 · 19 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

split second decision about the direction of my life. I was suppose to pack up and go to my families home, a safe haven if you will. However, about a week before I was to leave, my family called me and said that they didn't think it was a good idea for me to come there. It hurt me deeply, at a time when my life was at a huge turning point, I was desperate and pregnant (7 months). My parents who are retired, and my brother(39) and my sister (41) live with my parents and pretty much dictate the household(My parents are not in the best of health). They have never lived on their own, I have lived on my own since I was 19. I was very much hurt by the lack of support and "family" that was not present. My parents are desperate to have me "forgive" them for turning me away, however, have offered no help. I have no animosity, just that I don't feel like I am part of that family, how do I make them understand that I got the "no family support" and can we just get past this problem?

2007-02-04 08:20:25 · 12 answers · asked by Austins Mom 6 in Family

I was out last night with work colleagues and a girl who I work with said she wanted to clear the air (I thought everything was ok). She said to me:

She wants us to get on - at work and outside
Told me that I should drop the 'attitude'
She wants to trust me and hopes that I don't back stab her e.g. talk about her behind her back
She wants us to get to know each other better

Meaning???

When we're alone we find it difficult to talk to each other and it goes silent ASAP.(happened today at work!)

Each time we talk, I find it more uncomfortable/difficult as I don't know what to say!She's asked if I'd go to her birthday bash in a few weeks - I don't know what to say???

Why did she feel the need to 'clear the air'???
Suggestions?Advice?

p.s. she has a Boyfriend of 2 YEARS.Colleagues say we have a love/hate WORK relationship and that we do flirt with each other-but it don't mean nothing!

Says she don't do 1 night stands - I don't believe she fancies me.........

2007-02-04 08:20:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been seeing this guy for 6 months now and sometimes he gets down and likes to be alone. i understand that because i like to be alone sometimes too but i guess i just want to be there for him if he needs me to be. should i tell him this or let him have his time alone. will he turn to me if he needs me?

2007-02-04 08:19:42 · 5 answers · asked by chatterbox 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes, I am a virgin (age 19). There are days when I would rather die a virgin than not. Is this really such a bad thing?

2007-02-04 08:19:11 · 17 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i have been seeing each outher and all she wants is sex.Its not bad at all but i still got alot of feelings for her.i feel confused,it should be me who wants all the sex but i keep in mind i did take her virginity and sex is not all i want,i want more then that.help im confused cause she still tells me she loves me.

2007-02-04 08:18:50 · 1 answers · asked by dumbass 1 in Singles & Dating

he keeps stalking me and talking to me all of the time. I ignore him, but it doesn't work! What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

2007-02-04 08:17:54 · 17 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Singles & Dating

I did my boyfriends homework all last semester. Now today 1 of his homeworks was hard to understand and i couldn't figure it out he got mad and said he would copy of someone in his class tomorrow he got dressed and left without even a good bye ! did i do something wrong? Is he using me for his convenience?

2007-02-04 08:17:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-04 08:17:04 · 7 answers · asked by kdbrimm 2 in Weddings

see this guy just asked me tooo prom and i really want to go..but i dont know if my mom is going to let me go bcuz i have been getting in some trouble this last past yr..(lol)
and she said that i need to prove myself too her so i can go

2007-02-04 08:15:21 · 4 answers · asked by CeCe 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband says that I should make eye contact with him while making love. I am not comfortable with this. I do love him, we have been married for twenty years but this is something I feel is personal and I have never done it. How can I get him to understand that this is not a personal attack against him?

2007-02-04 08:15:09 · 30 answers · asked by roxy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

A girl from work wanted to get together and "drink",we did that and more i feel bad cause she has a boyfriend.I actually like her though what do I do?

2007-02-04 08:14:52 · 12 answers · asked by Ben 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 08:14:34 · 2 answers · asked by ♥ Jazzy™♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

he has a anger problem, he has verbally, mentally, emotionally or physically abuse me. where can I go to get help. I have a disease from him HPV and herps from this boy from lincroft NJ does anyone know where I can get help with this problem. I'm afaid for my life he is crazy. ??????????????

2007-02-04 08:14:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we broke up almost a year ago, I still miss him and wish i could understand why he decided to end it. he never told me why he said that he wanted time to. i waited and find myself still waiting...................
broken hearted..............

2007-02-04 08:14:07 · 18 answers · asked by princess_74 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 08:13:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean a girl that farts on a date is a loser. I don't feel the same way about a guy. IFa guy farts he's a man, a girl farts, disgusting.

2007-02-04 08:12:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy at work and he asked me to the movies. Then he denied it to all his friends. Now We talk alot on the phone and go places together. I know he is a player but he keeps tellin me that he really likes me and wants me to trust him. What should I do? He seems really sweet. Is it all a lie?

2007-02-04 08:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-04 08:12:15 · 18 answers · asked by corvettefver56 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 25, male, capricorn. I love a girl called Gauri. In the start she forced 2 marry me,n I refused. But now I really love her a lot n she refuses 2 marry me becoz her strict family. from the day I loved her, I made a lot of changes in her. she has improvised herself. But she also has an attachment 2 me now. In start she played a game 2 make me involve in her with my friend n they had an affair. Inspite of knowing this I love her a lot.

2007-02-04 08:11:35 · 5 answers · asked by advait g 1 in Weddings

Im 16 yrsold n from few days, my dad's friend came over. while everyone was out of sight... he appraoched and kissed me!!! i froze, didnt know wat to do, then every1 came in again. he is my dad;s friend!!! he's old enough to be my dad, im terrified, i ran away to my room and locked myself up till he was gone. i cant stand him coming inside anymore!! i dunno wat to do.. i cant tell anyone, especially my parents, i think they would kill him and i dont want them to get into trouble, what shall i do... i cant stand myself

2007-02-04 08:11:00 · 22 answers · asked by carol j 1 in Family

I like one of my friends and i dont want to ruin our friendship by asking her out. I like her and i think she likes me too. I dont want to ruin our friendship by asking her out. This has happened to me once before and I dated my best friend for a couple of months. We broke up and i lost my best friend. What should I do. I dont want a repeat of my past relationship. But i really like her.
Please give me some advise.

2007-02-04 08:10:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me if i am cool

2007-02-04 08:10:35 · 10 answers · asked by シャイアン 2 in Friends

I was out last night with work colleagues and a girl who I work with said she wanted to clear the air (I thought everything was ok). She said to me:

She wants us to get on - at work and outside
Told me that I should drop the 'attitude'
She wants to trust me and hopes that I don't back stab her e.g. talk about her behind her back
She wants us to get to know each other better

Meaning???

When we're alone we find it difficult to talk to each other and it goes silent ASAP.(happened today at work!)

Each time we talk, I find it more uncomfortable/difficult as I don't know what to say!She's asked if I'd go to her birthday bash in a few weeks - I don't know what to say???

Why did she feel the need to 'clear the air'???
Suggestions?Advice?

p.s. she has a Boyfriend of 2 years.Colleagues say we have a love/hate WORK relationship and that we do flirt with each other-but it don't mean nothing!

Says she don't do 1 night stands - I don't believe she fancies me.........

2007-02-04 08:10:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend is an alchoholic but she can't see it,she's only 21,she drinks everyday,i have tried to tell her but she just says that she's young and everyone drinks,yeah but not like she does.She already said she has liver damage.She's always saying she feels ill,but blames it on other things,never the drink.Any ideas how i can help her?

2007-02-04 08:09:35 · 10 answers · asked by Trace 4 in Friends

for some reason i really like the song me and you by ciara....

2007-02-04 08:09:31 · 4 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating