Am i really overreacting or am i just in my actions?
My friend is mad at me because I wont let my boyfriend pick her up and take her to her boyfriends house. I cant see him because I am sick and I dont need to be out the house. I am just a little concerned because within 2 days afta i introduced them she ran away from home and asked him to take her to her boyfriends house. I thought she could have atleast called and asked me about it first. I found out because he asked me should he go do it. Now two weeks later she is calling him asking him again. I told her to stop calling my man so much. Even after I told her this she beeped in while I was on the phone with him.
I told her to stop calling him once again, and I told him not to go get her. She calls him more than I do. I know she dosent want him, thats my bff and I know she wouldnt do anything like that. Ive known her too long. I trust her. I guess i just dont know hy she has to call him so much. She has other friends and maybe her Boyfriend should find a her a ride.
2007-02-04 08:22:46 · 11 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I love my boyfriend so much and I dont want to break up since his name is in my arm. But he dosent even seem like he wants me
2007-02-04 08:23:36 · update #1
he says he doesnt want to break up and he says he loves me he just has terrible mood swings
2007-02-04 08:24:20 · update #2
Your friend sounds kind of needy. You set boundaries with her about calling you boyfriend, that is good.Yes her boyfriend should find her a rides. You bf is not a taxi service. Now about the mood swings. Is he on medcation?If not he probably should be. Find out why he has the mood swings and then study up on that diagnosis.It is difficult to live with someone with mood swings and it takes a lot of love and patience.Take care of yourself and never blame yourself for his mood.
2007-02-04 08:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you afraid something is going to happen between them on the way to her boyfriends house? Tag team when they get there? What is the problem? I don't know you of course, but it would seem to me that your jealousy may be pushing your boyfriend away. Mood swings? No offense, but look in the mirror. Jealousy is a very destructive emotion if you allow it to run your life. I've been on both sides of jealousy and it sucks. Would you like someone questioning your every move? It comes down to trust. As for your friend, ask her why she keeps calling your boyfriend. If she can't or won't answer then maybe it's time to find a new friend. Are your boyfriend and her boyfriend friends?
2007-02-04 16:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jason D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly wouldn't trust her. Your BF called you and asked you first. She seems too needy. Let's be real she has no one but your man to pick her up, I dont blame you have to watch hoes sometimes, if her BF wants to c her why cant he find her a ride. Fuc* that shi* next thing that will happen is her callin sayn your man was tryn to holla you have to watch those kinda friends I have had way to many of them stab me in the back.
2007-02-04 16:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her boyfriend to tell her no. Say look i dont think i am being rude here to tell her you dont want to be her chaufeur. I think you would have a problem if one of your friends started calling me for rides. There are other people that they could call. I dont think she is trying to hit on you. Maybe i overreacted by telling her not to call you. But since I did, and she is going behind my back to do it. I don't understand her disrespecting me and going behind my back to do it. She has a boyfriend, let her call him.
2007-02-04 16:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Johny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are overreacting. Try talking to your friend. Ask her what they talk about or what happens during their rides together. I'm sure that nothing is happening. You're probably just feeling a little jealous.
P.S. If you think that your friend is lying to you, then talk to your boyfriend and listen to what he says. If he really loves you, then he won't lie to you.
2007-02-04 16:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... i don't think you're overreacting at all. well about the car rides you are. she just needs a ride to see her OWN boyfriend.
but with the obsessive calling to your boyfriend. i think that's a bit much.
just let her know, i mean REALLY know, that it makes you very uncomfortable that she talks to your boyfriend more than you do.
2007-02-04 16:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by vivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two are really "BFF", you should be able to trust each other and talk things through. You should ask her why she insists on your boyfriend driving her to her boyfriends house. If he really wanted to see her, your friend's boyfriend would make arrangements to pick her up.
2007-02-04 16:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by magnolia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama, over a ride. If you trust her then what the heck is the problem? You don't own that man.
2007-02-04 16:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a boyfriends name tattooed in your arm?
Good Call
2007-02-04 16:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Andre 3000 said that nothing is forever. You should have overreacted when you thought about putting his name on your arm.
2007-02-04 16:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by meatreturns 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋