he keeps stalking me and talking to me all of the time. I ignore him, but it doesn't work! What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
2007-02-04 08:17:54 · 17 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-04 08:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys think u are just playing hard to get, so they will keep trying. With guys like this unfortunately u have to cut their ego down, so they honestly know u are not interested. It seems cruel, but it is usually the only way they get the hint. You need to say something like........I would never date someone like u, or don't waste your time, I am never going to go out with u, so get the hint and back off. At least this way he will know u are truly not interested in him at all.
2007-02-04 16:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this dude is actually "stalking" you, he is a sick puppy. Report him to the Police immediately; some stalkers are DANGEROUS. For sure, tell your PARENTS or, other Adult in your Household NOW. If they will not support you, report this stalker to your School Counsellor; get it on record before the Jerk DOES something.
2007-02-04 16:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Alan H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy does not get it, you've told him no twice, then be prepared to come on very strongly, the next time he trys to talk to you, look him in the eye, and with your harshest voice tell him, "I have have said NO twice before, if you bother me one more time I will concider you a stalker, and I will file a complaint, get it!!" If you have to, cuss him out, and follow thru on your threat.
2007-02-04 16:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off all, be nice. You will probably end up in his shoes one day. Rejection sucks. Having said that, you have to be as firm as possible. Say " I'm just not into you. I'm sorry.". Don't give mixed signals, be firm but not mean. I've always hated having to reject someone who had the courage to approach me and be interested in me.
2007-02-04 16:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jason D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happend to me once i just started to yell at him and got some of my friends help me and if that doesnt work u could always ask a guy friend to pretend to be ur b/f and try to make ur stalker to leve u alone.
2007-02-04 16:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by MeganElizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you need to tell the police and let them be a ware of his stalking and let your friend know and your family
2007-02-04 16:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Summer G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm be very obviously mean to him.
my friend had this EXACT same problem. she would do the cruelest things to his face.
the thing that made it completely end was, she told his friend outloud veryy loudly she said "WILL YOU PLEASE TELL SIMON I DON'T LIKE HIM AT ALL?". she said that when he was around the corner. so he could definetly hear it. i would try it. it'll probably work for you too!
good luck!
2007-02-04 16:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by vivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him politely that you you don't have any interest in dating him and that those feelings will never change. Wish him luck in finding someone who can return his feelings.
2007-02-04 16:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaargh,some men are just so sleezy!!!!you must be giving him the wrong end of the stick,just tell him to F... off!!!
2007-02-04 16:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by asvanfunda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋