My friend got a "list" of things she was doing wrong....example she made him feel like he could do nothing right. There was more to this "list" that she refused to tell me. Why would she "accept" this and try to work on it? She is the type that she says she will not change for anyone....isnt this changing who she is?
2007-02-04 09:00:54 · 11 answers · asked by legluvr35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Isn't this from an episode of "Friends"?
2007-02-04 09:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes change is a good thing. If she isnt willing to work on things in her relationship she needs to move on. No one is perfect so she should be willing to try. I am sure this isnt her first relationship and it looks like it will not be her last. The things on her list might have been things that caused the breakup in her other relationships. Who knows her better than her best friend so thats might have been the reason she didnt show you her list. You might have saw that he was right and she didnt want to hear it from you also. Dont just look at things from one side there are always two sides to every story.
2007-02-04 17:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well First Of All I Think That It Actually Depends On The Relationship And If She Feels That It's Worth The Time,Sacrifice,Compromise,And Energy That It Takes To Make A Relationship More Better,And Stronger.And Then Again It Has to Be About Him Too And Not Just Her.
2007-02-04 17:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by RaunchyGurl1976_The Real Aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got a LIST of what is wrong with her!!! What is wrong with he is that she did not, give him back the list, and tell him where to stick it! Yes she is allowing herself to be changed, (actually more like manipulated), but if you say anything, she will just defend him. The best thing you can do is let her figure it out for herself, and help her, when she comes crying after the break up.
2007-02-04 17:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't give her a list of things that she does right, and all that he can focus on is the wrong, than he is just wrong for her!! NO one should have to change who they are for anyone else. Tell her to move on and find someone who will find no wrong with anything that she does!
2007-02-04 17:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Suzzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would sort of be changing who she is, in a way. If she is going to change for this guy, she must strongly care about him. However nobody should ask someone else to drastically change.
2007-02-04 17:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by Vshak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lot
2007-02-04 17:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably loves her bf very much, and is willing to change for him.
2007-02-04 17:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE!!!!
And by the way, that is changing for someone else.
2007-02-04 17:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by Suzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is trying to change her and mold her into something she's not. that is cruel and she shouldn't put up with it. she should break up with that loser
2007-02-04 17:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋