Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

If your husband abused you all the time both verbally& physically., if he drserted you financially after 14 yrs., If u found evidence he carried on in the marriage, if he reestablished himself out of state due to a restraining order, would you tell him u were in love w/ another man & have been since he left-even though u r not w/ the other man& probably never will be due to circumstances?The husband clearly wants out but refuses to file 4 divorce.He has refused counseling.We have 2 children

2007-02-04 14:28:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What's the best way to turn a guy on?

2007-02-04 14:28:32 · 7 answers · asked by Wicawango Fan 2 in Singles & Dating

To my bf for valentines day.
We have been together 3 1/2 months. He is 14......we haven't said "I love you" yet....
Is this a good poem?
What should I change?
Thanks!! ;-)
Have a great day!!

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Do you remember the time I first talked to you?

“You know she likes you, right”
Those were my words
I never thought it was me
who would be yours!!

When you're around
you light up my day
I'm so glad I've found you
don't ever go away

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Prince Charming is great
and so are you!

This Valentines Day
I just wanted to say
how special to me you are
in so many ways.



*Roses are red
violets are blue
nothing is better than being with you!!

2007-02-04 14:28:24 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 14:28:16 · 4 answers · asked by henrietta409 2 in Family

Most of my life I've had more male friends than female... I don't know why...

Barbie and Voltron were both fun, but I always had more male friends ...!! ;)

My very good (male) friend said to me the other day "don't you think it's a bit weird that you've got mostly male friends??"

It annoyed me, but got me thinking...

I honestly think i'm just not your average girly-type gal....

I do have a few close female friends though....

Maybe I'm a bit of a black sheep...? -- As I've never had a set group of friends, it's always been individual friends from different walks of life!!!

Thoughts guys?

Cheers.

2007-02-04 14:27:59 · 9 answers · asked by B 2 in Friends

i met this guy at party one night and we ended up hooking up.. just kissing.. he is actually four years older than me and lives on a different island. i talked to him on the phone and he said he might come back to where i live soon.
im worried though he only wants sex.. or atleast expecting it. i am not planning on doing that with him so what should i do? if or when we meet again should i make sure we are in a public place?
i dont know what to do

2007-02-04 14:27:40 · 3 answers · asked by hanalei 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends Aida,Stella, and I are in a club. They keep getting mad at me because I play with a deaf kid named Hussain. I feel pressured to stop playing with him, because they are threatening to kick me out of the club. I try to ignore them, and I still play with Hussain. They have been my friends since forever and I have only been friends with Hussain for this year. They also talk behind my back because they are mad that I "don't play with them enough" which I do. What should I do?

2007-02-04 14:27:40 · 9 answers · asked by wildthing365 2 in Friends

ok im black my family west indain and i was raised in open family where they dont care about race or looks. but im more intrested in men out side my race or culture but when i meet a guy they get so scared and they seem intrested but then when the convo get serous they cut things short why is that? are they scared is it bc im black. im starting to wonder is it me i thought it was the way i look i have full lips, hips, and butt ( im thick then some other females) could that be why? i have good quiltys im in college i love the arts and international movies. or could it be the family role.????

2007-02-04 14:27:24 · 1 answers · asked by mickie1108 3 in Singles & Dating

His name is Thomas, and he is obssessed with my friend Allana! He's asked her out like 100 times in the past month and she doesnt like him and he knows that! I was like,"Thomas,why do u think I'm annoying, and not Allana?" And he said,"Well Allana's hotter, its ok 4 her to be annoying." Thomas is really nice, but sometimes, he gets 2 caught up in the moment with Allana to realize I have feelings and I like him! And then he told me,"Jenna, you're hot, but I'd rather go out with Allana if I could!" Allana was like,"I know I'm better than Jenna." She was being sarcastic but all of this is hurting me! And my ex Andy doesnt think shes hot, but he said,"Yeah, Allana you're cooler than Jenna, I think she's a loser." I still like my ex a tad bit, and Thomas, and they are SO not worth it... HELP ME!

2007-02-04 14:26:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at about 4 pm 2day......he said
he'd call later......well it's 9:30 pm & he still hasn't.
Should I call him? I really want to talk.
Thing is, he doesen't have a cell, so his mom may answer.....what if she thinks it's "too late"?
[he's 14]
to call or not to call???



--when we talked earlier, the conversation was all confusing b/c we were trying to make plans [which didn't work out] and i need to know that everything is still ok since the very chaotic confusion, and me being all wierd--

*please answer nicely

2007-02-04 14:25:52 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

When you're a doormat ... U give and give to people surrounding you and in the end they just hurt you like that. Going home is mentally suffering and even at work ...

Wonder how can a person easily hurt another.

2007-02-04 14:25:42 · 24 answers · asked by Sue3612 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was just wondering what the opinion of other females of what a guy could do to make his girlfriend feel special and loved after he majorly screwed up and violated her trust?

2007-02-04 14:25:19 · 12 answers · asked by Carrington 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-04 14:25:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

boyfriend trouble..and bff is tlakin to him

2007-02-04 14:24:38 · 15 answers · asked by courtney 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this girl since skool started now im makking moves oin her but a "friend" has been hitting on her now he walks her and tehy r closse but i ask her wuz up w/them and she is like noting. well wen we go to our class she waits 4 me and tells me to hurry up aand walk w/her and bosses me around sumtimes and calls me say my hair is cute but does this mean she likes me b-cuz if it does i would ask her but what if not?oh and my friend told made uo sumtig that she and my friend were kissing and she said like really altered no and 4 him not to tell me noting?

2007-02-04 14:24:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 14:23:40 · 2 answers · asked by the game 1 in Friends

i want some ideas that would let me know i care about her, and "make her day" any ideas are appreciated, cause at the moment i have a mental block.

--Thanks

2007-02-04 14:23:35 · 5 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

What would you want? Would you want a promise ring, and make the rings ya'lls thing? Or anything? What would be a great symbol of committment, that would mean the world to you?

2007-02-04 14:23:06 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 14:22:14 · 7 answers · asked by ♥JOANNIE♥ 1 in Friends

I'm not in love with him and he's not in love with me, I don't know if he is in love with his girlfriend or not, but I like being with him. We started just play talking and then it became touching and sexual activities. We havn't had sex yet, but I really want to, but I'm starting to feel bad for his girlfriend. Should I just continue and forget her, should I stay just playing without sex, or should I stop all together. I really don't want to stop, it's too much fun, but I kinda feel bad sometimes.

2007-02-04 14:21:39 · 16 answers · asked by star579e 1 in Singles & Dating

i call and call but he dusnt kall bak should i break upwit him or try to work it out and like just wait

2007-02-04 14:19:24 · 14 answers · asked by erin.tadder 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 and a boy, but I'm gay. My parents are hohophobic. How should I bring it up to my mom, if I get a bf/she asks me?? I'm really stressed out.

2007-02-04 14:18:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 14:18:40 · 12 answers · asked by purplecasinokitten 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I was watching a movie on Lifetime. In it a little girl was beaten and then raped by her father. The mother comes in and knocks him over the head with something....but, he makes her feel sorry for him some how. Anyway, she takes her daughter to the hospital and then leaves with him.

That is far from what I would of done. It would have took all my will power not to have killed him...

2007-02-04 14:18:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean he goes out when he wants and it seems he wants to be at his friends all the time, and not with your wife and kids... He Spends the night out because he is drunk and can not drive. this is 5 days of the week.. . And he tells me Sorry and he can not change.. .. So is this right in a Marriage? I do not think so

2007-02-04 14:17:56 · 15 answers · asked by Better than Her 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You see I have been dating this girl for about a year now, and we have 1 child together and she had a son who is 15 months. Anyway we were good for about 8 months then all of a sudden things got really really really bad. We fight all the time and half the time I don't even now the reason why we started fighting in the first place. Anyway she started to talk and hang out with an X behind my back and I found out she denied it and the next day all e-mails were deleated from her to him and him to her. Anyway that's not the problem. Now she won't kiss me, hug me, sleep in the same bed as me, or barely look at me. So I got custody papers over are daughter ready to do to the courthouse but the problem lies in the son. See I raised him his whole life I'm the only dad he knows. But I have no legal rights to him and have to basically let him go. I love him and he loves me but is it worth staying in a relationship where I think she is cheating on me just to be with the child? Please help?

2007-02-04 14:16:38 · 16 answers · asked by Eric S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 14:15:45 · 13 answers · asked by chibichibimoon 2 in Singles & Dating

i pretty sure the guy i like likes somebody else. he told me he liked me, but when i was cheering at a game he was sitting next to another girl. that girl is now the 4th on his top 8.. i used to be the 4th. all his friends told my sister he really liked me but i'm not sure anymore.. what do you think?

2007-02-04 14:15:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To my bf for valentines day.
We have been together 3 1/2 months. He is 14......we haven't said "I love you" yet....
Is this a good poem?
What should I change?
Thanks!! ;-)
Have a great day!!

2007-02-04 14:15:37 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi i have a gf and I love her and she loves me, and I live in usa and she lives in Jordan...!

how can I impress her and make her happy...like the only thing i do is just send her emails and text her and call her every month?
but I still think thats not enough...so how can I make her more happer? what can I do

2007-02-04 14:15:35 · 2 answers · asked by hot_kissmwa 1 in Singles & Dating